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[ Sunday, July 13, 2008 ]

caned legs again

Here is another good Asian spanking video that features a switch being used on the back of this poor young ladies legs.  This is a long video, streaming from a slow site, so I you will need to click the “MORE” link below to view it.  It adds too much to the load time of the main page to have it here.  Sometimes it is hit or miss with the server this streams from, so I recommend playing the video, then hitting pause, and coming back to it a few minutes later.  With the latest version of Realplayer, you can now save these flash files to your hard drive.  This also works on YouTube for those of you who were not aware.

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[ Friday, July 11, 2008 ]

The biggest myth in spanking videos?

Obviously most of us look for spanking videos that have a good sense of realism incorporated into them.  As a producer of spanking videos for over ten years, I have done my best to create realistic scenes.  But, I am just as guilty as everyone else out there when it comes to doing the one thing that I know of very few instances of it actually happening, and that is multi-implement spankings.  Over the years I have obviously had the opportunity to talk to, interview, correspond with, and read detailed accounts of how people were physically disciplined when they were younger.  I personally know of only two instances (in which I believe the source) that a spanking took place in the home in which more than one implement was used.  One was a very early model at Realspankings.com who related an experience in which she came home late and her mom was very angry.  The mother instructed the father to paddle this girls butt with the paddle that was always used, but after 5-6 swats, the paddle broke.  The dad figured it was over, but the mother insisted that a belt be used to finish the job.  I also know of another case in which a girl I know from the deep South, was occasionally punished with a belt and then the switch, but only for very serious offenses.

I personally use a progression of implements in scenes, because it is the easiest way to work a model into a harder spanking.  Generally the first couple of implements are used only so I can actually get to the implement of choice for the scene.  There are many implements that the typical model fears, but I have found I can work someone into being spanked with just about any implement, if I choose the right progression of implements to get them there.  But when we are dealing with the reality of a spanking in the home, there is generally little concern for working the person being spanked gently into the experience, and maximum effect is typically the goal from the very beginning. 

In addition to the multi-implement version of spanking we use in video, the varying states of undress also seems to be pretty far from reality.  I have yet to hear a true account from anyone (once again, that I believe) in which their typical spanking involved varying states of undress.  This is not to say that bare bottom spankings are not a reality, but more the fact that just like the implement, whatever state of dress you are made to assume for your spanking is typically how you stay from the beginning to the end.  We like to make a big production about it in spanking videos, but a spanking that starts on the pants, then goes to the panties, and then bare bottom is for the most part, a product of spanking videos.

So am I wrong?  Did you grow up in an environment in which a spanking meant going over the knee for a handspanking and then bending over for a little time with the belt?  Did the first half of your spanking begin on your jeans only to find yourself with your butt bare?  If you committed the most severe offense in your parent’s mind, would you find yourself coming home to see a belt, paddle, and hairbrush sitting on the table?  Or am I right, and this type of situation simply lives in the minds of perverts such as myself?

[ Saturday, July 05, 2008 ]

Another free spanking video

From the member’s area of Realspankings.com

Today I present for you another school type paddling video.  On the day that we filmed this, I was trying to recreate a school paddling scenario, that I know to have been a reality at several schools.  I have talked to many people in which the schools that they attended, did all the paddling at a specific time of the day.  Generally it was after school, occasionally it happened at lunch time.  The main purpose seems to have been the need for a same sex teacher or administrator to be the one to apply the paddling.  In one specific case that I know of, at the end of the day the male VP and a female coach would meet at the VP’s office and paddle any students who had earned one that day.  The students just lined up and waited their turn.  The female coach would paddle all the female students with the VP as the witness, and then the VP would paddle the male students with the coach as the witness.  This allowed for district policy to be followed, and did not require the VP (who was in charge of all student discipline male and female), to have to interrupt classes to get a female to paddle the female students.  Of course, as the goofy long haired VP for my videos, I had to break district policy and make sure that I was the one swinging the paddle.  This is a low res version of a classic clip from Realspankings.com, part of the Realspankingspass family of sites.

