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[ Thursday, January 07, 2016 ]
A fully naked bare bottom paddling to tears
The young Miss Kiki is sure becoming a star for us. Here, for no particular reason, is a recent video from the member’s area of RealspankingsInstitute.com. Three updates a week for 13 years in a row. Current content:
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[ Wednesday, January 06, 2016 ]
Using Embarrassment to enhance a spanking
As someone that administers frequent real life discipline spankings off camera, I am always looking for ways to enhance the overall value of the punishment. While I am highly selective as to who I will meet for private discipline, meaning I only spank those who are really looking to make life changes, clearly just about every woman who comes to see me has a spanking fetish. Yes, they are really looking for a punishment that will not be enjoyed and may actually lead to a change in behavior, but on some level (many really) what they are coming to me for is something that they have and will continue to fantasize about. I may blister their bottoms in such a way that sitting is quite difficult, but that does not mean that they will not masturbate to the thought of all of this taking place.
Something that I have found to be very effective over the years, and something that I use almost every time to enhance a punishment, is embarrassment. I need to be very clear that I am not talking about humiliation. I do not talk down to anyone that I punish, I do not call them whores, I do not make them beg or crawl, and they are generally treated with a greater respect than they are probably even used to. I am very polite and I use please and thank you throughout every punishment. I can accomplish all of these things and still utilize embarrassment as a part of the punishment. While most of the women have fantasized about many aspects of the punishment, they tend to focus on being in trouble, the lecture, being told what to do, and eventually being spanked. They might even fantasize about baring their bottom for their spanking, but I do not think for many women that they consider the effect that nudity and embarrassing positions can have on the overall punishment experience.
I can honestly say that around 75% of the private punishments I administer, especially if it is her very first time to meet me in person, begin with full nudity. Yes, there are some women who are exhibitionists and find some excitement with being naked. But the majority of women out there, are not all that comfortable with their bodies and go well out of their way to not be naked in front of others. Maybe after some time with a partner they know and love, nudity might become a little more comfortable, but for some women, they do not even get fully naked in the light with their husband. I know many women who do not get fully naked in a women’s locker room and prefer to change in a stall. In general, being fully naked in the presence of someone else, especially someone that you are not intimate with can be very uncomfortable…perfect. Uncomfortable is exactly what I am looking to provide. I want the spanking to be uncomfortable, the positions to be uncomfortable, her bottom afterword to be uncomfortable, and if I can make just being in the same room with me, prior to any discipline actually taking place, uncomfortable, then I will do that every time.
Typically, as I live somewhat secluded in the mountains, I will meet someone prior to going to my place, and they will ride along with me. I keep the mood light, I do not try and be all Dom like, as I do want her to feel relatively safe. There is no talk about her behavior, what is coming, or any of that, we typically talk about how her flight was, or any issues with a rental car, or travel. But once we get to my home, as soon as we walk into my great room, I politely say “OK, if you could please remove all of your clothing now”. This is such a very powerful statement and it accomplishes so very much. First, it shows that we have started and that I am very much the one in charge. Outside of jail or a doctor’s office, there is no situation in life when someone can demand you strip naked, but once she has entered my house, for the purpose of a consensual adult punishment, reality begins to change a little. The response is almost always the same, it is generally “what?”, or “I’m sorry?” as if somehow they did not hear me correctly. I inform them that I know that I spoke very clearly and loudly enough for them to hear me, so if they are somehow, with that response, implying that they did not hear me or do not understand, than I will take that as the same as a lie. Then once more politely, “you heard exactly what I said, now get it done”.
All of a sudden their punishment just got very real and something that was probably not part of their fantasy, and something that is about to be horribly uncomfortable and embarrassing, just became reality. This means, we are off to a good start, as before there is a lecture or a spanking, they are not very happy with the situation and as they go for that first button on their blouse or pants the punishment has begun. With shaking hands the process eventually begins as she finds herself horrified to be slowly getting naked in front of someone that she talked to in person, for the very first time, less than 30 minutes ago. When her clothing is all off, generally with her trying to hide her privates behind her hands, I typically take the clothes and move them to another room. The removal of her clothing helps her feel even more naked and embarrassed as there is not even the security of knowing where they are. I often return with a small wooden stool, only a couple of feet tall, and place it in the middle of the room. She is then asked to stand on the stool and to fold her arms behind her back. Being fully naked, becomes FULLY NAKED when she steps up onto the stool and can no longer try to hide herself. Faces will be flush with embarrassment and she will feel as uncomfortable as she ever really has in her life.
