The Spanking Blog

[ Monday, February 07, 2005 ]

Experiencing spanking for the first time through the eyes of new models.

There is a fun aspect to my job that I have not really shared before.  It is based on working with new models that have desires to be spanked.  For the most part, our models are young and do not have much in the way of real life spanking experiences.  Most of them report that they have had boyfriends that have smacked their asses a few times, but nothing that resembles a disciplinary spanking.  Like most with spanking fantasies, they have desires to feel like they are in trouble and are actually being punished for something.  Luckily, we are easily able to accommodate these desires.

The most interesting aspect of this is the fact that, like most of us, they have gone their whole life hiding the fact that they are into spanking.  There are rarely situations as young women where they can discuss their interests in spanking with anyone.  Then they walk through our doors and while somewhat intimidating, it can certainly be liberating.  They find themselves in an environment in which spanking desires are discussed freely.  For the first time in their lives, they are not alone, nor do they feel like perverts, with their spanking desires.  They are surrounded by people that either spank or get spanked on a regular basis and have no problem talking about it.  They see situations in which several people gather around a model after a shoot to look at the marks on her butt.  They hear comments like “wow”, “cool”, and “look at that one”"as we all critique the marks left from the cane on someone’s bottom.  They discover a completely free environment in which no one is judged for things that are often viewed as “kinky"or “perverted”. 

Nothing is more fun than presenting someone into spanking, 100 different implements to choose from for their scene.  They are like a kid in a candy store as they touch items that they previously have only fantasized about.  They often make a pile of things that they “just have to try”.  They love that they can ask questions about how each and every one will feel on their bottom.  They love that they can bend over and take sample swats with any implement of their choosing.  On many occasions, after completing three scenes with us, they find themselves back upstairs asking to be spanked off camera and without any additional pay, just because they are curious about how something will feel.  You should see the look in their eyes as I describe a scene I have scripted that has them playing the role of a naughty school girl in serious trouble.  It is often easy to tell when we have hit the nail on the head in regards to their ultimate spanking fantasy.  In many cases we are providing them with a spanking that pays very well, but that in reality, they probably would have paid money to experience.  I like to open people’s eyes and there is nothing greater than helping someone feel a sense of sexual liberation.  I am glad that we have created an environment, which for some, is something that they have searched for their entire lives.  I love it when someone realizes for the first time that there is nothing wrong with their desires.  I love it when we do a very strict scene that leaves the girl in tears, and when I ask her afterwards how it was she replies, “amazing”.  I love when I have pushed a girl to her limits and beyond and when it is all over she asks if we can do it on the bare next time.

It makes the whole process personally easier for me when someone is just really into it.  We recently hired a new model that was clearly here to explore her unrealized spanking fantasies.  After her first shoot, I asked her how she would feel about doing scenes in which she is spanked in front of a group of people, spanked with other girls, or forced to do naked corner time with others present.  Her response was “oh my God, could we really do that”?  I was just trying to test the waters, but she made it clear that I was pressing all the right buttons.  There are aspects of my job that are difficult at best, but it all seems worth it when I am able to help someone with the exploration of their fantasies.  It is more than worth it when they fully realize that if it is fun, consensual, and between adults, then there is nothing wrong with it.  I think we help to create an environment that allows many women to explore their deepest and darkest fantasies without the guilt that is so often imposed by society.  I am convinced that they will have a healthier and stronger sense of their own sexuality as a result. 

[ Tuesday, February 01, 2005 ]

Spanking in the real world and the roots of our spanking fantasies

By request, I am reposting this article that explores some of the more diffucult aspects of our fetish.

This is a difficult topic to explore and one that I have always had trouble putting into words.  As many times as I have tried, I have never been able to articulate this point very effectively.  Regardless, I thought I would go ahead and give it a shot as a blog entry.  Let�s start with the difficult questions and see if we can find something resembling an answer. 