School Paddling Camera 1 Video

School Paddling Camera 2 Video

[ Friday, July 04, 2008 ]

Retro Spanking

There are a few sites out there that are creating retro type spanking content.  The picture above is from OTK Mom and there are aspects of this type of work that I find appealing.  I like the realistic nature of the videos they are producing and like that they are trying to create a 50’s sort of feel to their scenes.  Sometimes I like that the videos have an old film feel, sometimes is is a little annoying.  I like the domestic feel of the scene, but am still not a big fan of the “mommy, I have been a bad boy” sort of dialog.  Obviously I like, and even produce spanking videos that feel realistic and have a sense of an older teen being spanked by a parental figure, but I do not think I will ever find the naughty spankee screaming “mommy” all that appealing.

I think the main attraction to the older feel of a spanking video is that in the times that are being depicted, spanking was practiced more frequently in the home.  It was a time when it was not all that unrealistic to be put over mom’s knee for a long session with the hairbrush.  The older style clothing, the poor lighting, and the film grain added to the video does indeed help create what feels like a very realistic scenario.  As always, this is leading up to a question for all of you.  I have thought a lot about trying to film scenes of this nature and question how it would be received.  The question really is, do I want to take a good scene, with great lighting and high res cameras, and dumb it down a little to make it appear older?  Can you create the same sort of 50’s feel with a crystal clear picture and perfect audio?  What is more important authenticity, or picture clarity? 

[ Monday, June 30, 2008 ]

Classic School Paddling video

I wanted to begin a new feature on the blog in which I showcase some of the videos from the earliest days of the various websites that are part of the Realspankingspass.  This week is one of the very first school corporal punishment style videos we filmed in our first studio.  Due to the number of downloads my blog sees, I am only able to give you a low res version of the video here.  This week’s video features Holly from Realspankings.com receiving one of her very first school type paddlings.  For those of you who followed Holly’s career over the years, you may have forgotten how sweet and innocent she used to look.  No tattoos or crazy hair colors, just an innocent 18 year old girl bending over for some hard swats with a wooden school paddle.  Click the link below and “save target as” to download to your computer.  Enjoy

Holly’s School Paddling

[ Sunday, June 29, 2008 ]

The Walk

From the member’s area of Spanking Online

There is an aspect of spanking and corporal punishment that I find adds a lot to a scene, but have been unable to do much of on video, and that is the walk.  There is an extra sense of anticipation and dread that goes along with having to travel in some manner to the location of an upcoming punishment.  It can happen in many forms; being sent to your room to wait for your punishment, being escorted by the spanker to a place that is better suited for a spanking to take place, or even being sent to retrieve the implement to be used on your own bottom.

From the member’s area of Realspankings.com

I think a lot of what I find exciting about this aspect of a spanking is that it once again hits on a couple of things that I like to see in a spanking scene, which are formality and cooperation.  Sitting down and discussing the misbehavior, deciding on the fact that a spanking will be used as the punishment, and then relocating to an area that is ideally suited for a spanking to take place makes it a very formal event.  It is far different than just being angry and pulling the naughty young lady over your knee for a spontaneous spanking.  In that same regards, this process makes the spankee more of a participant in their spanking and helps to create ownership of their offense.  It actually forces them to actively participate in their own spanking.  They are not just going to be spanked; they have to walk themselves to the location that it is going to take place.

From the member’s area of Realspankings.com

Another highly appealing aspect to the walk is the anticipation.  Once you are being sent to the location to be spanked, the decision has already been made.  This is far different than being sent to your room so the problem can be discussed.  This is a situation in which each step you take brings you closer to the moment you dread.  You do not want this to happen, you know your bottom is about to be blistered, but yet you keep placing one foot in front of the other and are assisting in the process of your own punishment.  For me, some of the foundations of what I really find exciting about spanking exist at this very moment. 

From the member’s area of Realspankings.com

Spanking is exciting and appealing to me on many levels, and much of it has nothing to do with the actual physical application of the spanking.  For whatever reason, the walk and situations that create a similar dynamic can really make the difference between a good spanking scene and a bad one.  It goes even beyond just being sent to your room to wait for a spanking.  I also find the concept of being escorted to where you are to be spanked quite exciting.  This makes the anticipation instant and there is no doubt that when the destination is reached, the punishment will begin.  It allows those final thoughts of “why did I do that”?  It creates and defines instant dominance and submission when someone is able to grab you by the arm and take you somewhere to bare your bottom and apply physical discipline.

