Wednesday, February 13, 2013
School Swats, 10 years later
At Realspankings.com it is pretty much a rite of passage to do a “school swats” scene. This is the scene in which I do a detailed interview with a model and discuss their views, or experiences, with school corporal punishment. After the interview, we take a look at their bottom before the paddling, and then I administer 10 very serious swats with a wooden school paddle, as realistically as possible, over their pants. After their paddling, we take a look at the their bruised bottoms and ask them is they feel it would have been an effective deterrent when they were in high school. Most models dread this scene, as it hurts like hell, but after their paddling, they often feel proud to have joined such an exclusive club. I started this series around 2002, and used to have them sign the paddle that they received their swats with. However, after breaking the signed paddle on many occasions, I finally started having them sign a separate paddle. This photos series shows young ladies posing after they have signed the paddle, covering more than a decade. I believe the earliest signature on the current paddle dates back to 2003, the most recent was signed last week, and we are running out of room. Here is to 10 years+ of “School Swats”…Cheers!
Monday, February 11, 2013
Just another day at the office
Some days my job is better than others!
More “School Swats”
Lovely Kajira just took part in a hard “School Swats” scene in which I bruise her beautiful bottom with 10 hard swats with a heavy school paddle. I also do a detailed interview in which she discusses the spankings she took from her dad, until the age of 15.
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Saturday, February 09, 2013
Forced to grab her ankles for a punishment spanking
I am such a fan of having a young lady assume the position of grabbing her ankles for her spanking. It accomplishes many thing in adding to the dynamic of a proper punishment. First, it is a very intimate position that most young ladies do not find themselves assuming on a very regular basis, if at all. It exposes them in such an effective way to make them feel very vulnerable and embarrassed, with more than just their bottom on display. It provides a situation in which they are literally presenting their bottom to be spanked. Just being told to lay over a bed, or bend over a desk, is a much different experience than lifting up a skirt, or lowering pants, baring their pretty bottom, and then grabbing their ankles. It also makes them a more active participant in a punishment that they have earned. Being held in place for a spanking in not much of an act of submission, but having to present their bottom, and maintain such an exposed position helps them achieve ownership of their punishment. It is their behavior that got them there, so it makes sense that they should have to assist in anyway possible. Something else that this position accomplishes is that it pulls the muscles in the bottom very tight towards the surface for their spanking. A tighter bottom means that the sting of the implement is not going to be shielded by a fleshy bottom. They will feel this spanking more, and the effects will be longer lasting, possible increasing the chances for bruising. When a young lady has been very naughty, I highly recommend that she be required to grab her ankles and present herself properly for a long and hard punishment spanking.
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Friday, February 08, 2013
Firmhand’s newest spanking model.
Holy Hell! I have been catching up with Firm Hand Spanking lately and I am in love with perfect bottom of one of their newest models. Her name is Jennifer Torrance and she just has the most perfect, round, shapely, spankable bottoms I have ever seen. I just watched all of her videos and she is fantastic. Here is a peak.
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Thursday, February 07, 2013
It is better to bare a bottom
Schools do not allow corporal punishment to be applied on the bare bottom, but if they did, I am sure we would see less discipline problems. Luckily, at RealspankingsInstitute.com, I make the rules, so a bare bottom is pretty much a requirement. Plus, it makes it so much easier to tell if you are doing a good job or not. If it is a minor infraction and only a red bottom is required, then it is easy to know when the job is done. Unfortunately for the young ladies at the Institute, most bad behavior is not considered minor, and rarely do they get away with simply a red bottom. Most infractions require a bruised and blistered bottom, especially when the heavy school paddle is being swung.
Oh my they need a spanking!
Your behavior on Spring break has been out of control. You girls want to run around and show off your bodies, get drunk, and act like fools? Get your bikinis off, bend over the rail, and we can show everyone what happens when you act like that! Hmmmm, did I just say that out loud?