This is how the punishment begins and now we can get on to all of things that she probably imagined. We discuss her behavior, as detailed in our correspondence, what the punishment should be, changes she will make in her life, etc. Regardless of how this goes, for the duration of the discussion she is going to be acutely aware of how very naked she is. It is not going at all like it did in her fantasies and all she wants is to not be naked and on display in front of me. But the reality is, this is the least naked she is going to feel for the duration of her discipline session with me, as I am going to take full advantage of her insecurities being nude and use them to their fullest.
There will be many positions that I will choose to spank her in because they are very functional and will allow me to apply whatever implement I have chosen in the most effective manner. But there will also be many positions that I will chose, for the express purpose of making her feel even more naked, vulnerable, and exposed. I am going to have her vagina and butthole on display in a manner that she has never known. I will take her to a brand new level of embarrassment when I have her hop off the stool, turn around, spread her legs as wide as she can get them, and then have her grab her ankles. I will then have her arch her back a little, and bend her legs slightly, so her privates present ever better. She knows as she assumes this position the view that I now have. I do not care how comfortable she is with her body and being naked, this position is as embarrassing and uncomfortable for any woman.
There may be positions she is made to assume, that she will not even be spanked in, she will be placed in that position strictly for the embarrassment factor. I will also spank her in positions in which are not even really the best position to spank someone in, and is being done just for the added exposure. There is nothing really all that functional about the “diaper position” except that it is very embarrassing to be spanked that way. In her daily life, the amount of modesty she chooses at any given moment is completely up to her, but here, as a result of her behavior, modesty is no longer a right or a privilege, it is now for me to decide. My choices are going to be based on what is the least comfortable and most embarrassing for her and visual access to everything that she covers on a daily basis will be a must.
The sky is the limit and there are so many ways to accomplish this goal. Typically, when her bottom is higher than her head, you will create a more exposed and embarrassing position. Obviously, the more spread her legs are, the more on display all of her intimate areas will be. Often instead of having a young lady bend over a chair, I will have her straddle the chair. When you combine the two, with a young lady bent as far as possible, and spread as far as possible, you create a very uncomfortable situation for her. Just as with a spanking, there are situations in which whatever form of punishment you are using needs to be made more severe. Take a young lady, which is extremely embarrassed about being naked at all; have her bend over, with her legs spread wide, and then add to the severity by having her reach back and spread her butt cheeks as wide as they will go. Or we can take the diaper position, with her on her back, legs in the air, and require her to spread her legs.
This added embarrassment does not need to end after the spanking is over, as it is easy to bring the same dynamic to corner time before, during, and after the spanking. There are many that are almost grateful for corner time, as it means the spanking is finally over. But if the position is chosen correctly, the punishment just continues along with the embarrassment. I often chose an uncomfortable position for corner time, but exposure adds so very much. I always make sure that when this takes place, that her most exposed and private areas are pointed directly where I will be sitting for her time for reflection. I want her to feel my eyes, as her womanhood if on display.
All photos in this post come from recent video shoot in the member’s area of RealspankingsInstitute.com. If you like the added embarrassment of fully naked spankings, girls put in exposed and uncomfortable positions, I suggest you take a look at the trailers below from our new, two part, HD PPV movies that deal only with this exact type of punishment. These movies are available for download at our Spanking Library Store
[ Tuesday, January 05, 2016 ]
Spanked for behavior on Facebook
It is becoming quite the common thing to now see parents posting videos of them spanking their teen daughters as a result of behavior on Facebook. These go viral on the web with mixed reactions from the viewing public. I read many comments that state “this is sick, and this mom should go to jail”. But the more prevalent comment seems to be that this type of discipline is lacking in society and that more smacked bottoms would result in more respectful teens. The most recent one I have very mixed feelings about. It is the one is which a mom is punishing her teen daughter, over her panties, with what appears to be an electrical cord, as a result of her “ho” sort of behavior. The first issue I have is that the mom is using the worst language possible, which I find it hard to teach a young lady a good lesson about the proper way to act when every other word is fuck. Secondly, the use of an electrical cord, especially while also holding a cell phone to film, is just dangerous.
While I do not think a spanking is the best method of discipline for children, I decided to play off this video that I just described, and show how I think it would better be handled. Instead of a mom with an electrical cord screaming “motherfucker” throughout, I went with an angry, but at least respectful dad. After a quick lecture about her posting half naked pictures of herself on Facebook, she is taken over the knee for a very long and hard bare bottom spanking. Of course, just as with all of these videos that are popping up on the web, he films it all on his cell phone to post to her FB account. Here is an animation from the recent video in the member’s area of Realspankings.com
World Spanking Forum
Many of you have noticed that the World Spanking Forum is currently having issues. We had a major crash of our database just before I left the country for the holidays. At the moment, I am not sure the best resolution, as the techs are struggling with it all. I am considering a new and improved relaunch of the site, as the older version is well outdated and is on an older server. I am now back, please give us a little time as we work out the best solution.