from the member’s area of Firm Hand Spanking

The final situation that falls within this category is being sent to get the implement.  There are very few acts that feel as submissive as actually getting up and going to locate the item that will be the tool used for your discipline.  It is one thing to get spanked with a paddle or a hairbrush, but quite a different thing to go and fetch a paddle or hairbrush to be used on your bottom.  Having to carry the implement gives you that extra moment of dread as you consider what it is going to feel like.  In reality, you could probably just run, but you know it is your actions that created this moment and you are somehow compelled to continue the walk, carrying the tool that is about to be responsible for great pain and discomfort on your bottom.  Once again, before any spanking has even taken place we have created a dynamic that is almost as powerful as the discipline itself.

From the member’s area of Spanking Online

Unfortunately, with the limitations of a studio shoot, this is often hard to create.  It takes a while to light a scene and get all of the equipment setup in a manner in which it is not visible.  It takes a lot of time and effort to try and add parts to a spanking scene that take place outside of the primary room in which filming is taking place.  We have played with this concept a little, but if the situation was a little easier to capture, I would incorporate it much more often.  So, for all of you consensual adult spankers out there that are looking to add a little flavor to your spanking and discipline sessions, do not underestimate the power of the walk.  I find that anything that the person in trouble has to do to assist with their own punishment can bring a lot to the traditional and formal feel of a spanking.

[ Saturday, June 28, 2008 ]

What is a spanking paddle?

For me, when I think of a paddle that is intended to be used as a disciplinary tool, the implement above is the first thing to pop into my head.  I am sure that whatever your first experience was with a paddle has a lot to do with what you picture when thinking about a paddle.  For me, a paddle being an actual reality, was a concept that was introduced to me when I moved to Texas and I realized that spanking does indeed take place in some school districts.  The paddle above is pretty close to what sat on the desk of the VP every time I was sent to the office in junior high.

It only takes a very basic search online for spanking implements to realize that there are a lot of implements out there that are paddles, that are far different from my own image of a spanking paddle.  When considering writing this post, I was forced to consider what defines a paddle as a paddle.  It is most confusing when you add leather implements into the equation.  At what point does a strip of leather transition from being a strap and technically becomes a paddle?  If a piece of leather is shaped like a paddle, and not a belt, is it now a paddle?  I would have to argue that this is not the case.  I have seen many “prison straps” that seem to have all of the dimensions of a large fraternity paddle, but are clearly still a strap.  My personal thoughts are that it comes down to follow through on the swing.  I feel any implement that can be swung like a belt, in that after the implement makes contact with the bottom that you continue through the swing, is a strap.  A large piece of leather, that has been stiffened enough that you would swing it like a wooden paddle, is therefore a paddle.  When defining implements for scene descriptions online, this is pretty much the thought process behind it.  Within this, I feel there is a category that fits between the two, which is what I would call a slapper.  This is essentially a small leather paddle, that does not really meet the qualifications of a paddle or a strap.

We are quite fortunate with the Internet that there are now tons of new paddle type implements out there for sale.  Over the years people have begun to get very creative is the types of paddles they are creating.  Ten years ago I could only find wooden paddles for sale online, but now they are made of everything you can think of.  At the studio we have a couple of lexan paddles which are quite effective.  As effective as they are, I did not use them much myself for spanking scenes.  The problem with the lexan paddle, is that it does not make for great video.  A lexan paddle hurts far worse than most people can imagine, and as a result, a spanking video with a lexan paddle always seems a little light.  These paddles hit with the same thud as a wooden paddle, but add an incredible sting that you do not expect from a paddle.  I like to film videos in which the spanking seems as hard as the reaction you are getting from the model, and with a lexan paddle, it sometimes appears as though the spankee is acting, while in reality it really does hurt that much. 