Wednesday, February 06, 2013
Severe domestic discipline spanking
There are many couples who practice domestic discipline in their relationships. Typically this is as a result of both of them having a spanking fetish. The problem that often occurs is that this is a couple who utilizes spanking as a form of discipline, used for real life offenses, but the person being punished, to a certain degree, likes to be spanked. This poses a problem in that the punishment itself is often something desired by the person in trouble. One of the most effective solutions to this problem, is an increased level of severity of the spanking administered. Yes, it is still a spanking, and on many levels the naughty young lady might have fantasized about this moment. However, if the spanking is administered in a very severe, yet still safe manner, she will find herself bruised and sore for as long as a week. After the actual spanking, when the endorphins have left her system, she is simply left with a very sore bottom. What might have had a sensual element for a few hours, quickly just becomes pain and learning. If we really want to eliminate undesirable behavior, using a spanking for someone who likes to be spanked, this is generally the best course of action. Remember, it needs to be done very safely, but a very bruised bottom, and maybe even bruised thighs, leaves a long lasting impression that will continue to teach a lesson for many days to come.
Sometimes a spanking can’t wait
There are the moments in life when a spanking needs to take place on the spot. It does not matter where you are, who is watching, or anything else...pants must come down and a bottom must be spanked.
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Tuesday, February 05, 2013
A blistered bottom with a heavy leather belt
It is accessible, effective, and gets the job done. If you grew up in the South, you already know what I am talking about…the belt. There is a belt in every household, and when it starts to come off for anything except undressing, it makes an impression. Often then belt that is currently worn is used for spanking, in some homes, there is a very special belt that is used exclusively for punishments. That belt is easily recognizable by the crease that exists right in the middle. The most effective belts are the heavy leather western style belts, which are often much thicker than a typical leather dress belt. A belt such as this, not only provides a lot of sting, it can hit with a thud, really bringing the point home. This is important if the spanking is being applied over pants and not on the bare bottom. Pants help to shield from the sting, so a heavy belt that hits with a little weight is more effective. Because the belt does not leave as lasting an impression as a paddle or a hairbrush, it should be applied as effectively as possible. Unlike the paddle, 5-10 strokes will not get the job done. A proper strapping should be measured more in duration than how many strokes are applied. A minimum of a minute should be the starting place, but the overall effectiveness is measured by the young lady’s reaction. Tears should be the goal from the 1st stroke and the punishment should continue long and hard until tears have been achieved. Once the naughty young lady is crying, another full minute of strapping should be applied to her sore bottom. The goal is a very sore bottom and a young lady who will be on her very best behavior for weeks to come.
A wooden school paddle gets the job done
So if you have three young ladies who are in quite a bit of trouble and need to be punished, what is the best way? We are not talking about just a simple spanking for a small infraction, we are talking about a very real punishment spanking that will not only be remembered for days to come, but will be felt every time they sit for a week. Lets face it, teen girls tend to have very selective memories and sometimes a longer lasting impression needs to be made. the pain of a handspanking is pretty much over as soon as the last smack lands. After a handspanking, their bottoms are simply left with a warm glow and maybe a little stinging. But to achieve the results that I am discussing, sometimes a more effective implement is required.
Nothing leaves a long lasting impression like a large wooden school paddle. With as little as 10 well placed swats, on the lower part of the bottom, will assure that a young lady learns a real lesson. Take a look at the ladies in the picture below. Is there any doubt that their bottoms are sore? Do you think that an hour later that the memory of their punishment will have faded? Not only are their bottoms sore, but they will be even more sore the next day, and that is what we are looking for. Each time they sit for the next 5-7 days they will be reminded of their bad behavior and you can cont on the fact that they will be on their very best behavior for months to come.
Corner time
Corner time does not always need to take place in the corner. It can be an effective addition to any punishment and can be utilized in so very many ways. This young lady was required to strip fully naked, and simply stand at attention. Being 18 years old, and being required to be fully nude and on display for a male administrator, is a very embarrassing moment for this young lady. She is trying her best not to focus on it, but all she can really see is the Scottish tawse on the desk that is about to be used on her bare bottom. A little nudity, a lot of embarrassment, and a blistered bottom equal a very effective punishment.
Thursday, January 31, 2013
Please go get my paddle
Maybe it is a life long spanking fetish that brings these thoughts into my mind, but this girl assumes this position just a little too naturally. Maybe it is the position she assumes in a Deep South school when she is sent to the principal’s office, maybe she still assumes it at home for a dose of dad’s paddle on her bottom. Maybe she has lacked a good spanking her entire life and presenting her bottom this way, to the 1000 people watching her, helps fill a little spanking void in her life. Maybe her perfect little ass, in those tight little shorts, presenting her bottom so wonderfully, just brings out the perverted spanker in me...nahh that could not be it.
