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[ Tuesday, March 15, 2005 ]

Cuitespankee update

Last week I posted about the new Japanese discipline site www.cutiespankee.com.  I thought I would give you an update and let you know that there is a page that features 36 high resolution pictures and 6 of some of their best videos.  All of this content is free, and thankfully, there are no pop ups or banners.  You can check out the free content at
Spanking Japan.  Enjoy!!!

[ Monday, March 14, 2005 ]

Cute new model

We recently shot a new model for Realspankings.com, which is nothing new for us, but due to the way she was hired, I thought I would share it with you.  We held our company Christmas party at my house this year, and had a very full house with more than a dozen employees and their significant others.  A new employee of ours who runs our shipping department, brought a girl with him to the party.  The funny thing is that this was a first date and they had met at an online personals site.  Being that this was not an ordinary company Christmas party, on the drive up to the mountains, he explained to her what it was that we did.  Surprisingly, she thought that it sounded like fun and was excited to be at the party.

While the pictures that I will post with this do not do her justice, all of the guys (and a few of the girls) were completely blown away by this girl.  Having just turned 18, she obviously had a young look about her.  What I think really did it for all of us was the way that she carried herself.  You could tell that this was a very fun, dynamic, and sexually confident girl.  I am someone that sees naked, gorgeous, 18 year old girls every day at work and even I could not help checking her out every chance I got.

I did my best to contain myself and made a point of not trying to hire her.  I did not want someone feeling pressured at my party, in my house, so as much as I wanted to pitch a job to her, I did not.  Later in the evening we did one of those crazy gift exchanges in which people can steal other’s gifts.  Being that she is not an employee, she did not bring a gift, nor did she receive one.  The gift that I provided for the party was the “rub my duckie” vibrator.  It is basically a rubber duck for the bath, but when you squeeze him just right, it turns on and becomes a waterproof vibrator.  When Dee ended up with this gift, the girl began to complain in a playful way.  She told us “Damn, I wish I would have been part of all of this, I just broke my vibrator and I desperately need a new one”.  You must understand that this is a girl that turned 18 a few months before, in a room full of people that for the most part have at least 10 years on her.  She had known all but one of us for less than 2 hours and here she was discussing her masturbation habits.  I do not know about you, but when I was 18 I did not discuss my masturbation habits with my friends or girlfriends, much less a room full of strangers.  It was very clear that she was a sexually open girl and probably a whole lot of fun.

The night progressed and as I was making the rounds visiting all of the groups, as a good host should, and I saw that her and Dee were having a conversation.  I sat down and realized that this girl was asking Dee about becoming a model for us.  Since the girl had broke the ice, I got involved and answered all of her questions.  I made it clear to her that we gave real spankings in our studio and that this was not acting.  She was very excited to give it a try, but I felt she needed to make more of an informed decision.  When she left that night I sent her away with a list of our websites and passwords to access them.  I told to her to look long and hard at the videos before she decided to come in and give it a try.  She e-mailed me a few days later and told me that she was still interested, but that she was now a little nervous having seen our content.  I wrote her a long e-mail and helped her to fully understand the process.  After a couple of weeks of thinking about it, she wrote me back and stated that she was ready to be spanked.  She stated that while very nervous about the pain involved, the thought of the whole shoot had begun to turn her on.  It was not so much the spanking that was getting her excited, it was the thought of being naked in front of the cameras and the people involved in the shoot.  Into spanking or not, it was clear that she was our kind of girl.

She has now finished her first shoot and it went very well.  She surprised us and herself, by being able to take much harder spankings than our typical model can on her first day.  She took three very hard spankings that left her wonderful bottom black and blue.  She did so well that I even sent her home with a brand new vibrator to help her release the sexual energy that she had clearly built up over the course of the shoot.  When I handed it to her, her eyes lit up and she told me that she would put it right to the test the second she walked in the door of her house (in the privacy of her room of course, she still lives with her parents).  She is scheduled for her second shoot next week and I am confident that you will be seeing a lot of her.  Now if we can just get her to go back to the hair color she had when she came to the party, it suited her much better.  I do not feel the pictures from her first shoot do her justice, but we will make an effort during her next shoot to capture the innocent beauty she displayed at the party.

Her first few scenes will be featured at Realspankings.com in the weeks to come and you can hear her tell her version of being at our party during her interview for her “Punishment Profile”.  We are glad to have Tanya as a new addition to our shoots.

Model Profile- Nicky Montford- Firmhand Productions

Well, I have to give Firm Hand Spanking credit for finding a fantastic spanking model with a pain tolerance rarely seen in this industry.  Her name is Nicky Montford and she is helping Firm Hand Spanking
redifine what a severe spanking is all about.  I must warn you in advance that her videos are not for the faint of heart.  She is mainly featured in their “Severe Discipline Series” and Nicky currently has 26 videos in the series.  The ones that stand out for me are the punishments in which the wooden paddle is featured.

