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[ Thursday, December 18, 2014 ]
Most popular post
I try my best to stay in touch with the member’s of my various sites and provide them with the content that they are looking for. My Tumblr page has done a lot to help me understand what people want to see the most. I post many animated gifs and how many likes and shares tells me a lot. Any picture or gif that gets more than 150 likes or shares show that people like this kind of content. I have been surprised that my most popular Tumblr post of all time is the one below with more than 11,000 shares and likes. No other has come anywhere close to the 10k mark.
[ Wednesday, December 17, 2014 ]
The reality of the use of the belt to punish a teen girl’s bottom
The videos I film for my various websites, while some you have to suspend reality a bit, I certainly try very hard to provide realistic corporal punishment as it exists in the real world. In actual reality, corporal punishment exists in the home between a parents and a child, in some schools, judicial, and between consenting adults. For most people, our spanking desires began at a young age and were generally a result of something we experienced or something we saw growing up. There will never be anything sexy for me about a five year old getting a spanking from a parent, but I am guilty in the sense that there is indeed something exciting about an older teenage girl getting punished for something she very much deserved. Whether it is in the school environment, in which she elects to receive a paddling, or in the home environment in which she bends over for a well-deserved spanking from a parent, there is some excitement in thinking about that concept.
I have written before about the fact that it is not that it is a teen that makes it exciting; it is the fact that it is real. Yes, there can be “real discipline” between adults, but for the most part it is indeed consensual and one or both adults probably have a spanking fetish. True corporal punishment is generally non-consensual and involves someone being punished for something that they did and they are getting a punishment that they in no way want. There are still a few schools out there in which a high school girl can be paddled and have no say in it, but for the most part, corporal punishment is something she elects to receive in lieu of another punishment. So, if we really want to consider how corporal punishment does indeed still exist in this country, and does not involve young children, what we are looking out is the reality of how an older teen my still be disciplined in the privacy of her own home.
While this can happen anywhere, it is still only common in the South. My own experiences growing up, as far as the girls in my neighborhood getting spanked, there were a couple that I know that were spanked well into the high school years. This being out of the maybe 4-5 girls who I could get to share the fact that they were spanked at all. Having just recently visited my Texas home town, I can tell you that not much has changed. If we go a little deeper into the woods of places like Mississippi and Alabama, I would have to guess that a 17-18 year old girl, still living at home, is not immune to the spanking process when it is needed. Every girl that I knew, or have interviewed for my sites, that was spanked past the age of 14 pretty much had the same spanking experience. With very few exceptions the punishment was from her mom or dad, with a belt, over whatever she happened to be wearing at the time. This would typically be tight jeans, or jean shorts, with the occasional spanking taking place over pj’s or maybe even a swimsuit. Yes, I have heard about the occasional bare bottom spanking, but as far as I can tell that it pretty rare for an older teen girl.
So, if we are considering real life corporal punishment, in this day and age, in this country, of a fully developed girl approaching adulthood, the reality of it is dad’s belt applied forcefully to her teen bottom. I accept this and embrace this on my site. I still do not feel that corporal punishment is the most effective form of punishment for kids or teens (I have never spanked any of my kids of any age), but if we are exploring realistic corporal punishment, then this scenario needs to be addressed. As people who are into spanking and want realism, it is hard not to find the thought of an 18 year old girl, getting in more trouble than she has ever known, being sent to her room to have her bottom worn out with the belt, at least a little bit exciting.
Just as with the school corporal punishment videos that are so heavily featured on Realspankings.com we tend to shoot realistic strapping videos pretty heavily. Our members seem to really like to be able to watch the reactions of real girls, some as young as 18, receive what is a genuine punishment. When I bend a young lady over and pull off my belt, my goal is indeed to apply the exact same punishment that young ladies who still get spanked at home would receive. I have learned that a proper belt spanking, even over jeans and panties can be quite effective. The belt I use is not as thick as many Western belts I have seen, but it is enough to get the job done. I would guess that I give more strokes than the typical dad would to his daughter, but I am filming a video, and 5-6 strokes is just not enough to make our members happy. I do not believe in any sort of warm-up and always swing as hard as I can from the very first stroke. Tears are not uncommon during the strappings I administer and every young lady certainly ends up with major welts and a fairly bruised bottom. I did a great one last week in which it was a candid interview with Alyssa and she compared my strapping with the frequent ones she received from her dad growing up and it was quite interesting to get that perspective.
