Saturday, June 14, 2008
Summer
As a few days have passed without a blog post, I am sure there are thoughts that I have gone off the reservation again. I want to assure all of my loyal readers that I simply making a schedule adjustment, now that summer is here. I do not work a regular 9-5 job, so when school in not in session, I do not have the same time available to me for blogging. I need another week or so, for everything to be in place for me to be able to work daily again. I will reward all of you for your patience with a new free spanking gallery today. Rest assured that I am still back in the game, but I am a stay at home dad, and my priorities change in the summer.
Sunday, June 08, 2008
Domestic Discpline
It has been a little while since I have visited the Taken in Hand website, and I had forgotten what a great resource that it is. There are many men and women out there that fantasize about a full-time relationship that utilizes domestic discipline. In these modern times, that concept is foreign to many people and often feels like a step back to the 50’s. But for many, a relationship such as this can be quite fulfilling, has the ability to actually increase the level of communication and intimacy, and takes the sensual exchange of power to a new level. A true domestic discipline relationship has the ability to take some of the play out of spanking and can turn the role playing into reality.
There are very few spanking sites out there that I really consider an educational resource, but there is no doubt that Taken in Hand is truly that. This is not a site to visit when you are looking for good spanking content. This is truly a resource for consenting couples looking for information regarding the pros and cons of a full-time disciplinary relationship. Quite honestly, a relationship such as this is not always the easiest or most realistic thing to pursue. But for just about any potential problem that may come up, I guarantee there is an article at Taken in Hand that addresses how other DD couples have handled that experience.
One thing that I find the most appealing about the articles written for this site, is the love. Domestic discipline may not be for everyone, but it is clear from reading through the site, that the people who have found the right balance and are making a DD relationship work, are closer and more connected as a result. This site is an especially valuable resource for women who struggle with how to tell their husbands that they desire a little discipline in their lives. Two thumbs up for Taken in Hand and their very real contributions to the world of consensual adult spanking relationships.
Taken in Hand is a free site, and I do not get a penny for writing about them. This blog post is truly about supporting a site that is providing a service for everyone that is even just a little curious about the reality of a domestic discipline relationship.
Saturday, June 07, 2008
Domestic Discipline- wife spanked otk with hairbrush
A nice little otk hairbrush spanking from a loving husband.
Wooden paddle updates at Firmhand Spanking
From the member’s area of Firm Hand Spanking
There have been a few good hard paddling updates over at Firm Hand Spanking. The most recent update features Kailee, originally from the Realspankings family of sites grabbing her ankles for a school style paddling.
From the member’s area of Firm Hand Spanking
Also not to be missed is Lizzy Madison’s paddling over her cute panties and eventually her bare bottom.
From the member’s area of Firm Hand Spanking
From the member’s area of Firm Hand Spanking
Wednesday, June 04, 2008
Spanking Chat
Recently I have been finding my way into spanking chat rooms again. While the chat room at World Spanking Forum is always up and running, it does not see regular traffic. When a chat does get started there, it tends to get pretty busy. A new feature is the “who is chatting” link, located in the left margin of the forum. This allows you to see who is in the room before logging in. If you are a member of the forum, your username and password will work for logging in. If you are not a member, just pick a username and leave the password area blank to login.
Over at Happy Tails there seems to be a chat every night. They tend to get started after 9:00 PM (mountain time), and by 10:00 there is a group that has always gathered. You can check who is chatting before logging in, by clicking HERE, or go directly to their spanking chat here. I skip back and forth between the two, so I look forward to chatting with you all.
Tuesday, June 03, 2008
Is a bruised bottom sexy?
From the member’s area of Realspankings.com
Is a red bottom from a good spanking more attractive to look at than an unspanked bottom? When the internet was brand new, before I had created any spanking sites, just like most of you I was searching the web for spanking content. Content was very limited in those days, with most of the content being magazine scans uploaded to newsgroups. I will admit that in those days, what I was really looking for was severe content. With very little in the way of videos, all we really had to fuel our fantasies was photo content. Without actually being able to witness the spanking, the only thing that really could demonstrate to me that a real spanking took place was the marks on the bottom. Nothing turned me on more than a picture of a severely bruised bottom.
From the member’s area of Realspankings.com
Over the years, as a result of more exposure to spanking content, as well as administering many spankings, my tastes have changed. For the most part, most pictures out there have videos to go with them, so we no longer have to doubt the intensity of the spanking that took place. I do not have to see a black and blue bottom in a spanking picture to know that a real spanking indeed took place. Just as with most aspects of spanking, when it comes to marks, my likes and dislikes are pretty specific. There are many producers out there that are shooting very severe spanking and especially caning videos. Ten years ago I never would have guessed that I would find content too severe for my tastes. It is not really even the fact that I find the spanking too severe, it is more the results that I am not a big fan of.