Why do so many spanking videos feature situations that feel like a child in trouble getting spanked by a parent?
Why are there so many school scenes with a naughty student and a teacher or principal spanking them?
Why do we see so many people posting their true accounts of childhood spankings on the web?
Why do so many people actively seek these accounts out and read them?
Why do I blog so much about school corporal punishment and why is this one of the most requested scenes on my sites?
Why do many couples participate in �age play� in their spanking scenes?

As you can see, these are tough questions to answers.  At their root, I think these are some of the things that make so many people uncomfortable about their spanking fetish.  It makes them feel weird or “perverted”, so much so that they may go their entire lifetime without ever telling anyone that the concept of spanking is appealing to them.  They feel like they need to just suppress these feelings and hope they go away.  They assume that there must just be something wrong with them, but I would have to disagree.  The Internet has made it easier for many people to realize that they are not alone out there in their “perverted” thoughts, but I think that most of us had difficulties coming to grips with it.  I never once told any of my friends in school, that while they were making comments on how much they would like to have sex with a particular girl, I was thinking about bending her over and smacking her bottom with a paddle.  I am sure that there are many women out there who fantasized about the captain of the football team taking her over his knee and spanking her to tears.

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[ Monday, January 31, 2005 ]

Anal Discipline

I have seen a few comments to some of my entries that make me believe that some people have no idea where I am coming from.  There was even a comment that made comparisons to one of my suggested methods of discipline as “rape”.  Let me be very clear in saying that everything that I am talking about is consensual.  Is every spanking, punishment, or method of discipline consented to in advance?  No, this would certainly take a lot of the fun and excitement out of the whole process.  But the dynamics of the relationship and the power exchange that results is something that is agreed upon and the person on the submissive side knows that certain behaviors will result in discipline.  Taking control away from the person in trouble is a large part of the dynamic that we are looking for in relationships such as these.  With this being said, let’s look at anal discipline as a form of punishment.

Anal discipline is a very effective form of punishment.  I am not talking about spanking someone between their ass cheeks, I am talking about the use of butt plugs and related objects as a punishment.  Even for a woman who is very experienced with and loves anal sex, the right butt plug at the right time, can be a very effective way to reduce bad behavior.  Without a good amount of stimulation or being in a sexually excited state, anal insertion generally hurts.  Even those that regularly engage in anal sex require a bit of a warm-up and stimulation before they are ready for penetration.  When considering anal discipline, we capitalize on the fact that without stimulation and warm-up, anal penetration hurts.

Just as with spanking, implement selection is the key.  Butt plugs come in all shapes and sizes, from smaller than a finger to larger than a fist.  I recommend purchasing a large variety of shapes and sizes, so you will have one for any occasion.  Even better, is to take a permanent marker and assign them all numbers.  Then when your naughty young lady is in trouble, you simply send her for the number plug that you feel best fits the crime.  Small infractions may only call for the number 3 plug, but a very naughty girl might need the number 10.  If you are looking for an effective way to punish someone who likes to be spanked, you can rest assured that a large butt plug will provide them with a disciplinary experience that they will not soon forget.

The key factors for a punishment of this type are size and duration.  How big and how long will be determined by the behavior.  If someone is new to anal sex, you need to go easy at first.  The initial pain of a buttplug for someone who is not experienced can be overwhelming.  Even the smallest of plugs will get the attention of those new to anal insertions.  For the experienced, a large plug is a must.  Once the plug has been inserted, you will know right away if it is the proper size or not.  The first few minutes are the very worst and the expression on their face will let you know if you picked the proper size for this punishment.  While the first few minutes are the worst, the longer it is kept in, the more uncomfortable it will feel.  I have not been able to find any research that suggests that prolonged butt plug use poses any safety risks, so they should be made to keep it in as long as their behavior warrants.