I think that heavy leather and rubber makes a good substitute for a wooden paddle because it is less dangerous than using a wooden implement but still has the weight of wood and hits with a similar thud.  A couple of interesting options are the “Frat Bat” from Adam and Gillian’s:

This leather paddle is 1/2” thick, so it really does function more like a paddle than a large strap.  Another interesting paddle, while no longer available, seems like it would be a very effective alternative to wood:

I do not think I am a big fan of the metal backing they use, but a tire tread is certainly as heavy and effective as wood, and probably a little safer.  Cane IAC has come up with an interesting little implement:

Which is a small wooden paddle that straps to your hand.  I have not tried it, but it seems like a great concept and it fixes the problems of the spanker getting a sore hand from a long handspanking.  Here are a few options for you to look at when shopping for spanking paddles:

CANE IAC Implements
Spanking Paddles by Walt
Adam & Gillian’s
Stockroom

[ Tuesday, June 24, 2008 ]

Comment reply

Recently I received the comment,

“A little off the immediate subject, but I was struck by your comment that “it is much easier to find good spanking models than it is to find safe and effective on camera spankers.” Not being in the business I don’t have any direct experience with this but I would assume you’d have plenty of volunteers. What is it that makes it so hard to find people who are “safe and effective"?"

It is a good question, so I thought I would address it as a blog post.  The first answer is yes, there are plenty of volunteers and over the years we have had dozens of people offer to spank for free.  The primary problem I run into is having a spanker that makes the model feel very comfortable.  The main way I gauge how well I am doing on the production side of things is if a model reschedules for another shoot, following her first shoot.  My entire goal with a new model is to make her feel comfortable with everyone involved and to slowly build up trust.  When a model is new, I am generally the only male around for her initial shoots, or there are no males present at all.  Let’s face it, most women find it easier to get naked, on or off camera, in a room with a few girls in it, and not a bunch of guys standing around checking them out.  So the first problem I run into with male spankers, even without the spanking, is if they can conduct themselves in a way that the model does not feel like she is being checked out all the time by the guys in the room.  Let’s face it, many of the models we get are young and beautiful and it takes great restraint from older men to not just leave their jaw hanging open when she strips off all her clothes.  Any sign from a male spanker that he is sexually attracted to the model, quickly creates a level of discomfort.  A young lady is less likely to want to go over the lap of some strange guy for a spanking, if he spent the last minute staring at her ass.  I personally go far out of my way to make sure that this is never the case.  I will illustrate with an example.  There are models that I have spanked dozens of times, have had them fully naked and grabbing their ankles for me, and even had them naked on the bed in the diaper position with their legs spread for a spanking.  But, when the scene is over and it is time for her to change her clothes for the next scene, I leave the room.  I am the person that makes sure that before we shoot a “punishment profile”, that there is a robe in the room to hand to a model the second we stop filming.  Once again, even though she was just fully naked in front of me, I leave the room until she has put her clothes back on.  Not all guys are able to show this kind of restraint.  Can you imagine getting a job at a topless bar as a bouncer and being told that you can’t look at the dancers?

Most guys that want to work as a spanker are not doing it as a career or for the money, they want to spank pretty young bottoms and see beautiful naked girls running around.  I can’t say that I blame them, but I can say it is not good for business when it is clear that they are there because it turns them on.  Someone really into spanking also seems to have a little bit of their own agenda when it comes to doing the spanking.  As spankos, we all have our little twists on the fetish and things that we like to do or see in a video.  Many spankers out there have waited their whole life for an opportunity to spank hot college girls in a role playing situation, and when they finally get the chance they want to enjoy it.  As subtle as it may be, the models pick up very fast on who is enjoying giving them a spanking and it effects how they feel about the situation.  Another good example is the fact that in real life, I love to rub a freshly spanked bottom.  A beautiful, warm, glowing, freshly spanked bottom draped over your knee is truly a wonderful thing.  As a true ass man, and a spanking pervert, there is nothing more appealing to me than the site of a freshly spanked bottom.  What I really want to do at the end of a spanking is rub and squeeze that butt for hours, but you will be hard pressed to find a scene in which I do any rubbing at all.  When an otk scene is stopped for any length of time for lecturing or whatever, you will generally see my hand resting on her lower back, and never her butt.  I believe it goes well beyond personal conduct, in trying to make a model feel comfortable.  It is not just about being a good boy and not acting like a pervert, it is about being able to break the ice and interacting with the model in a way that just makes it all friendly and takes some of the nervousness out of the situation.

