A hard paddling is best for long term learning
Spanking serves many different purposes on different people’s lives. For most of us, spanking was something that took place in childhood, and its primary purpose was to serve as a punishment and as a deterrent. For many adults, the act of spanking serves a fun and sexy purpose and is used to spice up there love life. Other adult couples have taken it back to its roots and use it as a form of discipline within their relationship. At the very root of spanking, the goal is to provide the recipient with a stimulus painful enough to change their behavior. This process can be accomplished in two ways, the pain of the initial spanking and the sting that it provides, and then the long term pain and soreness that can accompany a well spanked bottom.
If the purpose of a spanking is for it to really be a punishment, then I feel the long term effects are just as important as the primary act of spanking itself. A proper spanking can indeed be a painful experience, as the implement is applied and creates a very painful stimulus. But the human body has a way of helping to cope with pain and very quickly into a spanking, the production of endorphins occur. This allows the naughty young lady to better deal with the pain she is experiencing. This also helps to sooth the soreness after a spanking, and the pain very quickly becomes sort of a warm glow that is not all that unpleasant. But if the overall goal of the spanking is long term learning, then a three minute process that ends with sensations that are not all that unpleasant will not suffice.
In my private life, when I apply a disciplinary spanking, my focus is that of long term learning, and not simply just a short and painful experience. Over the years I have learned that nothing achieves the desired long term results as much as a paddle. A hard paddling hurts very much while it is being applied and has the tendency to produce tears very quickly. But I am looking to provide her an experience that lasts well after the tears have dried. Just about any paddle, when used properly, has the potential for long term learning and growth. I have found that long term learning and growth are best achieved by bruising a bottom. Hard paddle swats, applied forcefully to the lowest part of the bottom, can leave a bottom bruised and sore for many days.
The long term soreness is an important part of the learning process. This allows the naughty young lady who has been punished to be forced to reflect on her behavior for many days. There are many hours a day spent sitting, and after a hard paddling, the simple act of sitting becomes a punishment in itself. A paddling does not just affect the skin when it hits a bottom; it compresses the skin and allows the muscles to feel the full weight of the paddle. This muscle soreness is the desired goal and assures that a young lady not only remains on her best behavior for many days, but that she is reminded of her past behavior.