There is a series of five videos that features some very hard paddling.  I may be going out on a limb here, but I would have to say that this series of videos may be the hardest paddling ever filmed for the web.  The video begins with her being questioned by a school official about some trouble she got into.  While she maintains that she committed the offenses alone, he points out that there were two young ladies captured on the security video.  When she refuses to give up her friend, he decides that he will paddle her until she gives him the information he needs.

This very lengthy punishment is divided into five different videos.  In the first video she is given 5 full force swats on her bare bottom.  When this does not achieve the desired results, he then gives her 10 hard swats.  This pattern continues and in the third video she is given 15, the fourth video 20, and the fifth video she receives the final 25 swats.  Never before have I seen such hard swats applied to the bare, with such a large wooden paddle.  In addition, there are no pauses between the swats.  He lays on the full force strokes as quickly as he can possibly swing.  She can barely keep up with her count due the rapid nature of the paddling.  As someone who likes to see hard spanking in videos, I am not exaggerating when I say this is as hard and fast of a paddling as you will ever see in a spanking video, with more swats from a wooden paddle than I have ever seen in a single punishment.  If anyone knows of a video that features a single punishment with more than 75 full force swats with a wooden paddle, please let me know.

There is another series with Nicky in their severe section that is similar, but features the cane.  This would be a fantastic video, but I disagree a little with the caners style of discipline.  He does not control his cane very well and every stroke wraps around to the side of her hips.  While clearly as painful as hell, and as intense of a caning as you will ever see, I think he needs to work a little on his accuracy.  As with the paddling, she is given many strokes of the cane as fast as they can be applied.  Each set of cane strokes grows in number with the first being the traditional 6 strokes.  He then moves on to apply 12, then 18, then 25, then finishes her off with 50 in a row without stopping.  This is not the type of caning in which there are long pauses for lecturing and bottom rubbing.  Every stroke is clearly laid on as hard and fast as he can swing.  When it is all over, her bottom and the sides of her hips are a big mess of angry welts and bruises.

While these two series stand out the most for me, there are more than a dozen other videos with her in them and they all feature discipline on the high end of the severity scale.  I had never really thought of the slipper as a punishment implement that was all that effective.  After watching the results of a very severe slippering, I have chnaged my mind.  I also like the video that features the “clothes brush”.  Picture a large wooden hairbrush, then double its size, and add a pound of weight and you have the clothes brush she is punished with. 

While Nicky is not your classic beauty, she is very cute and fits the role of a traditional English schoolgirl very well.  If you like your punishments as hard as they come, check out the “Severe Discipline” series with Nicky Montford at Firm Hand Spanking

Realspankings Pass

I noticed that I have not made any mention of our new site Realspankings Pass.  I thought I would let those of you that are not aware that it does exist and provides you with a large discount to many of our sites.  With the pass, you have full access to realspankings.com, realspankingsinstitute.com, bispanking.com, spankingteenjessica.com, and spankingteenbrandi.com.  All of these sites are produced by me and feature exclusive content that does not exist anywhere else on the web.  All of the sites combined have more than 20 GB of content and more than 100 hours of hard punishment video.  If you belong to two or more of my sites, you will find the Realspankings Pass to be a very good discount.

[ Friday, March 11, 2005 ]

Lovely Sarah is back

Many months ago we were quite dissapointed to learn that one of our most popular models, Sarah, would no longer be doing shoots for us.  But now it seems that she is back.  She returned to us a few weeks ago and is enthusiastic as ever.  She surpirsed us all by bringing some extra excitement with her.  First, she brought a good friend of hers that wants to give mdeling for us a shot.  After doing her friend’s new model orientation, we discovered that her friend has fantasized her whole life about being spanked hard, but is still a spanking virgin.  She had great trouble concealing her excitement as I explained to her the various scenes we do.  She is gorgeous and I am sure that our Realspankings.com members are going to be quite impressed.

Sarah also revealed some new information to us that we were completely unaware of.  She asked if it would be possible to do some scenes with other models in which their was sexual contact.  It appears as though Sarah is very bisexual and never hesitates to engage in some hot girl/girl action.  She has been looking over our model list and asking about certain girls that she wants to have an encounter with.  Looks like Sarah might have to make a couple of guest appearances at bi.spanking.com so she can satisfy her cravings. 

We are very excited to have Sarah back and look forward to the addition of her hippie/model friend.  Look for them both this summer, I am confident that we will be seeing a lot of both of them.

More models that like to be spanked.

