The Spanking Blog

[ Monday, October 07, 2013 ]

Realistic school paddling Video

What happens when a young lady tries to push the boundaries of the school dress code, on the last week of school?  In many schools, that young lady is made to grab her ankles and have her bottom paddled until she is crying.  Last week in the member’s area of Realspankings.com I explored this very concept and paddled 19 year old Abigail until her bottom was bruised and the tears were flowing.

A hard paddling is best for long term learning

Spanking serves many different purposes on different people’s lives.  For most of us, spanking was something that took place in childhood, and its primary purpose was to serve as a punishment and as a deterrent.  For many adults, the act of spanking serves a fun and sexy purpose and is used to spice up there love life.  Other adult couples have taken it back to its roots and use it as a form of discipline within their relationship.  At the very root of spanking, the goal is to provide the recipient with a stimulus painful enough to change their behavior.  This process can be accomplished in two ways, the pain of the initial spanking and the sting that it provides, and then the long term pain and soreness that can accompany a well spanked bottom.

If the purpose of a spanking is for it to really be a punishment, then I feel the long term effects are just as important as the primary act of spanking itself.  A proper spanking can indeed be a painful experience, as the implement is applied and creates a very painful stimulus.  But the human body has a way of helping to cope with pain and very quickly into a spanking, the production of endorphins occur.  This allows the naughty young lady to better deal with the pain she is experiencing.  This also helps to sooth the soreness after a spanking, and the pain very quickly becomes sort of a warm glow that is not all that unpleasant.  But if the overall goal of the spanking is long term learning, then a three minute process that ends with sensations that are not all that unpleasant will not suffice.

In my private life, when I apply a disciplinary spanking, my focus is that of long term learning, and not simply just a short and painful experience.  Over the years I have learned that nothing achieves the desired long term results as much as a paddle.  A hard paddling hurts very much while it is being applied and has the tendency to produce tears very quickly.  But I am looking to provide her an experience that lasts well after the tears have dried.  Just about any paddle, when used properly, has the potential for long term learning and growth.  I have found that long term learning and growth are best achieved by bruising a bottom.  Hard paddle swats, applied forcefully to the lowest part of the bottom, can leave a bottom bruised and sore for many days.

The long term soreness is an important part of the learning process.  This allows the naughty young lady who has been punished to be forced to reflect on her behavior for many days.  There are many hours a day spent sitting, and after a hard paddling, the simple act of sitting becomes a punishment in itself.  A paddling does not just affect the skin when it hits a bottom; it compresses the skin and allows the muscles to feel the full weight of the paddle.  This muscle soreness is the desired goal and assures that a young lady not only remains on her best behavior for many days, but that she is reminded of her past behavior. 

[ Monday, September 30, 2013 ]

A severe mouth soaping and spanking

So clearly I have a bit if a reputation as being a hard spanker.  Much of it is personal preference, but most of it is the fact that I like to film realistic videos.  An on camera spanking, which is depicting an 18-24 year old girl, getting punished, needs to be hard.  The goal has to be tears and her bottom needs to be marked and sore for several days. 

While I have filmed several mouth soaping scenes over the years, I have never really tried to apply a mouth soaping in a severe manner.  So what are the elements that make a mouth soaping “severe”.  Unfortunately for Miss Syrena, she was the girl who found out exactly how severe a mouth soaping can be.  It began with a low stroke of the belt that landed on her thighs and not on her bottom.  Her response was “God Dammit”, followed by “that hit my fucking thighs”.  That was all I needed to hear in order for a “severe” mouth soaping to take place.  I marched her into the bathroom, grabbed a bar of the soap from the sink, and required her stand with her mouth open while I lathered it up.  For a typical mouth soaping, I would simply put the bar in a young lady’s mouth and move it around a bit, making a couple of such trips with the bar.  But Miss Syrena was not that lucky.  With each trip of the bar, I targeted a different part of her mouth. 

For the 1st trip into her mouth with the soap, the goal was to just introduce the bad taste, and I made a quick trip covering the entire area.  For the next trip into her mouth, the goal was to cover the roof of her mouth as much as possible. 

With each trip, and as the water warmed up, the bar of soap began to create much more lather, allowing me to really get to work.  For her next round, I covered what I think to be a very important part of a severe mouth soaping, and that is the teeth. 