So, if hard and realistic strappings are something that you like to see, and you want to see them administered as they are on a daily basis in the homes throughout the South, I can be quite honest in saying we are producing some pretty good work in our new studio. We still film tons of strappings on the bare, but we try to provide a good mix with the very realistic ones. With the strappings that are over jeans, all scenes end with a bare bottom reveal so you can see what the actual results are of a hard strapping. This gives you a little insight as to the little secrets that naughty teen girls are really hiding under those tight jeans when they are walking the halls of their high schools. All animations above are from recent strappings filmed in HD for the member’s area of Realspankings.com
[ Monday, December 15, 2014 ]
A bruised and sore bottom for the naughty girl
I guess it is fair to say that I have a bit of a reputation as a hard spanker. I would not say that this is an unfair characterization of how I generally choose to administer an on camera spanking, or even an off camera discipline session. When giving the whole idea some thought, there are several reasons why I think that a spanking from me tends to be a memorable event.
The first, and certainly the most important, is that a spanking is and has always been designed to be a punishment. It is the application of a painful stimulus for the sole purpose of eliminating undesirable behavior. Yes, I have a spanking fetish and yes, there is a sexual component to the whole process of administering, receiving, even simply watching a spanking take place. But the one thing that has never been part of my fetish is anything remotely resembling a playful spanking. I do not go to spanking play parties, nor do I go to spanking clubs or events. While there may indeed be something that is a little disciplinary that takes place at these events, for the most part it is playful. The year that I went to the Shadowlane event in Palm Springs, I did not administer a single spanking over four days. It is not that the opportunity did not present itself, as I am somewhat high profile in the online spanking world and was approached by many people asking for a spanking. I went to many parties and was asked at all of them to administer some sort of public spanking, but in all instances I had to politely decline.
You might find it crazy, that as someone who is very into spanking that I could go to a spanking convention, be even a little bit famous and recognized, and have women of all ages just about climbing over my lap for a spanking, and not spank a single one of them. The truth is, they had not done anything that had earned them a spanking in my eyes. There were no set rules or guidelines that I had provided them in which they had broken. They were looking for a playful spanking, maybe even a painful spanking, but these were not young ladies that deserved to be punished. I am not a sadist, there is no part of my spanking fetish that revolves around simply causing someone else pain. My fetish is deeply grounded in providing strict, and often severe, discipline for someone who deserves it. They not only deserve it, but they have actually made enough bad decisions that they have earned it.
When the above conditions have been met, then I am the first person to step up to administer a spanking. This is where my reputation for severity starts to kick in, if someone has actually acted in a manner in which they have earned a spanking, then I do my very best to make sure it is an event to remember. Someone who goes through the effort to contact me for real life discipline is warned well in advance what they can expect. Anyone who makes the decision to be spanked by me for real life infractions can expect four things, no matter what, on any occasion that they have the misfortune for coming to me for being punished.
The first is that they will be spanked far more severely than they could have ever wanted. If they are coming to me, even if for real life infractions, than they have a spanking fetish. I will never just feed someone’s fetish, and they can count on getting far more than they ever hoped for. It will not be pleasant and there will be no warm-up of any kind. The purpose of this spanking is not to give them memories to masturbate to, it is to punish them for a behavior that they have engaged in that they should not have. I need for them to realize within the first ten strokes, that even as an adult with a spanking fetish, that this punishment is for real and is something that they would likely not want to repeat. I will make sure that for the duration of the punishment that it never gets any easier and that by the time it is over, it will have been one of the most difficult to endure experiences of their life.
The second thing that they can expect is that tears will always be the goal. This does not always happen, as I have found that with adult women, tears are not always just a result of pain. There tends to be a heavy emotional element as well, so pain alone is not always enough to bring tears. I do find that as trust is built, tears become much more common on future punishments, should additional discipline be necessary. When I say that tears are the goal, I mean tears are the goal from the beginning. I know a lot of people that start a spanking at a mild pace, and then slowly build until the person being spanked finally breaks down, and then it ends. I personally do not understand this process at all and see it as a wasted opportunity. Why would I give someone a spanking for several minutes that is bearable for them? If we look at the root of spanking, being childhood punishments, what parent ever provided some sort of warm-up when disciplining their child? If I wasted two minutes of a spanking, allowing someone to adjust to the pain of their punishment, it would be a disservice to them and a failure on my part as a disciplinarian.
