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[ Friday, November 14, 2014 ]

Naked and Embarrassed for the complete Punishment Experience

There are many consenting adults in this world who participate in some sort of disciplinary relationship.  It may be a husband and wife who live a domestic discipline lifestyle, someone who reports to a disciplinarian for punishment as needed, or even those in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship.  Within any of these relationships, while spanking may at times take on a playful role, corporal punishment is indeed used as an actual punishment tool. A typical spanking may be spontaneous and used for slight transgressions and be just firm enough to make a point clear about some violation of the rules.  But there will come a time in any disciplinary relationship in which a punishment cannot be handled with a quick spanking and needs to become more of a disciplinary event.  This is the kind of punishment that if done in an effective manner, becomes something that the naughty person will never forget.

Over the years, I have been in the unique situation of being able to create many such experiences for deserving young ladies in need of such a punishment.  Please keep in mind that these were obviously consensual encounters and ones in which I was contacted by someone who was looking for a punishment with a level of severity that went well beyond a typical spanking.  I have discussed before in detail many of the techniques that can be used to create such an experience, especially when dealing with someone who does indeed have a spanking fetish. 

Today I wanted to discuss the topic of nudity as a tool to enhance the overall punishment experience.  This may not be quite as effective for a couple that utilizes spanking, as they already have an intimate relationship, so seeing each other naked is typically a common occurrence. For the young ladies over the years that have traveled to my location seeking a true punishment experience, generally we are meeting in person for the first time.  On these occasions I have been given a unique opportunity to use nudity as a punishment tool to make sure that their experience is one that is very long lasting.
I believe just about everyone that actively seeks out a spanking punishment, even if for real life offenses, does indeed have a spanking fetish.  On some level, even if they know that the spanking they are going to receive from me is severe, they have fantasized about it for a very long time.  Heavy in the fantasy is often the scolding and the actual spanking, but for many young ladies out there, the nudity is not something that they have considered.  Spanking is something that has lived in their psyche for a very long time, but being naked in front of someone they just met is just plain uncomfortable.  Well, uncomfortable is what I do when it comes to a punishment, so I play off this factor in a very big way.

Many people may think that disciplinarians that require a young lady to get naked for her punishment just want to see a naked woman.  For me it has nothing to do with my needs, turn ons, or desire for visual stimulation and has everything to do with creating an environment and experience that the young lady would never want to repeat.  She is being punished for her behavior, behavior that we are trying to completely eliminate, and I would be doing her a disservice by not doing everything in my power to assure that she has an experience to look back upon every time she finds her behavior slipping.  So the experience I create is more than just about being spanked.

I know the experience is effective from the look on the young lady’s faces when they are told to strip completely naked within the first minute of walking in my door.  They have mentally prepared themselves for many things, but getting naked in front of me before ever being asked to sit down, was not one of them.  This is such a powerful tool and accomplishes so many things with that one command.  First, there is really no situation in life, except jail, in which someone can demand that someone else strip fully naked.  Well, they are in trouble; they are going to be punished, so I have no trouble with creating a situation that only exists in jail.  It also quickly establishes control and immediately makes it clear to her that I am in charge.  Even more importantly, it makes her feel exposed and vulnerable.
As she stands in the middle of my living room, slowly removing every article of clothing that she is wearing, while I casually sit on the couch and watch, the punishment has already begun.  I have not lectured her, we have not covered her offenses or transgressions, and there is not a spot on her bottom that is the slightest bit pink, yet the punishment has begun.  She is not happy about this turn of events, she is very uncomfortable, and she is highly embarrassed.  I have already created a situation that she would not voluntarily want to repeat. Once she is fully naked I then require her to neatly fold her clothes. Just as with the jail reference before, there are very few situations in life in which someone is told to fold their clothes, except when they were a child.  She is in trouble, and she is indeed going to be spanked, so I do not mind at all if I am telling her to do things that give the whole situation a parental feel.