From the member’s area of Girl’s Boarding School
For me, nothing kills a hard spanking scene quicker than poor technique. I do not like to see pictures or videos in which the skin on someone’s butt is repeatedly broken. I fully understand the occasional skin breakage, and sometimes it is hard to avoid. Sometimes broken skin has more to do with someone’s diet and skincare than it does with the severity of the spanking. But a spanking or caning picture that shows multiple open wounds on the butt, turns me off in a big way. I think it boils down to the fact that as a spanker, you have certain responsibilities, and while it is your job to make sure the punishment is effective, safety is the highest priority. Someone who continues to swing a cane when a butt is bleeding is failing in more than one way. I guess I am picky in the fact that I really like to see a picture of a very bruised bottom from a caning, but if the lines are not straight, and crisscross every which way, it ruins the whole thing for me. The same is true with misplaced strokes. A picture can show a very thorough caning, with perfectly parallel lines, but if there are marks on the hip from the cane wrapping too far, the whole scene is ruined for me. You should know by now that I am obviously a big fan of punishments that involve a wooden school type paddle. But just as with the cane, I am looking for proper results when the punishment is over. I have posted many times about proper safety when using wooden implements. A nice bruised butt from a paddling is a sexy thing in my eyes, but if there are bruises from the paddling that are too high and close to the tail bone, then the picture loses all of its erotic elements in my eyes. Applied severely and properly, a well paddled bottom will have two sort of bulls eyes at the very lowest and fleshiest part of the bottom, and possibly “tram lines” which extend below the bruises.
From the member’s area of Realspankings.com
Now, back to the original question, is a well spanked bottom attractive? As a full-time pervert, I would answer yes. I am sure the non-spankos out there think I am totally weird even trying to present an argument that redness, welts, or bruising on any part of the body can be attractive. But those marks carry with them something well beyond color. I think the sexiness comes from the story behind the marks. A red butt demonstrates something a little naughty, not just the behavior the resulted in the spanking, but the fact that as an adult this person gets spanked. A red bottom represents a shared and intimate moment between two people. I think for those who are spanked in their personal lives, their own red bottom carries with it a sense of pride in a strange sort of way. How many of you out there who are spanked, repeatedly look at your spanked bottom in the mirror until all marks have faded? I would guess that for most of you this is the case. Why do you do this? Are the marks sexy? Does looking at your spanked bottom remind you of the experience you went through?
The spanking pictures that are the most exciting to me, generally involve a very red butt, with no area left unspanked. I also like to see bruised bottoms when the marks are consistent and seem as though were achieved in a safe manner. I can find pictures like the two below quite exciting, even with the black and blue, because these pictures represent a properly, and safely, spanked bottom.
From the member’s area of Realspankings.com
From the member’s area of Realspankings.com
Unfortunately, most of the content we have to view has been done professionally with paid models receiving the spanking. For me, there is a time when an extremely marked butt can be the sexiest thing. It has to do with the story behind it. There is nothing more erotic or exciting in my eyes regarding spanking than the visible marks having truly been earned. It is one thing to see a black and blue butt from a girl who was paid to be spanked, and a far different thing from someone who is in a real life disciplinary relationship. A spanking that results in a bruised bottom that was earned as a result of their own behavior and actions is the sexiest of all. I wish there were more amateur spanking sites out there that showed this type of content. If given the choice to see the unspanked bottom of a 21 year old super model, or the spanked bottom of an average housewife who was spanked for offenses she committed in her consensual disciplinary relationship, I would choose the housewife every time. So for me, that answers the question as to if a spanked bottom is more attractive.
From the member’s area of Firm Hand Spanking
Saturday, May 31, 2008
Full Sorority Paddling Series
I have posted some of these sorority paddling pictures in the past, maybe even all of them, but I have never had them together as a complete set. Today I am posting this series of pictures of sorority paddling, in its entirety, and in high resolution. It is clear from the crowd and the chair, that all of these paddlings took place at the same party. In some, the girls are paddled by guys, and in others they are paddled by other sorority girls. Clearly, every swat was very hard, as most of the pictures show the reaction. Cute sorority bottoms, large paddle, two handed swings, and in front of a large crowd...I think I may need to go back to college. Click the “MORE” link for the rest of the high res set of sorority paddling pictures.
Free Spanking Pictures
Well it seems that my Free Spanking Picture Galleries are a success. Obviously as a producer, I have better access to content than most spanking blogs, but I have been amazed at the success of the free spanking pictures. As of today, the pictures have been viewed close to 7 million times. The most viewed gallery is Naked Punishments with pictures views getting close to breaking the 1 million mark. The next most popular are Exposed Spankings and Witnessed Spankings. Knowing what people view on the blog always helps me in deciding what type of content to shoot in the studio. Based on your top three galleries, one can only assume that most of you really want an element of exposure and embarrassment incorporated into a spanking scene.