The third and fourth things that someone coming to me for a punishment can expect are closely related, and they are bruising and long term soreness. Once again, I am not a sadist and I gain no pleasure from marking the skin of a young woman, but I see it as a very important component to a proper punishment. Most importantly, when a spanking is done the punishment should not be over. The last thing I want is for a spanking to end, endorphins are going strong, and the person leaves with almost a bit of a high. A couple hours later their bottom is barely warm and they are now at a heightened sexual state, which just leads to masturbation and positive reinforcement regarding the whole experience. Instead, I want the endorphins to begin to wear off and for them to start to realize that the punishment is just beginning. When the high from the experience starts to go away I want them to begin to feel that throbbing on their bottom. There is a slight transitional period where the throbbing can be confused with a pleasurable feeling, but given a couple of hours, I want there to be no doubt that what they are feeling is not going to be pleasurable at all.
Ideally, if I have done my job to the best of my ability, then the next morning will be far worse. A proper punishment spanking, one meant to extinguish bad behavior for good, will result in a bottom so sore that it is not just sitting down that is a problem. From the moment the recently punished girl wakes up, I want her very first thought to be how sore her bottom is. When she pulls herself out of bed, if my job was done well, as she walks to the bathroom, she will be acutely aware of how tight the muscles in her bottom are. There will be nothing sexy about it for her; ideally it will be like the day after her hardest glutes workout ever at the gym. If I have really done my job the best of my ability, she will find herself squatting over the toilet when she pees.
You have to understand that we are talking about someone who has a spanking fetish, but truly wanted to be punished, in a very realistic manner, for very real life infractions. She has spent a good portion of her life fantasizing about being spanked. There have been many nights spent in bed thinking about and masturbating to the thought of being scolded, or baring her bottom, and eventually being physically punished. For most young ladies, they do not fantasize as far into the future of the true reality of not being able to sit down comfortably for a couple days after. Yes, there is still something quite sexy about a bruised bottom, but over the course of a day or two, it just becomes bothersome. When I work quite hard at it, it is indeed possible to create a bottom so sore that tears become a reality when attempting to find a comfortable position to sit the following day.
My goal is for the person who was spanked to not want to ever repeat the behavior that caused their bottom to be this sore. Even as someone with a full blown spanking fetish, I want for the moment the opportunity to engage in the behavior again presents itself, for her to be able to remember how her bottom felt for a few days following her punishment. I want the punishment to have been effective enough that she would never risk the chance of having it repeated. That right there is everything that I love about spanking and spanking at its very core. Creating a physical punishment that is enough of a deterrent that it not only punished them for their previous behavior, but has a high chance of eliminating it all together.
Now in my professional life, clearly I cannot always create the same situations. These are paid models and very few of them come to me as a result of real transgressions in their lives. But since the birth of my very first spanking website, I have tried as hard as I can to present spankings as I believe they should exist in the real world, and how they do exist in my private life. So I do not just bend a girl over and bruise her bottom with a wooden paddle just for the fun of it. While this is work, and we are acting, I try to apply the spanking that I truly feel would be warranted for the given situation. Tears are indeed the goal, I try to make the first swat as hard as the last, and even though they are paid models, I do my best to make sure that they leave with bruised bottoms and have difficulty sitting the next day.