[ Saturday, January 02, 2016 ]
For whatever reason, three years later, 8000+ posts, and 10,000+ followers, Tumblr deleted my account with warning. Customer service finally answered and stated “misleading links” as the reason for account deletion, which is bullshit, all links went to my sites, or PPV movies. Either way, I have started again. It will take a few months but I will get all content back in place. You can visit the new one here
[ Thursday, December 17, 2015 ]
Bare your bottom and present it for your spanking
As a lifelong spanko there are many aspects of spanking that I find very exciting. I think everyone in our kinky little community has their own particular things that turn them on about spanking. I have talked at length about many of these topics, but today I wanted to discuss the presentation of the bottom to be spanked. For me, this is one of the most important and most exciting aspects of a true punishment spanking. Many people simply see it has functional, but for me it means so much more than that. It really is the heart and soul of a spanking as it defines the whole process.
I will never find a spanking exciting in which one person has to hold another person down in order to apply a punishment. A spanking, one that is truly deserved, and has been earned, should be a cooperative event. The person that is to be spanked knows on some level that they have earned this spanking. The entire reason this event is even taking place is as a result of their behavior. The person applying the spanking is not doing it for personal gain, it is the exact opposite. They are taking the time out of their day to apply a spanking because it is needed.
When the naughty young lady presents her bottom to be spanked, it is an acknowledgement that she knows that she misbehaved. Yes, she could run or refuse to be spanked, but instead she bends over and presents her bottom to be punished because she knows she needs it. She knows that the person tasked with her discipline is doing it for her own good. By presenting her bottom she is also giving consent to be punished.
There are a few variations on this process, both of which I find appealing. The first is in which I personally bare her bottom for her spanking. This gives an added dynamic of control and clearly defines who is running the show. There are really no situations in life, outside of sexual interactions, in which one healthy adult undresses another. In a sexual interaction, people undress each other in anticipation of pleasure and it is an act that is very much looked forward to. But when I lower a young lady’s pants and panties as a result of her behavior, it will be anything but pleasurable.
It demonstrates that her behavior has led us to a place in which I now need to take charge. I am not only in charge of her discipline, but if I choose to, I will also undress her to the level that I feel is required to make the point that needs to be made. This also tends to take her back a little and adds a parental feeling to the whole process, which is a good thing, as if she is acting in a manner as an adult that requires a spanking, then she has some growing up to do.
While I feel there are many situations that call for me removing the necessary clothing for the punishment, there is also something quite exciting and powerful about her presenting her own bare bottom to me to be spanked. Once again, her clothing is not coming off for pleasure and the moment she starts to unbutton her pants, she knows that things just became more serious. She now knows that her behavior requires her to go through a process that is going to make things much more painful. Even better, I am not going to this for her, she is going to have to go through all the steps on her own to put her bottom is a state that will allow more pain to be provided.
The last thing she wants is to be spanked, and even worse to be spanked on the bare bottom. But at this moment, under these circumstances, she finds herself doing exactly as she is told because this is her spanking and she has earned it. A lot of the spankings I provide in private are to young ladies that I may actually be meeting face to face for the first time. The overall punishment value is raised considerably when a man that she is not intimate with is demanding that she expose herself from the waist down. Before the very first swat her punishment has already started as a result of having to lower her pants and panties in front of someone she does not even know.
Even more exciting for me in this process, is the fact that she will now have to present her bottom in whatever manner I find to be the most effective for the application of pain to her bottom. There are many steps in the overall process of a spanking, but it is pretty clear that once a bottom is bared, and then presented to be spanked, that all that is left is the actual spanking. Many roads have led to this very moment, but it is actually happening and is now very real. This is not always easy for many young ladies and I have seen people struggle to actually perform this task.
You can see the hesitation, fear, and apprehension in their eyes as they are told to bend over. They know this is the last thing that they not only have to do before getting spanked, but do so voluntarily. I am not going to bend her over, she needs to find the courage to do it herself, and knowing what will happen once her bottom is in the air, it is not always easy. But this is one of the most important parts of a spanking, as until she has bared her bottom and presented it properly, she has not submitted or surrendered to the fact that she is indeed going to be spanked.
This is the moment in which she fully owns the behavior that led her here in the first place. It is a physical act that acknowledges that what she did was wrong. It allows her to take total ownership for her attitude or behavior that was found to be clearly unacceptable. This makes it HER spanking, she has earned it, it is not for me, it is for HER. If she was in trouble and I grabbed her forcefully, pulled her over my lap, and held her in place for her spanking, it would not mean as much for her personal growth.