Question. Is the popularity of the naked spankings pictures due to the added element of embarrassment during the punishment, or is it more a matter of just liking to see young naked bodies? How important is the embarrassment aspect of a spanking to you? I have always tried to draw a very clear line when it comes to embarrassment vs. humiliation, and try to never administer a spanking that could be considered humiliating. I feel it is not that hard to add embarrassing elements, why still maintaining respect for the person being spanked. The more input the better as I script scenes for upcoming shoots, thanks.
Friday, May 30, 2008
Spanking on the bed
Image from the member’s area of Realspankings.com
I am not sure why, but I really like spanking pictures that feature a punishment with the young lady laying down on the bed. In reality, it is not one of my favorite positions to use in real life, or when filming a scene. I do not think it presents the bottom very well, some implements do not work very well when swung from above, and even with a pillow under their bottom, it does not create enough of a bend at the waist to raise the tail bone high enough to be out of the way for the punishment. Please do note, that the use of a heavy wooden implement such as a paddle or a hairbrush, on someone who is laying flat on a bed, could only be considered dangerous due to the risk of direct contact with the tail bone. But for whatever reason, I love to look at content that features someone lying flat on the bed. Maybe it is the innocence and realistic feel of someone being sent to their room for a good spanking. I think in a few of the pictures below, it is the position combined with the cute pj’s the young lady is wearing for her spanking. To me, the pj’s and laying down on the bed add a very authentic feel to the discipline. Either way, today’s post is dedicated to young ladies being spanked on the bed, enjoy!
Image from the member’s area of Realspankings.com
Image from the member’s area of Realspankings.com
From the member’s area of RealspankingsInstitute.com
From the member’s area of Spankingteenbrandi.com
From the member’s area of Spankingteenbrandi.com
From the member’s area of Spankingteenbrandi.com
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
The First Bottoms of the Week
Just for fun, and for those of you new to the blog, click the “MORE” link below to view the post that started the whole series of “Bottoms of the Week”. I have done many since then, but this page of pictures is still one of my favorites.
Bottoms of the week - 3-21-05
This image has a copyright for TiffanyTeen, but in researching the source, it looks as though TiffanyTeen has been merged under the website Phil Flash
This pic comes from Abby Winters and is just a bunch of wonderful young bottoms.
Bottoms of the week - 3-28-05
This picture comes from JordanCapri.com The bottom that is second from the right is the legendary Tawnee Stone
Another one from JordanCapri.com
This one is from LightSpeed Sorority
Week of 4-4-05
Another one from LightSpeed Sorority
This one is from Littletroublemaker
Also from LightSpeed Sorority
As I have come up with these images, I have been quite confused with the fact that these pictures feature many of the same girls, but seem to come from different sites. Through further research I have figured out that these are all produced by the same company, which has dozens of sites. It seems the one way to access all of the various girls and their sites is through LightSpeed World which lets you choose ten sites for one membership. From what I can figure out, if you shoose not to cancel your membership, at the end of the 30 days you can choose 10 different sites. While I cannot vouch for their member’s area, being that I am not a member, I sure am a fan of their group bottoms pictures.
Week of 4-4-05
Another one from LightSpeed Sorority
Another one from JordanCapri.com
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Bottoms of the week - 4-18-05
All of this week’s bottoms come from LightSpeed Sorority
Bottoms of the week - 4-25-05
The picture below is from Dirty Ali
The picture below is from LightSpeed Sorority
These two girls are from chloe18.com
This bottom of the week belongs to Teen Topanga and she looks as though she really needs a spanking!
New pictures are being posted in The Bottoms of the Week II gallery
Sore bottoms and time to reflect
It seems the dorm mom has been giving the girls at Realspankings Institute plenty of time to reflect after their spankings. In the last several updates, more than half the scenes feature some good corner time. I really like corner time, especially when the young lady is wearing her school uniform or gym clothes. What are your thoughts on cornertime? Does it add or take away from a scene? Should it be done before, or after the spanking...or maybe both? I feel the recently spanked bottom should always be on display for corner time, but is the punishment better emphasized with fully nude corner time? Some spanking videos (like the picture above) feature an added element to corner time, with the girl being spanked made to hold something before or after the punishment. While I have utilized this as the spanker in many scenes, I think I prefer for there to not be any added distractions. I feel the main purpose of corner time is to serve as a time with no distractions, to focus on the pain their bottom is feeling, and the actions that led them to this moment. I feel that balancing an object with their hands, or holding a penny to the wall with their nose, places the focus on something other than their throbbing bottom.