How to provide an effective punishment to someone who enjoys being spanked.
As disciplinarians we are often faced with the problem of trying to teach someone, who enjoys being spanked, a proper lesson. Let’s face it, the majority of people that are actively involved in spanking, are consenting adults who gain some degree of pleasure from being spanked. In essence, this is like giving a child candy for being naughty. Now I do understand that even those that like to be spanked generally do not enjoy it at the time. But, while they might not enjoy it at the time, they may find themselves looking forward to their next spanking. If we really want to apply a punishment that will teach a lesson as well as decrease the chances of that behavior occurring again, we need to be creative in our ways to make sure we achieve good results. This essay will explore the ways we can maximize the effectiveness of a punishment, knowing that a spanking is what the person in trouble wants.
TAKE AWAY THE SEXUAL ELEMENT
For most that enjoy spanking, there is a strong sexual element involved. Thinking about spanking, watching a spanking, or being spanked tends to make those who like to be spanked horny. As a disciplinarian, this introduces problems when trying to give a spanking for real offenses. It basically leaves us pursuing a course of action that we know is going to turn on the person who is supposed to be in trouble. If the punishment leaves them sexually excited, is it really a punishment? I would argue that it is not. A proper punishment is something that, once applied, leaves them trying their best to make sure that it never happens again. If the only results are an erection or a swollen clit, then we are failing in our role as disciplinarians.
I would suggest making them relieve their sexual energy prior to the spanking. This can serve a couple of purposes. The first is the humiliation factor. For most, masturbation is a very private thing. Most people do not masturbate on command, nor do they masturbate in front of others. I think it is perfectly reasonable to command the naughty boy/girl to masturbate to orgasm in front of you prior to their punishment. This will immediately help them relieve some of the sexual energy that has probably built up in anticipation of the spanking. Clearly, this process is more effective with men than with women. Once a man achieves an orgasm, it generally takes a little while before he is feeling sexual again. With a woman, an orgasm is often just a warm-up. With some women it may be necessary to require her to achieve a few orgasms prior to the spanking. Regardless, I feel that if the person that is about to be spanked is forced to have an orgasm beforehand, the punishment will be more effective.
EXCEEDING LIMITS
For the purposes of this essay you must consider that I am not talking about fun or sexy spankings. I am talking about a spanking for real offenses that must be dealt with. I am talking about applying a spanking in such a way as to teach a very real lesson that will never be forgotten. I am talking about extinguishing undesirable behavior and actions for good. I am also assuming this is a consensual spanking between partners that know each other very well. Based on these variables let’s talk about severity and limits.
I think most that are into being spanked want to have their limits explored and possibly exceeded a little. I think most spankers, who know their partners well, know when it is just about time to stop spanking. How we know when to stop is based on what we know the spankee can take. I think most spankers tend to take their partner to a similar level of intensity every time they spank. This is because we are trying to stay within their limits enough, to assure that they will still want to play in the future. But, we are now talking about administering a spanking that they would not ever want repeated, thus changing their behavior to assure that a spanking of this intensity never happens again.
If we are going to punish this person and make sure that the punishment was effective, and produces the desired results, we are going to have to go beyond the exploration of limits, we are going to have exceed them. I am not talking about exploring their limits further, I am talking about going beyond what we know they can handle and are comfortable with. Remember, this is being done in their best interest and we want to make sure this sort of behavior or action stops altogether. Consider parents who spank their children (which I do not recommend). What parent, who is trying to eliminate an undesirable behavior, stops spanking when they feel the child is getting close to their limits? That is just not how it works. The goal is to provide a stimulus so intense that they will do anything to avoid that stimulus from being applied again, ever.