Look at the scene below from RealspankingsInstitute.com as an example. The entire premise of this scene was that these two young ladies had acted in a manner that was truly unacceptable. In addition, the previous methods of corporal punishment that I had used had clearly proved ineffective as the behavior continued. They were both sent to their rooms to wait for me and were promised that they would be punished in a manner that would indeed be effective. In scripting the scene I had to decide what would be the most realistic way to handle this exact situation if I was really the disciplinarian for two young ladies who continued to misbehave after several previous applications of corporal punishment. I know from experience that there are very few things that teach such a long lasting lesson than that of a heavy wooden hairbrush applied very forcefully to a young lady’s bottom. Yes, this is a scripted scene with paid models, but I brought as much realism into as I possibly could. You can see from the animations below that this is very real corporal punishment. I did not begin with a handspanking, or over pants and panties, and there was no warm-up of any kind. I approached it like I would a private punishment and began with tears as the goal from the very first swat. Each and every swat with the heavy brush led to a very visible bruise, which there is no doubt that would lead to soreness for days and long term learning. Paid or not, this was an experience that neither young lady would be likely to want to repeat in the near future. This was a very real punishment spanking that both of them will never forget.
[ Monday, December 08, 2014 ]
The wake up spanking
There are very few things more shocking to the system than then wake up spanking. It may be that the naughty wife, girlfriend, or daughter went to bed before the person tasked with her discipline came home for the night, or it may be as a result of her once again sleeping in one to many times. Either way, the spanking can no longer wait and discipline needs to be administered at that very moment.
The young lady below did indeed oversleep on a school day, so he is sure to wake her up in a manner that she will not forget. She is startled as she is woken up to the covers being pulled off of her. Her nighty is then yanked up, as her panties are pulled down, and he gets right to work with his gym shoe. There is no warm-up and there is nothing gentle about any of it. He spanks her tiny bottom as hard and fast as he possibly can and she is instantly more awake than she ever has been in her life. The hard spanking with his shoe continues until her bottom is quite sore and her eyes are filled with tears. Sitting on the hard wooden school desks is not going to be an easy task for her that day, and the day after, but there is no doubt that she will never have another “alarm problem” again.
[ Friday, December 05, 2014 ]
The Lovely Kiki
Our lovely little Miss Kiki has come so very far as a spanking model. When she first started with us, she was so quiet and reserved and just a bundle of nerves before any spanking. She has quickly become one of my favorite models and she is just such a sweetie. She is a joy to hang around between shoots and has finally let her guard down. She is also growing to be quite the little spanking super star. With her tiny teen bottom and braces she certainly looks the part of the naughty young school girl and her tolerance had grown so very much. There is rarely a shoot in which she does not end up with tears in her eyes and a bruised bottom. She puts everything into all of her shoot and we are lucky to have her. Here is a sneak peak from tomorrow’s Realspankings.com update in which her cute little bottom takes a hard paddling over tights and on the bare.
[ Monday, December 01, 2014 ]
Properly presenting the bottom for a spanking
Each and every day throughout the world spankings take place in many ways. The most common are children and teens submitting to well-earned punishments from one of their parents. School corporal punishment is still alive and well, especially in the Southern United States as well as many Asian countries. There are many couples that live in a domestic discipline relationships in which one or the other is punished for very real infractions. Another variation of this is a Christian domestic discipline relationship in which the couple firmly believes in the male head of household role, in which the male utilizes corporal punishment as a means to discipline his wife whenever he sees fit. Probably the most common form of spanking, when it comes to adults, is a consensual spanking relationship between a couple in which both have a spanking fetish. While these spankings can often be playful, this can also involve very real discipline for real infractions. There are also many people out there that serve as disciplinarians for those adults in life that require corporal punishment as a means to keep their behavior in check.
Many people see a spanking as simply the application of pain to modify behavior, but I think there is much more to it, and see it as more of a process or an event, and not simply just smacking someone’s bottom. As with any process, there are many steps required that help to make it more effective. In general, I think most people, when picturing a spanking taking place, only see a couple of parts to it. The main ones being some sort of lecture, then the spanking itself, and possibly a little time for reflection afterwards. For me, as someone that wants to make a spanking an event to remember, I could name a dozen different steps that I think are an integral part of the overall process. Today I want to focus on what I see as a very important part of the process, and that is the presentation of the bottom.
When someone is required to present their bottom, to actually be spanked, it serves so very many purposes. The most important part of this process is the act of submission. In my opinion, a spanking in which someone needs to be held in place is not a proper punishment. A proper spanking, at some point, will involve the person that is going to be spanked to submit to their punishment and present their bottom. Even in the cases of parental spanking, which for the most part is basically a non-consensual act, at some point some level of consent is given when the bottom is presented for punishment. The naughty teen knows that she has indeed done something wrong and that her behavior warrants a punishment. Although, it is often the threat of further or more severe consequences that leads to the submission and her eventually presenting her bottom to be spanked.