It seems the spanking Gods have been with us lately with new models.  It seems that the majority of the new models to walk through our doors nowadays really like to be spanked.  In the last four months we have signed on four new models with a desire to be spanked.  The one thing that always confuses me are the girls who have boyfriends or husbands who won’t spank them right.  Out of the four new models, all of which are in a relationship, none of them are getting what they desire at home.  In all four cases their significant other knows about their fetish, but do very little to satisfy it.  It is great for us when we explain to a new model that the majority of our scenes involve a sense of being in trouble and really being punished, and they reply excitedly with “Thank God”!  These are not girls who are looking for fun little handspankings during sex, they want to be in trouble and they want to be properly punished.  They all have shown a lot of enthusiasm in finally getting to explore their fantasies.  For the first time ever, we are having models bring in scene ideas that they want to explore, without us asking for them.  This has all led to some really exciting content as well as some new additions to our “Real Discipline” series.  It makes our day a lot more fun and exciting when working with girls who are living out their fantasies.  You should see the looks on their faces when I tell them that they can pick the implements for the day’s shoot, and then take them to the implement closet.  They are like kids in a candy store as they go through more than 200 different implements that they can be spanked with.  Sometimes I tell them to pick three and they return with 10.  They just can’t make up their minds and want to feel them all.  We are looking forward to a very fun and exciting summer with a new group of girls that can’t wait to have ther naughty bottoms spanked black and blue.

[ Tuesday, March 08, 2005 ]

Spanking from Japan

I will have to admit that I missed the boat on www.cutiespankee.com.  I have been aware of the site, but never really took the time to check it out in detail.  My first impression was that it was a site that dealt with posed girls and soft spankings.  I think part of it came from the fact that I did not see many red butts in their photos.  Having now watched all of their videos, I have changed my mind on my opinion of this site.  I think that they may just do their photo shoots before the videos, as a result, the butts are not very red. 

Having now looked at all of their content, I am very impressed.  First, the models are all gorgeous.  They now have five different models and I would be lucky to have any of them working for me.  Something else that I was not aware of, is that this seems to actually be a site based in Japan.  All of the shoot locations are clearly in Japan and Japanese is spoken throughout.  There are subtitles that allow you to follow the plot.  Most of the scenes have a domestic feel and there is plenty of content for those that like to watch mother/daughter spankings.  They use more costumes than most sites and the scenes have a very real feel to them.  They explore many themes including teacher/student, mother/daughter, employee/boss, doctor/patient, maid/employer, and so on. 

The spankings themselves are quite good.  I was surprised to see that many of the spankings are quite hard.  They use many implements in their scenes, with most of them including a handspanking and the hard application of an implement of some sort.  The cane is featured often as well as the hard use of the hairbrush, wooden paddles, rulers, and other implements.  From their free samples I expected light use of these implements, but their videos quickly proved me wrong.  While I would not classify much of their content as very severe, as someone who likes to see very hard spankings, I was not dissapointed.

I can now honestly give www.cutiespankee.com my approval and I would recommend it to anyone that is looking for unique content, with good production value, hard spanking, and fantastic models.  You can visit their site at www.cutiespankee.com or view more free picture samples by clicking the “more” link below.

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[ Thursday, February 17, 2005 ]

Touching the toes at Spanking Online

While bent over and grabbing the ankles is my favorite position to see someone spanked in, touching their toes finishes a close second.  I especially like to see young ladies touching their toes when they are wearing traditional schoolgirl clothing.  There is something very appealing about seeing a young lady with her skirt lifted, panties lowered, touching her toes, in traditional knee high socks.  Spanking Online is the leader in the online spanking world when it comes to presenting visual imagery of this nature.  Just about all of their wide variety of models are forced to assume this position at some point in their spanking career.  As an English based company, using English models, the whole concept of touching the toes for a hard caning is not foreign to any of these young ladies.  In some of their behind the scenes interviews, you get to hear first hand about these young ladies experiences being punished with the cane while growing up in the UK.  My first choice will always be with a young lady grabbing her ankles for many swats with a paddle, but you will never have to twist my arm to get me to watch someone touch their toes for six of the best with a cane.

Click the more link for additional photos.  Visit their website Spanking Online for additional free pictures and videos.

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[ Thursday, February 10, 2005 ]

More true accounts of school corporal punishment

I thought I would further blog about some accounts of school corporal punishment, that I know to be true.