I focused on grinding the soap deep into her teeth, so slivers of soap stayed behind.  While I will often pull a bar of soap against a young lady’s front teeth as I pull it out, for Syrena, I grinded the soap deep into the teeth in all areas of the mouth.  I made sure that there was not a spot, in between any two teeth that did not have chunks of soap stuck between them.  Once her mouth and her teeth were properly coated with soap, it was time to focus on her tongue.  As the tongue is responsible for most of the taste in a mouth, I felt it was important that it received its own session with the soap.  She was required to stick her tongue far outside of her mouth, so I could see well enough to rub the soap over 100% of it.

But for a severe mouth soaping, only covering the top is not enough to get the job done, so the bottom side of her tongue also got a full round with the bar.

Once there was no spot in her mouth that did not have complete and total coverage with the soap, she was required to hold it in place, so I could get back to spanking her bare bottom.  I lifted up her PJ’s and got to work.  Part way into the spanking, I could tell she was having difficulty, as she was beginning to choke on the soap.  I allowed her to remove the bar of soap, and to spit a single time, in which time I bent her back over and got back to work.

When her spanking was complete, I moved her back to the sink, but before I told her to do anything, she spit out more soap, without being told to do so.  While her punishment was complete at that point, it was her inability to follow directions that led to her spanking in the 1st place, so I had no choice, but to start again.  With her mouth still foaming from the previous mouth soaping, I literally started the entire process over again.  1st the entire mouth, then the top of the mouth, then the teeth, and both sides of the tongue again…before it was all said and done the bar of soap made 9 separate trips into her mouth.  It all ended with several minutes of standing with the bar in place before she was finally allowed to spit and rinse. 

It is certainly the most severe mouth soaping I have ever administered and it was highly effective.  When the entire scene was over she told me that she would take a wooden paddle on her bare bottom, any day, over the mouth soaping such as she just received.  The 8 minute, HD, mouth soaping video went online last Friday in the member’s area of RealspankingsInstitute.com

[ Tuesday, September 17, 2013 ]

What turns me on about spanking and private discipline highlights

While we all love spanking, everyone’s kink is highly specific.  I see this all the time in the many requests and emails I receive on a daily basis.  For everyone that loves hand spanking and OTK, there is another that hates it and wants to only see bare bottom with a girl grabbing her ankles.  I am not exactly sure how our kink evolves, but certainly childhood experience has a lot to do with it.  For those models that I spank, that are truly into spanking, their particular desires tend to be influenced by how they were spanked growing up.  For many of us, our thoughts and desires were shaped by things we experienced, saw growing up, or accounts from friends that were spanked.  I grew up in Texas where the paddle ruled in the schools and the belt was the implement of choice in the home.  I am sure this had a direct effect as to why school paddling scenes and belt over the jeans are two of my very favorite scenes to film.  This was the world I grew up in, this is how I was first exposed to real life spankings that existed outside of my head, and it has had a big influence on what I like to see as an adult.

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[ Thursday, August 29, 2013 ]

Naked and Embarrassed before her spanking

Never underestimate the power of having a young lady undress and making her stand fully naked prior to her spanking.

[ Thursday, August 15, 2013 ]

New spanking models for August

This month we have shot two new models, with another two new models scheduled for Sept.  The first is Miss Stevie, who is not new to the industry, so she did not get the normal 1st day light spankings.  She jumped right in and took a fairly hard profile spanking.  For her second scene I blistered her bottom with my heavy leather belt and she took it like a champ.  When discussing what she wanted to be spanked with for her final scene, she surprised us all and went for the 32” long, 1/2” thick, tiger cane...which no model has ever requested.  This is the biggest cane we have ever owned and it packs a punch.  She endured 12 full force strokes, the last 6 on the bare and hardly even marked.  This girl has a bottom made for spanking.  Here is a preview of her upcoming updates:

The next new model is Miss Jordan.  She is 30 years old and has a beautiful smile.  She was a little nervous about being spanked, but loosened right up.  During her profile she went into a detailed account of the spankings she received growing up, until the age of 12.  She was not only spanked by her mom and her dad, but it seems that grandpa had a paddle with holes in it that hung in the basement, and she details more than 1 trip down into the basement for a hard paddling from gramps.  She did our standard 1st day profile, hard strapping, and an arrival at the Institute.  Take a look at her black and blue bottom below and you will see that she did not have a light day.  Her butt was so marked and sore, that she had me take pictures of it with her phone so she could txt pictures to her good friend Monica, who always used to come home and show her bruised bottom after a shoot. 