For all of you spankers out there, here is a little corner time pointer that I feel adds a lot to any punishment between consenting adults. Find a room in your house that receives direct sunlight and has windows, ideally this would be a room that faces out to the street, or at least has a public element to its location. When the sun is hitting the window directly during the day, open the curtains and blinds, and go out to the street and see what you can see. Chances are, with direct sunlight on the glass, all that you will be able to see from the street is the reflection from the yard and the sunlight. Find the time of day that the window of your choice really reflects and makes visibility into the room almost impossible. The next time the naughty person in your love life needs a good spanking, time it around when you know this window reflects the best. After the spanking, open the blinds and the curtains, and place the naughty person, bare bottomed and in front of the glass. Both facing in and facing out work, but I prefer their bottom towards the glass. When they are facing away from the window, they will be forced to speculate as to if anyone walked by why they were there. Obviously, no one can see anything from the outside with the reflection on the glass, but there is no reason to tell the recently spanked that this is the case. Something new such as this, can really spice up things if you find your spanking relationship starting to get a little boring. For many, the only thing that changes in their spankings is the intensity or the implement. I think it is fun to find new ways to bring some of the excitement back to a long term spanking relationship, and even a perceived element of the spanking become somewhat of a “public” affair can be tons of fun.
Here are a few more pictures of the young ladies at Realspankings Institute reflecting on their behavior with their bottoms glowing.
From the member’s area of Realspankings Institute
From the member’s area of Realspankings Institute
From the member’s area of Realspankings Institute
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Spanking Online’s Jodie
One of my new favorite spanking models to emerge from the Spanking Online family of sites is Jodie. It is clear from a few of her videos that there is an aspect of spanking that she enjoys, but at the same time you fusses up a storm during her harder punishments. She has a natural beauty not often seen from a spanking model and a body to match. She appears the most at Spanking Online and has recently done several new videos for High Def Spanking and looks wonderful at high resolution. Both of these sites are part of the 10 site Spank Pass recently offered by SOL. Here are some Jodie favorites:
Thursday, May 22, 2008
Top Rated at Realspankings.com
At Realspankings.com, not only can you rate each scene, but you can sort the scenes to view the 500 most popular. This morning I looked through the ratings to see what you all are looking at and enjoy the most and it seems there is a trend. The two things that seem to be the most popular are videos in which there is a zoomed in camera on the face, and scenes in which there are real tears. Additional popular scenes include anything with Sarah, wooden paddle spankings and the “school swats” series, and of course the most severe scenes. Thanks to all of you for rating the scenes in the member’s area of Realspankings.com, it really helps and allows us to film more scenes such as those that rate the highest. I guess I better get busy filming more “School Swats” and “Faces” in the new studio.
Here is your current top 5:
“Sarah’s Strapping”
“Faces XIV”, Kathy
“Faces XVII”, Kathy & Michelle
“Faces”, Jackie
“Faces XIII”, Donna
All images come from the videos in the member’s area of Realspankings.com one of the many sites included with the Realspankingspass.
Got Tears?
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Spanked Outdoors
Ahhh, the great outdoors. The smell of fresh flowers, a campfire, the sounds of the birds, a gentle breeze blowing through the air...bare bottoms, fresh switches, beautiful welts, witnesses, embarrassment. I always love the content that involves a good spanking outdoors. Shooting within a studio certainly limits our ability to shoot outdoors, but I have done it a few times in some of our feature films. When we did the outdoor switching scene in “Road Trip” (shown below) I had rented a house in the mountains on 30 acres, assuming that would give us the privacy needed for a few outdoor scenes. After hiking down into the valley with the models, production staff, and all of the equipment needed, as we began to setup for the switching, I began to hear noise back up the mountainside. I stopped production and hiked up to a vantage point and noticed that the vacant 100 acres next to us was being toured by a real estate agent and perspective buyers. It delayed production for a couple of hours, but I always thought it would have been funny had I not heard people sounds. Can you imagine touring your dream property with your spouse and a real estate agent, and as you walk over a ridge, in the distance you notice two 18 year old girls, standing on top of a ridge line, pants and panties around their ankles, crying up a storm as an angry woman stripes their bottoms and thighs with a tree branch? Now for me, I simply would have asked the agent, “where do I sign?”, but I doubt that would be everyone’s reaction. Here is what they would have stumbled across:
Over the past few weeks I have really been getting back to nature in my reading, so I thought I would celebrate the outdoors today with the pictures in which bottoms are bared outside for a good spanking. Whether in the woods or in a parking lot, an outdoor spanking can add a lot to the disciplinary process. Nothing feels more exposed than proper discipline administered outside, in which anyone could stumble upon a spanking in progress. Click the “MORE” link for more outdoor spanking pictures.
From the member’s area of Girl’s Boarding School
From the member’s area of Girl’s Boarding School
Picture from the member’s area of Firm Hand Spanking
