Monday, July 25, 2005
Sorority Butts Feel the Paddle
More random sorority spanking and paddling pictures. Click the “MORE” link to view them all, click the file name for a full-sized version.
I will post more pictures from the paddling below in which this sturdy young lady bends several sorority hotties over for some serious swats.
Tuesday, July 19, 2005
Fresh Faces on my sites
We always strive to bring you the newest and hottest spanking models on my various websites, so I thought I would give you a sneak peek of a couple of our newest models. These models have done shoots for both Realspankings.com and RealspankingsInstitute.com (you can join both at a discounted rate at Realspankingspass.com) and their scenes will begin to be posted in early August.
They are both young and very cute, with an enthusiasm that is visible on camera. One of them is very into being spanked and is currently involved in a disciplinary relationship in which she is frequently punished. The spankings she receives have nothing to do with sex, they are purely disciplinary. We look forward to a long working relationship with both of these young ladies and you will be seeing a lot of them on my sites in the future. They are not just young and hot, they can take a hard spanking as well. Take a look at the bottom blistering that one of them received from the Coach with a wooden paddle. There was no doubt that she was reminded of that paddling everytime she sat for a few days.
Click the “MORE” link for additional preview photos from their first shoots.
Paddling Updates from Firmhand Spanking
Firm Hand Spanking featured a couple of really nice wooden paddling videos for their recent updates. Both Debra Leigh and Daphne Rosen bent over for some serious swats. The Daphne video demonstrates a very realistic school paddling scene in which she bends over and grabs her ankles for some serious paddle swats. The first few were so hard, I get the feeling that someone told the spanker to lighten up a little. The first few swats are laid on exactly as I remember them being applied in school. Debra’s videos is very good as well, she is always very emotional during her spankings and this paddling is no exception. You can check out the full pictures and videos at Firm Hand Spanking.
Monday, July 18, 2005
Bondage Confessions- Tied tits and bound breasts.
Spanking has always been my primary interest when it comes to the sensual exchange of power, but over the years I have found myself more attracted to various aspects of bondage. But in the world of bondage, it is pretty much hit or miss for me. I must confess that one of the things I like to see the most is various forms of breast and nipple punishments. There is just something about tightly tied tits that really does it for me. I guess a lot of it is that it seems like more than just bondage and that there is actually some sort of punishment going on. Bound breasts do very little to restrain a person, the purpose of the tightly tied titties is to cause pain and discomfort.
This seems to be the common thread for me as far as bondage content goes, tied as a form of punishment, not just a means of restraint. I am also very attracted to the various forms of bondage in which their inability to follow a command results in additional punishment. A good example is when the nipples are attached to nipple clamps, and as long as they remain on their tiptoes, there is not much pain involved. But, should they decide to relax and get off of their tiptoes, the consequences are additional nipple pain. This is also quite effective with a crotch rope.
As a result of my tastes being pretty specific, I have only ever had a membership to a single bondage site, which is hogtied.com. They seem to do the very best in providing the type of bondage content that I like. While there is certainly some bondage that just involves a woman being tied and struggling, there is certainly plenty of content that focuses more on bondage as a punishment. They also include lots of whipping and caning, as well as lots of foot caning which you do not see too often on the web. They are not afraid to add some sex into their scenes, so there is also lots of vaginal penetration as well as the use of large butt plugs.
Click the “MORE� link for a bunch of samples from hogtied.com that features the type of content that I like the most.
Today’s Sorority Paddling pictures
Click the file name for a full-sized image, click “MORE” for the rest of today’s sorority paddling pictures.
Sunday, July 10, 2005
More on GUBA
One thing that has really been great for me when it comes to GUBA, is the exploration of power based fetishes beyond spanking. My online adult efforts are usually based around spanking, and with the exception of Hogtied and Sex and Summission I do not have any fetish memberships outside the realm of spanking sites.
This is probably because a lot of this content I find a little goofy. I am certainly not one to judge anyone elses fetish, I find a lot of it attractive, but I have trouble signing up for a membership when the content is hit or miss for me. With GUBA I have been able to enjoy video samples that cover a wide range, and I am finding many things to my liking. Beyond the Spanking category, I have been spending time browsing the BDSM, Fem Dom, and Bondage categories.