My wife also grew up in the Texas school system and received corporal punishment at just about all grade levels.  This was a public school in a very rich suburb of the Dallas/Ft. Worth metroplex.  This was a K-12 school that was its own school district.  While she believes that there were probably corporal punishment guidelines for her school, they were rarely followed.  While a paddling could only be officially administered by a member of the administration, it seems that most of the coaches used the paddle liberally.  She was paddled enough that a lot of the details blend together for her, but she does remember some very specific instances of being paddled…

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Finding a spanking partner

I was asked by a good friend of mine to create a blog entry that addresses finding a spanking play partner.  This is a common request and an article I have thought about writing for some time.  I have always hesitated to do this because there are so many variables involved, that I would hate to give someone a sense of security based on my article alone.  Instead, I will address this in a question and answer format.  Please keep in mind that these are simply guidelines based on my own personal experience and none of this can replace common sense and personal instincts.

Is it safe to pursue a spanking relationship with someone I met online?

With the exception of local clubs and groups, this is one of the only ways to effectively find a partner with interests similar to your own.  With careful screening and a little common sense, I think this can lead to a mutually beneficial relationship.

Where is the best place to meet for our first play date? 

People may disagree with me on this one, but I feel that the safest place to play is at the spanker’s house.  This is the best way to make sure that the spanker has some accountability.  A first time meeting at the spankee’s house, a hotel room, or anywhere else, allows the spanker to do whatever they want and then just disappear after the session, without any sense of accountability.  If they are looking to just abuse someone, a location that cannot be tied to them is ideal for their purposes.  But a session at their house ties them to a location, should something go different than was agreed upon in advance.  In a worst case scenario, you have some place to send the police. 

Everyone seems to be a “experienced spanker”, how do I know if this is really the case? 

When I was offering discipline programs for various ladies around the country, I always provided references.  If they are experienced as they say they are, then e-mail or phone references should be an easy thing to provide.  I never once had someone I spanked that was not willing to communicate with others about their experiences.  If they have provided “safe and effective discipline” to as many people as they claim, a reference should not be too much to ask.  Keep in mind how easy it is for someone to create a free e-mail account and all of a sudden become their own references.  An “experienced” spanker will also be the one to introduce the use of a safe word.  You should purposely avoid this topic, until they introduce it.  If they never bring it up as a requirement for the first few sessions, this is not the person for you.  An experienced spanker will know that this is needed until they get a sense of how you respond to being spanked.

Should our first meeting involve a spanking?

Every person I ever met for the first time, with the thoughts of eventually spanking them, we met at a restaurant with the purpose of getting to know each other better.  Lunch was the only activity that took place at these meetings, with a spanking taking place later down the road.  Anyone that insists on the first encounter involving a spanking may not be the right person for you.

We have had our initial meeting, things went well, and I am now going to meet this person for a spanking.  What sort of precautions should I take?

The most important thing is to follow your instincts.  If something doesn’t feel right, make it clear that whatever it is, is making you feel uncomfortable.  As an extra security precaution, I feel that a cell phone, charged and ready to go is essential.  When you arrive at your destination, use your cell phone to call a friend and let them know where you are at.  Make this phone call in front of your new spanking partner.  I think a first time spanking with a new partner should only involve handspanking.  If your new partner becomes a little over zealous, they are limited in what they can do with just their hand.  Bondage is definitely out of the question until your trust this person enough to baby-sit your best friend’s children.  Through previous communication you should have established what your expectations were for this spanking.  If at any point things go in a direction differently than you planned, put a stop to it.  When I spanked new people, I used a three part safeword system.  This allowed easy communication without killing the dynamics of the scene.  “Green” was the word that they used to let me know that they expected things to be a little harder.  “Yellow” was the word to let me know that something was wrong, that was not related to the pain of the spanking, such as feeling a little dizzy, sick to their stomach, or maybe just the position was too uncomfortable.  “Red” meant the spanking needed to stop at that very minute.  I never once heard the word “red” in any real discipline spanking I administered.  If you find yourself constantly safe wording, then this person is not as experienced as they led you to believe. 

Do not let everything I have written scare you out of the experience.  Most people that I know that have met someone online for their first spanking have had a good experience.  I am merely trying to prepare you for worst case scenarios.  For the most part, people who are out there looking to spank women want to do it on more than one occasion.  They are generally just as motivated as you are for this to go well and to lead to a long term spanking relationship.  But you must always keep in mind that to a certain degree, this person’s sexual fantasies revolve around the application of pain.  Many people see a true spanking as one that is applied as a punishment and leads to tears.  As a result, communication is the key.  In this communication, you need to look for trends that lead you to believe that this person is honest.  I feel that if you discover at any point that this person has lied to you, then this is not the right person for you.  If they lied about their age or even how they look, then who knows what else they are lying about. 

You want to find someone who has at least a little experience (or is honest about the fact that they are new to the process), have been receptive to your needs, introduced the concept of a safeword themselves, and are willing to take things as slow as you need them to be.  With patience and common sense it is not all that difficult to find someone who will help you fulfill your spanking fantasies. 

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