There are various ways to increase the effectiveness of a punishment like this.  One is to play up the humiliation factor.  I see no reason while the person being punished should not be required to strip fully naked and insert the plug themselves, with you watching.  This is an intimate and awkward task and doing it in front of someone else will increase the embarrassment of the punishment.  You could also add a time limit with a larger plug being the penalty for not getting it inserted in the allotted time.  Limited or no lubrication is another way to adjust the severity of the punishment.  A very naughty girl, made to insert a large plug, in less than a minute, with no lubrication, fully naked, in front of you, will be a well punished girl indeed.  Unlike spanking, it is really easy to add a public element to anal discipline.  While no one else will be aware, believe me, the naughty girl will be more than aware.  When you really need to make an impression, why not send the naughty girl off to work for the day with a large butt plug in place.  You can be assured that she will think of her behavior every time she sits down.  The addition of a butt plug harness (http://stockroom.com/j126.htm) will allow you to lock the plug into place making it impossible to remove the plug without the key.  Just imagine her presentation at the board meeting with a butt plug locked firmly in place.

You can experiment with an anal punishment that is progressive in nature.  The punishment day begins with the number one plug, which is to be upgraded every hour until she reaches the number 10 plug.  I assure you that this is 10 hours that will have her regretting whatever it is that she did wrong.  I think a butt plug goes hand in hand with prolonged and uncomfortable corner time.  After a rough spanking, place a wooden stool in the corner, with a butt plug firmly attached to the seat.  Tell her she has 1 minute to have a seat and begin her corner time or the spanking will be administered again.  Thirty minutes in the corner with a very sore bottom, on a wooden stool, with a large plug in place, will teach anyone a proper lesson.  Some plugs are easier to keep in than others and you should use this to your advantage.  How about a spanking in which a loose fitting plug is placed and they are required to keep it in place (without their hands) throughout their spanking or it starts over?  This goes beyond anal discipline and approaches the realm of anal training.  Many people are able to zone out during their spanking (a.k.a subspace) and mentally get away from the pain.  Forcing them to focus on the muscles of their ass prevents this from happening, so they will mentally aware of their punishment throughout.

Use your creativity to make it a punishment that is unique and that will be remembered.  How about when the young lady does something extremely bad and you just ignore the fact that she is in trouble.  To her surprise you take her to a nice dinner at a fancy restaurant at a time that she was expecting the spanking of her life.  During dinner you hand her a wrapped present and tell her to take it to the restroom and to open it in the privacy of a stall.  Inside her gift is a shockingly large buttplug, a small amount of lubricant, and instructions to have it in place before she returns to the table.  The look on her face as she gingerly sits back down at the table will show you that her punishment is working.  How often can you administer an effective punishment over the course of a nice dinner?  Take it a step further and make it an inflatable butt plug (http://stockroom.com/a258.htm).  Several times over the course of dinner, reach under her skirt and pump the bulb a few more times until you get the reaction you are looking for.

Anal discipline serves several purposes.  First, it adds an additional punishment element for those that are finding the typical spanking boring.  This can quickly spice up a disciplinary relationship and bring that little spark back.  It also allows for very effective discipline for those that like to be spanked.  It does not matter how much someone likes ass play, there are enough plug sizes out there that there that you will be able to find one that they will not enjoy.  It also allows for the addition of a public element to discipline, that while public, it is your little secret.  As always, place safe and have fun.

Contest Winner

Today we held the random drawing from our current member list and we are proud to announce our winner.  I will not give his details for privacy reasons, but I can tell you this person is from the Netherlands.  The winner of the two free videos of his choice from Realspankings Films will be notified by e-mail.  Congrats! 

I am still working on a seperate page for the blog that is for members only and will include free videos.

[ Saturday, January 29, 2005 ]

The switch applied to the thighs and a brand new spanking movie.

A few days ago we finished shooting our latest movie.  While smaller in scope than some of our larger productions, I feel we created something very unique.  We ventured out of the studio and shot on location at the same mountain house that we used for “Painful Summer”.  In addition to Jasmine, the star of “Maid for Punishment”, this movie also features Claire and Kailee in their first feature roles.  The three young ladies find themselves in a lot of trouble during a backpacking trip and elect to be punished at my hands instead of going to jail.  The girls quickly learn to be careful what they ask for as they endure a long and grueling punishment.