Another difficult part of this very important process, for the person that is about to be spanked, is that they are not only baring their bottom and presenting it, they are actually doing so in a manner that allows me to provide the most effective spanking as possible. Position is very important in regards to what implement will be used. When I am asking her to present her bottom for a spanking, I am asking her to present it in a way that will allow me to apply as much pain as I can. When she sees that heavy wooden school paddle in my hands, and I tell her to lower her pants and her panties, then turn around and grab her ankles, this is not as easy task.
She does not want to expose herself from the waist down for me. She absolutely does not want to be in such a vulnerable, humiliating, and embarrassing position in front of me. She does not want everything between her legs to now be on display. But most of all, she does not want anything to do with my heavy paddle being applied forcefully to her bare bottom. But when it comes down to it, even with her whole body shaking, she finds herself doing exactly as she was instructed.
The reason she is doing this, is because it is being done for her. She may fear it on every single level that she can, but she still complies with what she has been instructed to do. She knows, deep down, that this process is going to help her be a better person. She knows that this behavior, that she cannot seem to control on her own, has a good chance of being eliminated as a result of this entire process.
She knows as she is lowering her pants and baring her bottom that it is going to hurt so much more. She knows that by grabbing her ankles that this paddling is going to be just about as bad as a paddling can be. She also knows that once she actually goes through with bending over, that a pain that she has never known before will be just seconds away.
She also knows that she has earned everything that she is about to receive. She knows that I will apply this spanking in a manner intended to permanently change her behavior. There will be tears and they will last for quite a while. Her bottom will hurt very much during the spanking and will continue to hurt for a few days. She will learn a very real lesson as a result of very real discipline and if all goes well there will be a very real change in her behavior.
But none of this can actually happen until she bares her bottom, turns around, a presents it to be punished.
All of these animations and the young ladies presenting their bottoms to be spanked below are from video in the member’s area of Realspankings.com
[ Wednesday, December 16, 2015 ]
School Paddling- Short Shorts and Yoga Pants
School corporal punishment is still widely used in the Southern US for a reason…it works. On a daily basis young ladies are required to bend over a desk, or place their hands on their knees, or maybe even required to grab their ankles for many hard swats with a wooden school paddle. Unfortunately for these young ladies, they do not get to decide what they wear for their paddling as it generally happens on the same day that the infraction occurs. With the popularity of yoga pants, and daisy duke shorts, you can count on the fact that many young ladies find themselves assuming the position wearing something that adds very little protection and also provides little in the way of modesty. She may have choose that outfit that morning to show her cute little bottom off to the boys in the hallway of her school, but she had no idea she would be bending over and presenting it to the principal for a paddling she would never forget.
In our latest release we highlight this exact concept and show you what true school corporal punishment applied over yoga pants or short shorts looks like. In this 70 minute video, you will watch 16 different scenes in which school corporal punishment is applied in the most realistic and severe manner. These are not playful little paddlings with tiny little paddles. You will witness first-hand the effect that full force swats, with very large and heavy school paddles, can have on a young lady’s attitude and more importantly…her bottom. Through a variety of positions you will see how lessons are learned when corporal punishment is used in a manner designed to do one thing…bruise a young lady’s bottom.
Each scene features two camera angles so you can see each swat hit her young bottom as well as her facial reaction to each severe swat with a heavy wooden paddle. In each and every scene, when the girl finds a moment to herself, you will see her reveal her bare bottom and show you exactly the kind of results a true school paddling can produce. You will see that every single girl ends up with a much bruised bottom, and many are left in tears. The one thing that is common to each scene is a young lady taught a very serious lesson and changes in behavior. For fans of realistic and severe corporal punishment, this video is not to be missed.
Now available at Spanking Library
Models having fun
So after the shoot yesterday, one in which I paddled both girls black and blue, I went and changed. When I came back in the room, KJ was taking selfies with her and Syrena’s bruised bottom, so I took a picture to share with you. Tell me these girls do not love their jobs.
[ Thursday, December 10, 2015 ]
OTK- 2015 Part 2 PPV
And now I present part 2 of the OTK PPV. Part 2- When a young lady finds herself requiring discipline, a very effective and intimate way to apply her spanking if the over the knee position. In this 78 minute video, you will watch 12 different models; in 17 different scenes get her bottom blistered in the otk position. Through the application of the hand, paddle, and heavy wooden hairbrushes, you will see how very real lessons are learned. Now available at my Spanking Library Store.
[ Monday, December 07, 2015 ]
OTK- 2015 Part 1 PPV
When a young lady finds herself requiring discipline, a very effective and intimate way to apply her spanking is the over the knee position. In this 72 minute video, you will watch 17 different scenes in which a young lady has her bottom blistered while OTK. Through the application of the hand, wooden spoons, paddles, and heavy wooden hairbrushes, you will see how very real lessons are learned. Now available at Spanking Library