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Models who hate to be spanked

A look at the models we hire that have no desire to be spanked

I had a reader send an e-mail that requested that I write a blog entry to explore the opposite of an earlier blog entry, “Models who like to be spankedâ€?.  It is always nice for us when we get a model that is in our studio because of her desire to be spanked.  It is fun to help a girl explore something she has only fantasized about and apply her very first spanking.  It is much easier for us, with the job we have, to know that a model is getting something from her spanking besides unwanted pain.  The reality of the business is that most of the models we hire have no desire to be spanked at all.  It is often the generous paychecks that we provide that motivate them to bare their bottoms and bend over for a hard spanking.

There are several factors involved that not only get them in the door, but keep them coming back.  The first is clearly the money.  We pay very generously and in just two shoots a month (about 5 hours total) they can earn more than they would working 20 hours a week at a part-time job.  Five hours a month for more than they would make putting in 80 hours at a normal job is quite the motivation.  Another factor is professionalism.  We treat our models well and more importantly, with respect.  In an industry that often treats models poorly; most girls recognize what a good thing they have with us.  Something else that we point out often to our models is that the pain is generally very temporary.  After a hard scene that leaves a girl in tears, we ask them ten minutes later how their bottom is and it is generally fine.  Not only has the pain subsided, but they often find that it has been replaced with a warm glow and sometimes even a pleasant tingling sensation in their crotch. 

We have had a few models that came to us and told us that they were not into spanking, but quickly realized that they found it sexually exciting.  They simply had not been exposed to it before to know they might find it enjoyable.  There are many girls that even if they did not like being spanked, they found the whole experience to be arousing.  They found the whole concept of stripping naked, in front of cameras and production people, to be quite stimulating.  Related to this are the girls who have been good their whole life and are just ready to do something kind of naughty.  They find a sense of freedom in doing something that might be considered bad or kinky.  A perfect example is Kathy from Realspankings.com.  If you have ever seen any of her videos it is very clear that she hates to be spanked.  She is quick to cry and has a great deal of trouble dealing with pain.  She gets so nervous before every shoot that she can barely speak to us.  But after her first spanking of the day, she is almost a different person.  She is all of sudden relaxed and easy going.  At times, she almost seems proud of what she was able to accomplish and the fact that as rough as it was, she did it.  She is also someone who grew up in the most conservative environment you can imagine.  It is clear to us that part of the reason she is doing this is because it is her very first journey into fully realizing the full potential of her sexuality.  She wants to be bad, she wants to be kinky, but she has been told her whole life that this is wrong.  She has finally found an environment in which she can be free to express her sexual thoughts and desires.  While spanking is not her thing, it seems to be a springboard that will allow her to confidently explore other sexual realms without having to feel guilty about it.  While she was always embarrassed to express things that she would like to explore, with a little help she was able to open up to us a little.  You will notice that Kathy often does scenes with other girls.  This is not a coincidence; this is something that Kathy has asked to do.  While she would never come out and say it, I think this was a little bit of sexual exploration for her.  It is a long way from girl/girl sex, but it did allow her to explore new sexual experiences in the presence of, and with, other beautiful and naked girls.  I personally think Kathy is a kinky sexual dynamo that is just now coming out of her shell.

We have had other models, that while not fully converted to spanking, have found certain scenes to be exciting for them.  I can remember one model that clearly hated to be spanked, that really surprised Dee and I after a scene.  She was fully naked and a little slower than usual to put her clothes back on.  She looked confused for a moment and then looked at Dee and said “wow, I think that scene might have made me all wetâ€?.  It took awhile for her to find a scene and a dynamic that did it for her, but when everything was right, her body let her know that this was exciting.  We have had other models that do not enjoy being spanked that have confessed to Dee that after every shoot that they go home and masturbate because their orgasms are always more intense after a day in the studio with us.  We have also had models tell us that their boyfriends love that they are working for us because the night after a shoot the sex seems to be much better for them. 

While money seems to be the main motivation for models who do not like to spanked, a sense of sexual exploration, heightened sensitive in their erogenous zones, and just getting to be naughty all seem to be factors that contribute to them doing what they do for us (and you).

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