In trying to provide something a bit different for our videos, this movie features the use of the switch.  We have used a switch in the past, but never at this intensity.  The use of the switch was not limited to their bottoms; the main focus was on the backs of their thighs.  Even with models as tough as these three girls, a switch to the thighs quickly reduced them all to tears.  The pain is very specific and it was clear from the first stroke that a proper switching gets immediate results. 

After the switch was applied thoroughly to their thighs, they endured two additional punishments.  All of them received the belt applied as hard as I could lay on the strokes.  Once again, tears were immediate and I have never seen any of these girls react so emotionally to a punishment.  You will get to see how effective a belt can be when used full force.  After some very painful time kneeling on bricks, the girls were then pulled over my knee, restrained, and then given a very fast and non-stop session with a large wooden hairbrush.  This is close to as hard as I have ever used a hairbrush and their bottoms quickly showed the results of my efforts.  Once the naughty backpackers were taught a very real lesson, I took their pants and panties and sent them back into the woods.  As they hiked away their bottoms and thighs clearly displayed the visible results of their infractions.

The movie has gone into the editing process and will be available in a few months.  This is a short movie that focuses primarily on the spanking, without too much additional dialogue.  It will probably be offered on DVD and pay-per-view, and while very severe, will run on the lower side of our price range.  All three punishments administered were very severe, so this will not be a movie for those looking for the softer side of discipline.  For anyone who has ever wanted to see what a proper switching applied to the thighs is really like, you will be quite happy.  I will keep you posted as we get closer to a release date.

[ Friday, January 28, 2005 ]

Lunge position spanking

When it comes to all of the various positions that someone can be spanked in, all of our models seem to agree that the one that sucks the most is the lunge position.  Even without the spanking, it is uncomfortable as hell, and when done for any length of time it can serve as a punishment in itself.  Very few positions leave the person being spanked feeling as exposed.  The bottom is presented very well in this position and any hope of retaining some modesty during a spanking go right out the window. 

As far as its use in the real world, I have seen a few references that demonstrate that this position has been used in a school setting.  Generally called “the lunge position”, I have also seen it referred to as “the triangle”.  On Jeff Charles’ anti-paddling website (well, more of a “I love to hear about girls being paddled so I will create an anti CP website"), he includes many accounts of high school girl?s corporal punishment experiences.  More than one of these accounts includes references to the lunge position:

“Mr. Tidwell had me pull up my shirt any time he thought it was a long tail tucked down the back. If the woman was witnessing she ALWAYS had me and my friends pull out even a T-shirt. I had shirts slide down when I was touching toes or in lunge position. You can’t stop it and you jerk when the paddle hits so it makes it come down more. I had my breasts bounce out twice when I wasn’t wearing a bra. That time the woman had pulled my shirt right up my back when I was in lunge position and when he hits hard you kinda lurch forward and then my tits popped out. I stood up and pulled my shirt down while he lectured but when I went back down she pulled up my shirt again so the same thing happened. He said maybe it was better she didn’t pull up my shirt as it was “immodest.” (his word!!)”

“I was in the “triangle,” which the Principal called the “lunge position,” with my ass up top. That guy always said, “untuck your top and push it up” (for guys too). Like you said, they knew I had no bra (that was the dress code violation I was being punished for) and they knew my shirt would slide forward. I folded the shirt up before I bent over but 1st lick and it went loose. I swayed forward as the paddle stung a lot, and my shirt slide half way up. My hands were flat on the floor, which forced me to arch my back as I jerked, so the shirt slid more. I figured after the 2nd lick the shirt was maybe high enough up that they could see my tits. The witness was at first standing just to the right in front of me, but when the paddling started and my shirt slipped up he walked around behind me after the 2nd or 3rd lick. Maybe he looked down my T-shirt, I don’t know. The paddle was laid on hard, and my jerking made my breasts bounce more and nearly come out. They must have seen them with me bent over upside down. After the 3rd lick I could feel my shirt get caught on my breasts, so I tried to pull it back with one hand, but the principal said, “Assume the Position!” The shirt moved up even more after the 4th lick, and I figure they could see more than I realized, both breasts. I had to hold that position for a minute after the paddling too.”