When a naughty person presents their bottom to be spanked, it is indeed an acknowledgment of not only submission, but also the power and authority the person that will be administering the punishment has over them. There are very few situations in life in which someone can order someone else to bare or present an intimate part of their anatomy on demand. But this person, the one that has been charged with the care and guidance of another individual does indeed have this power when it comes to discipline. It is not an easy act for the person in trouble, the act of presenting their bottom. They know that by doing so that they are giving access to a very private part of their body…and not for pleasure. They are allowing access to this intimate part of their anatomy, for the sole purpose of pain being applied to it. The position they are being made to assume, is by design, one that will allow the disciplinarian to do the best job possible.
When a young lady presents her bottom, it is very much an acknowledgment that her behavior has warranted such actions. She knew the rules, made a conscious decision to break them, and as a result she is faced with the consequences of her actions. It makes sense and is fair that she is required to present her bottom, as it is HER spanking. The purpose of the spanking is for her benefit, not that of the disciplinarian, so her cooperation should be expected. There is no reason that the person charged with the role of discipline should have to work any harder than needed. She should not only have to present her bottom, but also work as hard as possible to keep her bottom in the position required so the spanking can be applied as effectively as possible.
The presentation of the bottom for a proper punishment is about more than just submission, it is also serves a functional purpose. In order for a proper spanking to be administered, the bottom needs to be situated in a manner that makes it ideal for spanking, which is often influenced by the implement to be used. The presentation of the bottom will be far different for a paddling with a wooden school paddle than it would be for a handspanking. A bottom needs to be properly presented to allow for maximum effectiveness for that punishment. It would make little sense, in a school environment in which a young lady has earned a hard paddling to have her lay down, or go over a knee. For proper school corporal punishment she will need a position that allows for stability so swats of the proper severity can be applied. When an object as large and heavy as a school paddle is being used, how she presents her bottom can also address the issue of safety. A young lady needs to present her bottom in a manner that provides safety for her tailbone when severe swats are applied.
How the bottom is presented can also influence other aspects of the over corporal punishment experience. A proper spanking, one that is to never be forgotten, can be more than just about how much it hurts. The addition is elements such as embarrassment, nervousness, physical discomfort beyond the spanking, and vulnerability can all be achieved with the proper presentation of the bottom. Think of the contrast of the person who is required to lay over the edge of a desk of a table for a spanking over their pants versus the person who is required to bare their bottom and bend over and grab their ankles. The presentation of these two bottoms is like night and day and can greatly influence the overall effectiveness of the spanking. The person bent over an object is far more comfortable, a little less nervous of the overall sting that will be coming, and has retained most of their modesty. The person presenting their bare bottom, while grabbing their ankles, is already learning a lesson before the punishment has started.
First of all, there are very few ways in this world to present a bottom that make someone feel more vulnerable. With their bare ass in the air and their genitals on display they are typically quite embarrassed. There is no calm or comfort, and what is about to happen to that bottom on display is greatly enhanced in their mind. Whatever implement that has been presented, as the tool for their learning, now seems much more fearsome than it did before they presented their bottom. In addition, maintaining this position for any period of time, in itself, is quite uncomfortable. A position such as this also once again really makes them part of their own spanking. It is not easy to stay in position while grabbing your ankles, so by presenting their bottom in this position, it makes them an active participant. The person presenting their bottom while bent over the desk, basically just lays there until their spanking is over. But the person grabbing their ankles has to work hard to accept the punishment they have earned and they do not get to just lay there while it is happening.
Many people overlook so very many important parts of a spanking and miss some of the finer points that can add to the overall effectiveness of a proper punishment. Next time you find yourself in the position of punishing someone whose behavior warrants it; remember it is not just as simple as bending them over and spanking them. They need to properly present their bottom and submit to it, giving them ownership of their punishment, adding further discomfort, vulnerability, embarrassment, and most importantly, so their bottom is presented in such a way to allow for maximum pain and long term soreness. Anything less would be an injustice and increases the chance of future transgressions.