It is also very hard to find someone who can deliver basic lines on camera in an authoritative manner.  Personally, I think I suck at it.  I recently read a review of male spankers on a spanking forum, and someone posted that “that long hair guy sucks, I can never hear what he is saying”.  The truth is, if there was someone who could do it even slightly better than me, I would never had appeared on camera in the first place.  I have yet to have anyone apply for a job that has an acting background, and I promise you, it is harder than it seems.  I have had male spankers whose hands were trembling so much, that I had to stop the scene before we even started, just to let them relax and calm down.  The truth is, the spanking is the easy part.  The spanking I can teach, but I cannot teach someone interpersonal communication skills, nor can I teach them to be less excited.  However, with the exception of Coach, I have yet to find a male spanker who actually has the experience and skill as a spanker that he claims to.  Having given a few dozen handspankings in no way makes you qualified to swing a belt, cane, or paddle.  The very hardest part of administering an on camera spanking, to a model who does not enjoy being spanked, is being able to read body language and non-verbal cues.  It is not easy to take a girl who has no desire to be spanked and to guide her through a spanking that leads to tears.  When this has been accomplished, you better be sure you got her there the right way, or you will never see her again.

On top of all of this, you then have to find someone who is willing to appear on the internet on a “porn” site.  No one really makes a living as a spanker, so this means that they have a real job.  Are they willing to risk their current job for this opportunity?  My decision to do this for a living has killed a whole lot of future career paths should I decide to do something different.  The last time we put out an open casting call for male spankers, local to the Denver area, resulted in five interviews.  When all was said and done, we ended up with Mr. King, the only one who came close to having anything remotely resembling what we were looking for.  He showed some promise, but after the thrill of the naked girls bending over for a spanking thing wore off, he seemed to just fade away.  The truth is, it is far more work than you could ever imagine.  It is not just showing up, spanking some girls, and then going home.  We do not script our scenes word for word, we present an outline to the spanker and the spankee and it is the job of the spanker to make the scene work.  Once the spanking begins, there is no redoing it.  Once those cameras start rolling, the spanker is pretty much on their own to make it all work.  There is no yelling “cut” half way through a spanking, expecting that we will start over.  If something unexpected happens, it is the job of the spanker to make it work in the scene.  I have had many people ask how I manage to keep from getting “excited” during a scene.  The simple truth is that with all that is going on and all of the pressure that is on you as a spanker, when the record button is pressed, your biggest focus is on not screwing up and making sure you get good content and keep the model happy.

[ Sunday, June 22, 2008 ]

Link Trade

Attention all spanking webmasters!  For the next few weeks I am offering a free link trade on my blog.  If you have a spanking site that you would like listed here, add a text link to this site (http://www.thespankingblog.com), send an e-mail to with a link to the page that you have put my link on.  Once I have verified the link, I will add a link to your site on the front page of my blog.

Conditions:
- I will not link to a site that is using other sites’ content without permission.
- If your site is a blog, it needs to be more than one giant advertisement.  I do not mind supporting blogs that participate in revshare programs, but you need to be adding a little something to your blog that makes it different than all of the others.
- The site needs to be spanking oriented, following the rules of what most of us find to be acceptable content (i.e. legal age models, no blood, safe spanking, etc)

MY blog sees a lot of spanking specific traffic with more than 1300 registered users and more than 10,000 unique hits a day.  Most high profile blogs such as mine charge a pretty penny for advertising.  I am offering you a chance to showcase your spanking site free of charge.  Adding my link in a highly visible spot on your site will be rewarded with many hits back to your page.

Paddled butts

Spent some time this weekend catching up on my favorite spanking videos to watch, a good hard paddling.  Here are some of the highlights from around the world.  At RealspankingsInstitute.com Claire’s school skirt is raised and her panties lowered, as she assumes my favorite position, grabbing her ankles:

From the member’s area of RealspankingsInstitute.com

From the member’s area of RealspankingsInstitute.com

Over at Realspankings.com Jackie bends over the desk and raises her skirt for a long session with a lexan paddle:

From the member’s area of Realspankings.com

From the member’s area of Realspankings.com

And a final treat from one of my favorite spanking models, Abigail Whittaker who takes a good paddling on two different sites this week.  First a nice hard paddling on her tight white pants over at Firm Hand Spanking:

From the member’s area of Firm Hand Spanking

From the member’s area of Firm Hand Spanking

Abigail’s private discipline session continues at Girl’s Boarding School with a pants and panties down bare bottom paddling:

From the member’s area of Girl’s Boarding School

From the member’s area of Girl’s Boarding School

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