“Tiffany: Depends on principal. One guy has you put your hands flat on the floor and like walk them forward so your ass is up in the air. Another one has you hold your ankles with feet together not bending your legs. And the third one always told me bend over his desk (short end on the right) and had me lie flat over the top and stretch out on my toes, feet apart so I could hold the sides.
Jeff: Did you ever have to “hold the position” while he lectured or did other things?
Tiffany: Yes, most times”

“His name is Mr. Frank. He normally had me assume the position hands on the floor and walk forward. He calls it the “lunge” position, and he says, “Assume the lunge,” or “Assume the position,” which means bend over and touch your toes, feet together. He likes to tell you off and talk about why you’re being punished.”

“Feet together, legs straight, bend down with palms on the floor, and “walk” hands forward so I made a triangle, ass at the top. He said it was safer than holding my ankles.”

[ Tuesday, January 25, 2005 ]

Further details about my various blog entries

I am finding that some of my blog entries are a little misunderstood at time.  I am used to writing for the World Spanking Forum in which most of the people there are members of my various websites.  They know enough about me that I do not generally have to qualify any of my statements.  I have read comments on other blogs, as well as e-mails sent to me, that demonstrate to me that some people have no idea where I am coming from with my writings.  I thought I would take a minute to help clarify a few things.

First, when it comes to my descriptions of punishing young ladies, there are several situations I am talking about.  For many years, I ran a discipline program for young ladies to help them deal with real infractions in their lives.  In many cases they were being punished for things they got away with when they were younger, in others, it was an attempt to help them set and fulfill personal goals.  In each of these cases, this was a woman traveling to my location for one specific purpose, to receive a very real and very painful spanking.  Limits were discussed ahead of time, and in most cases, how they were to be punished was agreed upon by both of us in advance.  These discipline session were all about being punished and were not erotic in any way.  Not to say that these spanking were not fulfilling their fantasies, most traveled from different states to realize this dream.  Some of my descriptions of spanking I have administered for discipline might come across as cold, distant, and uncaring.  I assure you that the dynamics of their punishment session were exactly what they were looking for.  I found that there are many women who want to be held accountable for their actions and are seeking strict discipline administered from someone who knows what they are doing.  They were not looking for a relationship, nor the sexual overtones that often accompany a meeting such as this.  They simply wanted real discipline for real infractions without any role playing. 

Another situation that I am referring to when talking about disciplinary spankings, is when I work with models that are into the scene.  While not common, we do get models that are into being spanked.  These girls are looking for more than just a paycheck; they are looking to explore thoughts and ideas that previously only existed in their fantasies.  I take these scenes to different level and try to help them find what they are looking for.  They often find themselves in scenes that are a lot stricter than the typical scene we shoot.  These models have less control over their scenes and there is a much more real sense of them being in trouble.  We also shoot a lot of “real disciplineâ€? scenes with several models.  These are scenes in which a girl confesses something that she has done that she really feels she needs to be punished for.  There is nothing fake about any aspects of this scene and the discipline is very real and almost always leads to tears.  While done on camera, and for a website, I handle these scenes exactly how I did with my discipline program.

The final situation is that of the discipline that takes place in my personal relationship.  You must first understand that I have ended up in a situation in which, what is generally a very private thing (being my fetish and sexuality) has become a very public one.  Most people hide their spanking fetish from the world for their entire life, mine is out there for everyone to see.  There are often times that I am making references to my private life, but do not specifically say so.  This is due to the fact that there must be some things that are kept private.  I am afraid while you might get small references, I will never get all that specific about what happens in my home.