I find the living room element also to be an important part of her requirement to be naked.  Most people associate the bedroom with intimate moments and tend to spend the majority of their undressed time in that environment.  The typical woman does not wander around the house naked, so I like making her get naked in an even more uncomfortable environment. So now as she is standing before me, as naked as the day she was born, with her face the same color that her bottom will soon be, I take things to the next level.  I require her to stay in that spot, not allowing her to cover any part of her body and then I casually stand up and take her clothes.  I then take her clothes and walk them to a different room of the house, far out of her view and reach.  This tends to bring a sense of reality to the whole situation.  Her last defense, the last thing that might possibly protect her from this punishment she not only earned but actively sought out, is now gone.  She cannot just decide that she is going to back out and run out the door, her clothes are now gone.  Obviously, in any real life punishment I administer, the person being punished has the ability to leave.  But the removal of the clothing is highly symbolic and truly makes her feel even more vulnerable and helpless. 

When I return to the room and casually sit on the couch, we then begin to explore the reasons why she is there in the first place.  Now we have a young lady, who has probably fantasized and masturbated throughout her life about the moment in which she sat before a disciplinarian being lectured, but never did it play out in her head like this. This moment is not sexy, it is not like her fantasies, she is simply naked, embarrassed, and wants to be anywhere else in the world at that very moment.  The lecture is not going to be a quick one, I am going to make this last as long as it possible can.  Also, this is not the same as corner time.  Corner time often is part of a woman’s fantasy, but that is somehow more intimate, much more focused, and private.  She is not being given the benefit of having her naked body hidden with her nose in the corner.  This is not a quiet moment for reflection, this is an open and engaging conversation between adults, a normal daily occurrence, but one in which she is required to be naked for.  There is a sense of security and safety that comes with corner time, in this situation she only feels exposed and on display.

Throughout our correspondence it was been made clear that there will be no part of her spanking that will be light.  If she is coming to see me, it is indeed for the real thing, with tears as the goal from the beginning.  At no point have I previously ever discussed with her how she is going to be spanked or with what implement.  She probably has spent a considerable amount of time considering how bad the spanking is going to be and speculating exactly how it is going to take place.  There was probably also a considerable amount of fear wondering if she would be able to endure what I had in store for her.  That fear has been increased significantly by the removal of her clothing.  Any amount of time she spent convincing herself that she could get through it at the beginning as a result of a spanking administered over clothes, is out the window.  She knows she is going to be spanked hard and she now knows that from the first swat on, it will be her bare bottom paying the price.

From the moment that she was required to get naked, she is standing in the middle of the room, hands at her sides, facing me.  After what could be as long as a 30 minute conversation, it is time to remind her which part of her anatomy will be the focus of this visit.  After 30 minutes of growing slightly more comfortable standing naked before me, it is time to once again create more discomfort, both physically and mentally.  This is accomplished quite easily by telling her to turn around, assume a wide stance, and to bend over and grab her ankles.  If she had started to grow a little more comfortable with displaying full frontal nudity, this solves that problem quickly.  Any sense of modesty is fully out the window when a young lady is required to grab her ankles while fully naked.  The most intimate and private parts of her body are put fully on display with no way to hide them.  With a single command I was able to take the most uncomfortable and embarrassing moment of her life and enhance it significantly. Once again, no implement has made contact with any part of her body, but there is no doubt that she is being punished.

This is the part of her punishment in which physical discomfort starts to finally become a factor.  She is not being required to grab her ankles so I can immediately spank her.  It is at this point that I will start to gather implements and bring them into the room.  I am in no hurry as I know this position gets very uncomfortable very quickly.  Yes, she may indeed have fantasized about this very position, but she imagined it as part of a spanking.  Very quickly she is going to start to feel pain everywhere but the one place she wants it. Her legs and her muscles will become sore and eventually tremble a bit.  She has not been spanked yet, but with her body growing sore and her genital exposed and on display, there is no doubt that she is being punished.  The best part is, there is not one part of the current punishment that she has ever fantasized about and the chances of her ever wanting to repeat this portion of her punishment are very low.