Look fdor both of these girls in future updates at Realspankings.com and RealspankingsInstitute.com

A fun day of spanking

There are times that work just drags on and I want to be somewhere else.  But then there are those days that it is a pure joy to be at work.  When I get the perfect models, with perfect bodies, that enjoy being spanked, I would not wish to be anywhere else.  We had just such a day last week in which I brought in three perfect models and came up with the kind of scripts that exist in my fantasies.  I found various ways to spank, strap, and paddle these young ladies and it was a long and hard day for them, but the content is fantastic.  We started with three young ladies (two sisters and a friend) that find themselves in a lot of trouble.  The other dad is called and all three girls get the spanking of their lives in front of each other.  When then move on to an RealspankingsInstitute.com scene in which I find reasons to get them naked and strap and paddle their bottoms, with lots of nudity and uncomfortable corner time.  We ended the day with the three young ladies sneaking onto my property for a little skinny dipping in my pool.  I see them out the window and call my buddy over which leads to us taking turns on all three naked girls with our belts.  It does not end until their bottoms are blistered and they are in tears.  It seems only fitting that they should clean my pool after it is over.  With lots of new models and some of the best content we have ever filmed, RealspankingsInstitute.com and Realspankings.com are doing our best to make our members very happy.

[ Wednesday, August 14, 2013 ]

Getting her tiny bottom paddled at school

Being sent to the principal’s office is never pleasant for the older teen girl, but when she is sent up during cheerleading practice and is only wearing her tiny practice shorts and a sports bra, the experience become even more overwhelming.

She has to sit in the office, of this administrator that she has never met before, wearing an outfit that barely covers more than a swimsuit does.  She is 18, a legal adult, but she has to sit there and be lectured like she is still a child.  She may be a legal adult, but as long as she attends this school, she is required to adhere to the rules and regulations set forth in the school code of conduct.

Unfortunately for her, the only thing that could make this situation worse, is the decision he makes as to how to handle her excessive tardies.  She is informed that she will indeed be paddled for her infractions.  She has no say in the matter, he simply states it as a fact.  Before she can fully realize what is happening, he is getting up from his chair, turning it around, and telling her to bend over it and to present her bottom to be paddled.  Having never been spanked at school or home before, the reality of the situation begins to really hit.  This reality is further emphasized as he pulls out a giant wooden paddle to spank her bottom with.

She bends over as instructed and can feel the cold AC of his office on the very lowest part of her bottom, knowing now that in this position, part of her butt is indeed exposed.  He takes his time with the paperwork required when he paddles a girl’s bottom, and she is left presenting her little teen butt, just waiting for it to be paddled.  The moment finally comes and she feels the wooden paddle touch her butt.  She watches out of the corner of her eye as the paddle is raised high in the air...and then the learning begin.

From a recent update in the member’s area of RealspankingsInstitute.com

[ Monday, August 05, 2013 ]

Paddles for all

[ Thursday, July 18, 2013 ]

A severe OTK bare bottom hair brush spanking from dad

It seems as though it was a fairly common occurrence in the 50’s, a spanking with the dreaded hairbrush.  There are very few implements that really hurt as much, or leave as long lasting of an impression.  The pain is intense and very specific, and if a proper wooden hairbrush is used, every single smack leaves a bruise instantly.  In as few as 20 smacks, a young lady’s entire bottom can be completely marked.  The main benefit to a hairbrush spanking is the long lasting results.  Sure, after a particularly hard strapping the naughty young lady might be a little sore the next morning, but it in no way compares to a severe spanking with a brush.  The naughty girl in question soon realizes when she gets out of bed the morning, after her bottom was spanked with a brush that her punishment is just beginning.  Basic tasks such as sitting, walking, and even standing become quite painful, as any movement of her body causes her poor bottom to ache.  If it was a proper spanking, she will feel the results for as many as five days.

Punishments like this are rare in spanking videos.  Most models cannot handle such an intense punishment and are generally not willing to feel the results for so many days after the video has been filmed.  I do no occasion find the rare model that is willing to endure such a punishment.  Miss Lila and I had talked about giving her the spanking of her life on many occasions and one day we finally decided to make it happen.  She wanted to receive a very traditional hairbrush spanking, just like teen girls received in the 50’s.  She was clear that she wanted a “father/daughter” type of scene and wanted to be OTK.  It is truly as hard as I have ever spanked on camera, and it left her with a very bruised and sore bottom for more than a week.

Below is an animation from that very scene, one in which we filmed without a safeword.  She wanted to give up all control and to know what it was really like in the days when the rod was rarely spared.  This video is available on demand HERE.

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