A lot of my writings come across as cold and distant with little thought for the feelings of those being punished.  I assure you this could not be farther from the case.  I put a lot of time, effort, and care into really getting into the head of those that I punish.  Their feelings are my number one concern and I am never working off of my own agenda.  My goal is to help them find exactly what they are looking for.  You would be surprised at how many women are actually looking for a real punishment spanking in which they are taken well beyond their comfort zone.  They want to feel like they are really in trouble and not feel like they are doing a “sceneâ€?.  They want to give up control and feel accountable for their actions.  While done in a caring and non-abusive manner, I provide strict discipline and that is clear before we ever get started.  I have yet to punish a woman for real offenses in which she was not the one to initiate the relationship.  When I write, I tend to focus on the physical aspects of the punishments and not the emotional.  I assure you that great thought and care is put into the emotional dynamics of the spankings I administer, but this is generally not what people are looking to read about.

[ Monday, January 24, 2005 ]

Punished thighs during a spanking

Looking at the inclusion of the thighs as a target area for spanking

Picture from Realspankings.com

In general, I do not include the thighs when administering a spanking.  I do however find that certain situations call for the addition of the thighs as a target area during a punishment.  The time that I most often include the thighs is when someone refuses to hold still during their punishment.  As I have stated numerous times, I feel that the person being punished should be required to assist in their punishment.  It is one thing to just be grabbed and restrained while someone spanks their bottom, but I feel an important part of the process is for them to not only submit to what they have earned, but to assist in everyway possible.  When someone is not submitting and doing everything they can to make the process more difficult, I find it is important to demonstrate how bad their punishment can really be.  Spankings hurt and holding still can often be difficult to do.  What they really need to help them hold still is perspective.  Several strokes applied to the tops of the thighs gives instant perspective.  On numerous occasions I have had the person being punished moving too much and telling me that there is no way that they can hold still.  Once I show them what will happen when they do not hold still, it is amazing what they can accomplish.  Everyone’s bottom is nicely padded, but the thighs are a much different story.  The contrast between the pain of their bottoms being smacked and the pain on the thighs is tremendous. 

One must be careful when spanking thighs and implement selection is of the utmost importance.  In general, a leather implement is the safest way to go.  There is not as much soft tissue on the backs of the thighs, so hard implements can pose a safety issue.  Certainly I would never want to apply a wooden paddle stroke to the backs of anyone’s thighs.  The hardest implement I would ever choose to use for punishing thighs is a cane.  Once again, you will need to be very careful and have considerable skill when applying a cane to the legs, but it can be accomplished safely.  Something else to consider when spanking the thighs is that the marks will generally be quite pronounced.  I have given many severe canings in which both the ass and the thighs were punished.  The strokes to the thighs always bruise much quicker and the effects last much longer.  I have seen the long term results of some of the canings I have administered, and the thigh marks lasted 2-3 times longer than the ones on the bottom.  If you need to create a long lasting visual reminder of a punishment, a few well placed strokes on the thighs can achieve this easily.

On very rare occasions, I plan a thigh spanking ahead of time.  When a point really needs to be made and when you want to make the naughty girl as nervous as possible, let her know that her next spanking will include her thighs.  Even those that enjoy being spanked will never look forward to a thigh spanking.  The pain is so very specific that it is hard to fantasize about the effects.  As a result, I feel it should be reserved for the very worst offenses, or when you find that cooperation is at a minimum.  I have also found that spanking the front of the thighs can be an effective form of discipline.  The times that I have done this it has been a very spontaneous moment and more of a preview of their punishment to come.  A perfect example is when quick discipline is needed and you are driving in a car.  It is very easy to pull over and have the naughty young lady lift the front of her skirt.  A few hard spanks to the front of the thighs quickly communicates the point.  It is quick and easy and can be done with both people sitting down.

Outside of the world of consensual spanking between adults, I have heard plenty of evidence to suggest that thigh punishments are not all the uncommon as a method of discipline.  A good friend of mine from college, while on the topic of spanking, told me that she had never once had her bottom spanked.  Knowing she was raised in a very small town in West Texas, I had trouble believing her, and asked her how she managed to grow up in that environment without ever being spanked.  She then stated that she had been spanked plenty of times, just never on the bottom.  Up until her early years of high school, the only way she and her sister were punished was with a switch from her mom.  When they were naughty either the skirt came up or the pants came down and they were punished on the backs of their legs.  This was not limited to the thighs, she stated that her mom would start just below their butts and then work her way down to their calves and then back up again.  She stated that their punishments were never measured by how many strokes they received with the switch, it was based on how many trips up and down the backs of their legs would be made with the switch.  She described as many as 6 trips from her bottom to her ankles and back.