Eventually all good things must come to an end and she will indeed be freed of the embarrassment and discomfort that she feels as a result of being naked and exposed in front of me.  In just a moment she will forget all about the nudity and it will be the farthest thing from her mind.  She will no longer be embarrassed and it will not bother her even the slightest little bit that her clothes are in the other room.  All of the shame and embarrassment will quickly be replaced with something else that will be all encompassing and will quickly become the only thing that exists in her universe…pain. 

Recent Videos

Sometimes I like to put some of my recent work out there for free so you all can see what we have been up to.  While there are still many, many bare bottom videos on our sites, we have been getting a lot of requests for punishment that are more realistic.  Some of the most highly rated scenes on Realspankings.com are those that recreate how corporal punishment is most often practiced in the homes of America.  It seems that many of you want to see exactly how the older teen girl is actually punished in the privacy of her home.  While bare bottom spankings do indeed occur, they are certainly not the norm.  If you look at how the typical teen girl is actually punished in the South, it is generally done with a belt, over her pants in the home, or with a paddle over her pants in school. 

In the home, most often a young lady is sent to her room, and then receives a visit from one of her parents with a belt.  There is no baring of the bottom, there is no corner time, and most certainly it is not a progressive spanking that involves some sort of warm-up.  The parent administering the punishment gets right to work with the belt with the goal of creating a sore bottom.  The punishment does not go on and on for five minutes, and it is typically over in well under a minute.  In many of our recent videos we are doing our best to create this overall experience.  Yes, these are legal aged girls, who are being paid as a model, but that does not mean we are not creating an authentic corporal punishment experience for them.  Below is a perfect example of what I believe to be highly realistic corporal punishment.  Two sisters are marched upstairs, each to receive a hard whuppin for misbehavior.  One is taken into the bedroom for her strapping, while the other waits outside the door for her turn.

In the next video we look at corporal punishment as it is applied in many schools, mostly in the South.  While some schools do indeed allow a teacher to apply a paddling, most corporal punishment takes place in the school office and is applied by the principal of vice principal.  There is indeed a little fantasy involved in this clip as it would be unusual for a student to be paddled in front of another student.  In addition, in a situation where a female student is being paddled by a male administrator, there would typically be a female witness in the room.  We film many videos that show exactly what I just described, but for this video we wanted to create a scene in which multiple girls were being paddled in the school office.  The paddle used, the severity of the paddling, and the position she is required to assume all fall well within the typical standards for corporal punishment in school.

You can see the other girl receive her hard whuppin, as well as the rest of the girls being paddled in the office, all in full HD, only in the member’s area of Realspankings.com.

[ Thursday, November 13, 2014 ]

Paddled on her bare bottom

The look on her face tells the entire story.  Even when it is her mom swinging the family paddle, when it is on her bare bottom, it is always bad.  But she has earned this punishment, so she has no choice but to lower her pants and panties and present her 18 year old bottom for a bare bottom paddling that she will never forget.

Waiting for her spanking

Making a spanking somewhat public can often decrease the chances of the undesirable behavior occurring again.  This young lady was sent to the family room, told to bare her bottom, and then wait for her strapping.  She knows that the strapping will be intense, but even worse, she knows it will be administered in the full view of anyone who happens to be present at the time. 

Naked and embarrassed before her spanking

Forced nudity is an effective tool when a very real impression needs to be made as part of a young lady’s punishment.  It demonstrates control and adds an element of embarrassment that will assure that the punishment is remembered well after the sting of the spanking has faded.

Corner time is quite effective after a proper spanking

A moment of reflection helps a young lady to reaccess her attitude and behavior.

[ Thursday, November 06, 2014 ]

The lovely Raquel returns for an intense school paddling, a whoopin from dad, and nude discipline

It is always nice when a highly popular model returns for some hard hitting spanking fun.  The beautiful Miss Raquel made her 1st trip to our new studio, and her third visit since she returned to shooting with us.  While in the old days we used to have to go quite easy on Raquel, as she does not have much of a pain tolerance, this is no longer the case.  She came in having made a very informed decision, knowing that pretty much every model leaves our studio with a bruised bottom, and today was no exception.