I must also admit that I can’t seem to stay out of the Web Cam Videos and Voyeur Videos. I enjoy getting to be a fly on the wall while other people get kinky and I guess I am becoming a fan of the Voyeur Videos as well as the Amateur Videos that are filmed by couples within the privacy of their bedroom.
If you check out GUBA be sure to spend more time browsing categories than using the search engine. I was originally dissapointed with some of my searches, but found the category browsing to be much more effective. As a member, it also displays similar videos to the one you have clicked on, and this seems to help quite a bit for finding similar content.
Wednesday, July 06, 2005
Spanking- more than just a red bottom.
One thing that I have found with people who have always fantasized about being spanked, but have never actually received a spanking, is that the actual pain is something that is often left out of the fantasy. On many occasions I have been faced with administering someone’s first spanking, with them being overly optimistic in regards to how hard they wanted to be spanked.
A perfect example is a one of the very few models that we spanked on camera and her scene never appeared on any website. In her first interview, she professed the need for a very hard spanking and stated that she had waited her whole life for this very moment. As a producer, this is the kind of thing we love to hear in an interview. When the day came for her shoot, I did the secondary interview that I do with all models before their first shoot. At this point they have already been hired, but I find it important to spend at least 30 minutes with each new model before she is actually spanked. I cover a lot of things in this initial interview, but most of it focuses on emphasizing the importance of good communication between the model and the spanker and producer. As we began to discuss scene ideas, she was very clear in expressing her desires to be spanked in a way that felt like a real punishment. She did not like the idea of a safe word for the first spanking (something that is mandatory with any first time model’s, first scene). She also pushed for us spanking her with something other than just a hand.
It was clear that she had several years’ worth of spanking fantasies in her head and she just couldn’t wait to begin fulfilling them. I did not budge in regards to the first scene and told her that her profile will be done just as we do them all. I did tell her that if all went well with her profile that the next scene could involve a wooden paddle applied over her pants and panties. She finally gave in on the hand spanking, but made it clear that if she took the paddling, she wanted it on the bare. I told her that we would see how she did on the first scene and go from there. Both Dee and I were quite excited to have hot new model that was looking for a real punishment spanking.
As many of you know, the “Punishment Profiles� on Realspankings.com are not only the softest spankings we administer, they are really the only light scenes we do. To be honest, they are the type of scenes that I personally hate to watch on video, but for us, it is a very important part of the process and it allows us to work a model into harder spankings slowly. It also gives us a very good idea of what this model is capable of receiving.
So, the profile began as it always does, a gentle handspanking while otk. Typically a model gets a one minute handspanking otk, and then we stop to see how she is doing. If all is well, we then change positions and increase the severity of the spanking slightly, and finally ending with a few decent smacks laid on hard. Less than 20 seconds into her light spanking, she signaled that she needed Dee to stop. This never happens, so I was a bit concerned. After a brief chat, she assured us that she was just nervous and that we should start again. Once again, just a few smacks into it, she asked Dee to stop. I shut down the equipment and sat her down for a little talk. It all boiled down to the fact that she did not think it would hurt as much. Trying not to make her feel bad, I felt I had to let her know that she hadn’t really even been spanked, and that even companies that feature fun little spankings, spank at least twice as hard as what she had received. Before the completion of even her first scene, she was no longer a spanking model.
Clearly, her fantasies did not include pain. Everything about a spanking turned her on in her fantasies, but she never considered how much a spanking can actually hurt. In this case, it was more than just that spankings hurt; she definitely had a very low pain tolerance. This leads me to the point that a spanking is more than just the physical application of pain. I think this is where most men that are not into spanking get it wrong when attempting to spank a woman who has asked to be spanked. It is not just about pain, there is a very detailed and complicated dynamic involved for most women (and men) who want to be spanked. This model had fueled an entire lifetime of spanking fantasies without ever knowing what it felt like. She had stated in her interview that all she thought about when masturbating was being spanked, but clearly it went way beyond just her butt being smacked repeatedly.
For those men out there that are trying to help their ladies explore spanking, but are not into it themselves, they need to realize that there is much more involved than a hand hitting a butt. The person being spanked wants to feel like they are in trouble. They want to have a sense of a strict but caring disciplinarian punishing them for their own good, to teach them a proper lesson. They want to feel forgiveness when it is all over. They want to feel loved, cared for, and punished all at the same time. They are not looking to be humiliated (well sometimes they are), they want to feel like someone is taking the time to help guide them on their way. If your wife has asked you out of the blue to spank her, think beyond her red butt and consider the overall dynamics of a real situation such as this.