I have seen evidence of this same type of punishment in an Institutional setting.  I have read the testimony of “survivorsâ€? of Rev. Mack Ford’s New Bethany Baptist Church in Arcadia, LA. in which they describe some pretty severe punishments.  New Bethany Church was a religious based school that somewhat served as a detention facility for troubled young ladies.  It seems the primary form of discipline was corporal punishment and clearly it was administered in an abusive manner.  Below is a brief recollection from two girls who lived there.

Julie Gertz, 25, and Tracy Zwickle, 35, both spent time as teen-agers behind the barbed wire of New Bethany Baptist Church in Arcadia, La. They mince no words in describing happened there:

“I mean, there were beatings of 80 to 100 licks,” Gertz said. “I mean, you basically stopped counting after 80, and the girls stopped crying. They were called ‘mama whoopings.’ Up your legs, to your back and all the way back down.”

Needless to say this reformatory was closed several years ago by the State, and thankfully, they are no longer beating your ladies into submission. 

[ Sunday, January 23, 2005 ]

True Account, M/ff, Severe

A couple of years ago a girl named Andrea posted a true account on The World Spanking Forum that I have always found to be one of the best I have read.  It recounts a very strict strapping she witnessed as a teen and then details her six year search in trying to find out what it would be like to endure a punishment equal in severity.  Needless to say, she finally finds the discipline she was looking for and learns the hard way to be careful what you ask for. 

From Andrea at the World Spanking Forum

This is account is the result of a 6 year search to try and recreate and receive a very severe strapping I saw a good friend of mine receive.

The event that affected my life in such a deep way happened when I was 15 years old. A good friend of mine, Gina, had very strict parents and her dad was a Pastor at our local church. On several occasions, I had seen her well-marked bottom after a strapping from her father. Already very curious (and excited) about the whole concept of spanking, I often asked her about her punishments. While she was not shy about letting me view the results, she would not give me the details that I craved about her punishments. About as much as I could get out of her was that they were applied very forcefully on her bare bottom with a strap. She was always too embarrassed (and I think thought I was pretty weird to ask) to give me a blow-by-blow account. One Wednesday afternoon, this all changed.

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Exposed at Spanking Online

Embarassment as a spanking supplement

When I blog about other spanking sites, I like to focus on the things that I like about the site that I find to be unique.  There are now many sites that produce content for the web, but one really has to stand out for me to comment on it.  I have not covered Spanking Online yet and being one of my favorite spanking sites, it is worth a mention.  I am not one to cover just any site with the hopes of making some money from sending them hits.  You will never read a blog entry about a site that I do not have a membership to.  Being a spanking producer, my standards are pretty high and very few sites make the grade.

Spanking Online regularly features an aspect of a punishment, that at first I was not a big fan of, but have grown to like.  In a lot of their spankings, they require the naughty girl to expose her privates.  I have become somewhat of a fan of their scenes in which the girl lowers her panties and raises her skirt to show herself to the world.  The whole process is more than just getting her naked, it is the added humiliation of actually presenting her vagina to be viewed.  They have many pictures that clearly demonstrate that some of the girls they hire like to be spanked.  During a spanking I do my best to make sure the girl never feels humiliated.  I find a little embarrassment goes a long way, but make sure that I never require them to do anything that feels degrading.  I think Spanking Online has found a nice balance between the two.  I would say the way they are required to present themselves goes a little beyond embarrassing, but without crossing the line into full on humiliation.  Most of their models are amazing, so getting a peek at their privates is really just an added bonus.  For additional photos click the “moreâ€? link below.  Please note that I will never post a deceptive link on this blog.  All of the “moreâ€? links in my posts lead to a page on this blog that really just provides more photos.  There are no pop-ups, nor will you be taken to a different site, I just need to get some of the images off of the main page so it will load quicker for you.

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