For her 1st scene she received a three part strapping for RealspankingsInstitute.com.  It seems she is having trouble with her study habits, so the Dean decided to help motivate her. She is brought to study hall and given ten hard strokes with the tawse to make sure she is awake.  She is then required to put in her study time while kneeling on a hard wooden stool.  After 30 minutes of studying the Dean once again visits her, requires her to remove her skirt and shirt, and then applies another 10 hard strokes to her bottom.  She is once again required to kneel and study for an additional 30 minutes.  On the Dean’s last trip in, she is required to strip fully naked for her final 10 strokes.  For the last hour of studying, she is not allowed to sit or kneel, and instead is required to bend over, while still fully naked, and complete her studying from this position.

For Raquel’s second scene of the day, this time for Realspankings.com, she is introduced to a good old fashioned whoopin as applied on a daily basis to the bottoms of teen girls throughout the Southern US.  When she finds herself in trouble her only excuse is “I was not thinking”.  I decide that her not thinking is exactly the problem, so she is given plenty of time to think.  She is required to stand in the middle of the living room, bend over and grab her ankles, and properly present her bottom for a long session with my belt.  Instead of whoopin that bottom right away, she is left in that position for several minutes so she will indeed have “time to think”.  When I finally do get to strapping her pretty bottom, I demonstrate to her what a real Southern whoopin is all about.  She receives 30 strokes with the belt, applied full force, and before I am done her bottom is not only on fire, but there is plenty of bruising.  This is not something we used to be able to do with Raquel in the old days, and to top it all off, the scene ends with her in tears.  She was a little surprised at her own emotion, but once you see the strapping she received, it will make sense.  After I tear her butt up with the belt, she is once again allowed some time to think.  She is required to lower her jeans and her panties, once again grab her ankles, and given several minutes to think about the actions that she engaged in that left her bottom so sore.

In sticking with the Southern theme, for her last scene of the day, we decide to recreate some good old fashioned school corporal punishment.  This scene was based on a recent school paddling policy I read about for a high school in Texas is which for the 6th occurrence of a tardy for a single class over the course of a semester would result in “9 licks, applied 3 a day for 3 days, and 3 days of ISS”.  We took this punishment, but instead of applying it over three days, we did three swats, three times over the course of the same day.  Miss Raquel was dressed as a typical Texas high school senior would be, with skin tight jeans and a t-shirt.  For the first of her licks, I made her bend over, arms reaching out forward, with her hands on the edge of my desk.  While this may be a paid model for a spanking video, I like to do my best to do the best job possible when trying to recreate school corporal punishment.  I think the goal of any school paddling is indeed the girl leaving with a very sore bottom, so I do my best to make this the case in my shoots. 

Using a heavy oak paddle, the same dimensions of a typical school paddle, I applied her first three licks, very hard, all to the lowest part of her bottom, each lick landing on top of the last.  I find this allows me to more safely apply hard swats, while also assuring that the part of her bottom that makes contact with a chair when she sits, becomes as sore as possible.  After three hard licks, with her fighting back the tears, I sent her on her way, telling her to return after she eats lunch.  After a couple more classes and then lunch, she returns to my office for the second set of three licks.  I can tell you she was not thrilled at the prospect of three more licks after her bottom had cooled down.  It is certainly much easier to take nine swats all in a row as endorphins kick in and there tends to be some numbness after a few hard swats.  With a break in between, there is nothing in her body to help her combat the pain, and by this time her bruised bottom is already quite sore. 

In my quest to provide whoever I am paddling, the sorest bottom that I possibly can, I had her alter her position a little from the previous one.  For these 3 licks, she is required to bend over and place her hands on her knees.  This allows her bottom to be pulled just a little tighter, assuring that these swats will effect her just a little deeper.  The goal of a hard school paddling should never be just to bring some sting to the naughty young lady’s bottom.  Yes, a stinging bottom can help teach a lesson, but long term soreness should always be the goal when using a heavy wooden paddle.  For the next three licks, they were once again all placed on the same place on her bottom...nice and low where the thighs meet the bottom.  This assures that the “sit spot” will become properly bruised and that the lesson is long lasting.  Barely able to maintain her position for all three licks, Raquel is once again sent from my office, with an even more bruised and swollen bottom.