Pain is but a very small part of the whole spanking experience. If I was still in the situation in which I punish girls off camera for real life offenses, I am confident that I could have created a scene for this model that would have fulfilled every one of her spanking fantasies, and I believe I could do it without ever spanking her. By creating the right dynamic, establishing control and dominance, and putting her in the mental place she was looking to go, I am confident she could experience everything she was looking for emotionally. The punishment could simply have involved some forced nudity and corner time, without her butt ever getting smacked. A red butt is an important part of a spanking, but all by itself, it is just a red butt. Take the time to learn what your partner is looking for, she will thank you for it.
Hairbrush spanking
As my business has grown, I am unable to participate in every shoot that takes place in our studio. I do however, watch every scene to make sure they meet the high standards I set when beginning this company. As many of you are aware, we have a new spanker, Ms. Burns, and she is working out very well. I enjoyed a recent update at Bispanking.com in which Jasmine is punished with both a large wooden hairbrush and a belt by Ms. Burns. The chemistry works very well between these two and it shows in the scenes they do together.
Tuesday, July 05, 2005
By Request- more sorority girls paddled
Ok, it seems from the e-mails and comments that you all begin to go through withdrawls, if you have to go too long without some sorority paddling action. Here are some pictures that are mostly swats taken at parties, and not official sorority functions. Picture #3 had the caption “waiting for the pledges”, but there were no paddling action pictures to go with it. As always, click the file name for a full-sized version, and click the “MORE” link for the rest of the paddling pictures.
Bruised and welted bottoms from Russia
It seems they just do things a little harder in the Eastern countries. We have all seen the hard hitting action from Rigid-East and Lupus, but the folks at HerFirstPunishment.com are making sure that naughty Russian girls also learn very real lessons. Just as with Rigid East, the cane is used very forcefully at HerFirstPunishment.com, but they also make good use of other implements, including freshly cut switched and some very mean wooden paddles. All of their models are gorgeous, and there is no doubt that they carry the reminders of their punishments for many days.
Click the “MORE” link below for additional pictures of severly marked and bruised bottoms like only the Russians can provide. All pictures come from HerFirstPunishment.com.
Saturday, July 02, 2005
Sex and Submission
While growing up, my spanking fantasies emerged parallel to my attraction to women and sex, but bondage was not as inherent to my sexuality at an early age. The two seem to go hand in hand on the web, but it really took me a long time to warm-up to the concept. Early on, I saw bondage only as a means to secure someone when spanking them. It was not until I met my wife that I really began to explore and enjoy various aspects of bondage. I think the main attraction to bondage for me, was the fact that we could explore the sensual exchange of power in a sexy way that did not really involve a punsihment or discipline. As you know, I am not always a big fan of mixing spanking and pleasure. I see the two at opposite ends of the spectrum, and generally reserve spanking related activities for situations in which correction is required. But bondage has really allowed us to explore the sexual side of discipline, in which a strong power exchange exists, but with the main focus being on pleasure and control, but not pain.
Regardless, I have never been a fan of typical old school bondage content. For me, just seeing a woman bound and struggling does not do much to excite me. I understand the attraction that many people have for this kind of content, but it has always left me wondering when the action would start. My wife and I have always found hogtied.com to be a balance that we find attractive. While their rope skills are fantastic and well beyond my own skills, it is not just about tying the girls up and watching them struggle. There is a lot of interaction in their scenes, with a good mix of bondage, discipline, and pleasure. It is all about the power exchange and as much time is spent providing pleasure as pain. While most of the girls who are tied up at hogtied.com are brought to orgasm multiple times, there is never any sex on this site.
Now enter their latest site sexandsubmission.com. It was just launched and is really quite bold. Very few companies mix sex and BDSM into their productions, but that is the entire focus of this site. Their scenes feature women being taken very forcefully, with some bondage and discipline thown in the mix. We have found this site to fill a void that has been missing in the adult entertainment world. It provides content that we both really enjoy and fits nicely within our own preferences.
Being that I never post content that features full penetration, I will toss in a warning that the sample content from sexandsubmission.com that I am including is hardcore content with full penetration. Click on the “MORE” link for samples.