Unfortunately for this young lady her day is not over.  She is told to return 3 hours later for the final part of her paddling.  With an already very sore bottom, Raquel is not all that thrilled about the final punishment she is to receive, nine total swats was exactly what she was sentenced and what we agreed upon.  To make completely sure that I achieve the overall long term soreness that is my goal, for her last three licks, she is required to grab her ankles.  I have learned over my many years of doing this that when a young lady is required to grab her ankles, it really pulls her bottom tight.  This pulls the padding that a young lady has on her bottom very tight and allows less protection for the muscles of her bottom.  Long term learning takes place when a hard paddle swat is allowed direct contact to these muscles.  This assures that her bottom will not just be red and stinging, but will be bruised and sore.  A real school paddling is done in such a manner that when this young lady gets out of bed the next morning, that she will remember that she was in trouble.  It will not be a punishment that she simply forgets about once it is over.  If done right, which is always my goal, her punishment will continue every time she sits down for the next couple of days.  In order for this to be the case for Raquel, I make sure the last three licks, while she is grabbing her ankles, really count.  Her vocal reactions and the after pictures of her very bruised bottom demonstrate that I did my job well. 

Raquel may be a paid spanking model, but I assure you over the course of today, she went through an experience that is all too common for high school aged girls in the South.  I did my very best to make the experience as real as it can possibly be and there was nothing easy or gentle about it.  Her bottom was torn up with my belt until there were tears in her eyes, and she was properly paddled until I was assured that she will be sitting gingerly for a few days to come.  The tears and bruises do not lie as Raquel left having had the most intense corporal punishment experience of her life.  This was just filmed today but will be part of future updates in the coming weeks, in full HD at, Realspankings.com and RealspankingsInstitute.com.

[ Wednesday, October 29, 2014 ]

Girls receiving corporal punishment in school

At Realspankings.com, very realistic school paddling videos have always been a staple.  While we certainly film plenty of bare bottom and fully naked paddling videos, we do realize that many people want to see a paddling take place, exactly as it does in the high schools throughout the South. This typically involves a teen girl, wearing tight jeans, bending over and presenting her bottom for some hard swats with a heavy wooden school paddle.  These tend to be our highest rated and most popular scenes, so we film them quite often and currently have 168 very realistic school paddling scenes online in the member’s area of Realspankings.com.  Here is a taste of some of the HD school paddling updates from just the past few months:

The question that most people have, especially regarding websites that they have never joined, is if the spankings are going to be hard.  We have all faced the issue of seeing awesome photos, joining a site and then seeing pitty pat, fake ass spankings, that just tends to piss us off.  When it comes to the school paddling videos at Realspankings.com I can assure you that they are as hard as they get.  Yes, we are filming adult spanking videos for people to view on their computers, but our goal is to film actual corporal punishment in action and record what the true results are.  With the school corporal punishment videos we film, I assure you that these young ladies are being paddled in the most realistic way possible.  These are full force swings, with heavy wooden school paddles, and for the girl being paddled to end up in tears, it is not that unusual.  While the majority of our school paddling recreations do indeed involve a girl being paddled over her jeans, shorts, or skirt, we know you want to see the real results are of hard school corporal punishment.  Once the scene is over, the camera is turned back on and you get to see each and every young lady that has been paddled, lower her pants and panties and show you her bare bottom up close.  What you will indeed see is that school corporal punishment, when administered properly, is very effective.  These young ladies are not showing you pink bottoms, they are showing you bruised bottoms that will be sore for days.  Don’t believe me, take a peek at some of the recent results of ten swat paddling administered over clothing:

If you are looking to witness hard school corporal punishment as it actually exists in the real world, then head on over to Realspankings.com.  All of the video in the last couple of years are filmed in full HD, with two separate camera angles capturing all of the hard hitting action. 

Watching his sister get paddled

There are very few things in this world that bring more joy to a 12 year old boy than spying on his big sister getting a bare bottom paddling from dad.

From the hard hitting voyeur paddling video in the member’s area of Realspankings.com

[ Saturday, September 20, 2014 ]

Chat tomorrow

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