Many punishment spankings between adults stop when tears begin to flow. For the type of punishment we are talking about, I feel when the tears start to flow, the punishment has begun. If we really want to eliminate bad behavior, we need to spank long and hard, with tears flowing for the majority of the punishment. The spanking does not really begin until we have reached the point where they want it to stop. If the spankee is not crying, complaining, and begging you to stop, you are not doing your job very effectively. This is for their own good and if you really care about this person and helping them change for the better, you will ignore their pleas. Remember, this is a person who enjoys the concept of being spanked. Our goal is to provide an experience that they will not enjoy. Yes, there is a good chance that a week later they will look back onto the experience with excitement, but we need to make sure that even though they see it as exciting after the fact, that they would never want it repeated.
KNOW WHAT THEY HATE
If you are at all experienced as a disciplinarian you should have a good sense of what the person you punish likes and does not like in the way of spanking. Every spankee out there can probably tell you what implement they hate the most, without any hesitation. For some couples into spanking, I am sure there are even implements the spankee will not allow in the house. As disciplinarians, we need to capitalize on these fears. Remember, this is the spanking that they are not supposed to enjoy. Make sure you have a few of the implements you know are most feared. Keep these implements stashed away, they do not even need to know they exist. Their value as a punishment tool will be better served if they do not see them until they are really in trouble.
Knowing what they hate goes well beyond implement selection. It can apply to any aspect of their punishment. The level of dress you make them assume for their punishment can add to the overall effectiveness. Some people do not like to get naked and may have never been fully naked for a spanking. If this is the case, full nudity should be required. Take it to the next level and make them undress in front of a window. Even further, once they are naked, make them stand with their hands behind their head for several minutes before the punishment begins.
Another effective addition to a punishment is the inclusion of the backs of the thighs as a target area. Most people, even those into spanking, do not respond well to having their thighs spanked. While not as padded as the bottom, the thighs are padded enough to make a safe target. I would still never apply hard paddle swats to the backs of the legs, but a hand, strap, or canes are all within reason to use here. Use extra care when spanking the legs and limit your strokes to the fleshier parts. You would never want to spank directly behind the knees with any force.
Also consider the position you spank in. Just as with implement selection, most spankees have positions that they hate to be punished in. Take advantage of this and put them in the most uncomfortable and exposed position you can come up with. It is amazing how effective of a punishment, being fully naked and in the lunge position, can be. This makes for a very uncomfortable punishment before the first swat even lands. Be creative and make the whole process as memorable as possible.
Think out of the box in this area and find things in other parts of their lives that you know they do not like. A good example is a video camera. Very few people like to see or hear themselves on camera. If this is the case, videotape the whole punishment and make them watch it every night for a week. Before the punishment, make them state their offense to the camera, so they are reminded every time they are forced to watch it. If they do not like to see themselves nude, make sure you film them naked in front of the camera for several minutes. When introducing things, as part of the punishment, that you know they will hate, the possibilities are endless. Do not just thinking about spanking, think about life in general. We are trying to teach them a lesson here; you owe it to them to be effective.
TAKE AWAY THE SENSUAL ELEMENTS
Taking away the sensual aspects is a tough job. The main reason being, that the whole act of submission in general is one of the most sensual aspects of spanking. What I am trying to get you to do is consider the dynamics of being punished that they probably do not fantasize about. When punishing someone who likes to be spanked, this is a key element. There is no rule that says a punishment, that does involve spanking, cannot involve many other things that you know they will not enjoy. Let’s explore some of these options.
The first thing that comes to mind is corner time. Corner time can be a highly effective addition to any punishment. I think some spankees do fantasize about corner time, due to the fact that nothing conjures up images of being a naughty child more than corner time. While they might fantasize about it, you can quickly put that to a rest. The key to corner time is discomfort. Don’t just make them stand in a corner and relax. You need to make the corner time as uncomfortable as the spanking itself. Make them kneel on something hard, put them in a position you know will quickly lead to muscle fatigue, and make them feel exposed and vulnerable. You can make them hold their hands or feet in an uncomfortable manner, or hold a penny in place with their nose against a wall. Remember, very few spankees fantasize about sore knees from an hour kneeling on the brinks of the fireplace mantle. The possibilities are endless, so be creative. But be sure that just as with the spanking, that their corner time experience is not one that they would ever want to repeat.
Another effective addition to a proper punishment is the writing of lines. Just as with the sore knees example above, very few people include sore hands from writing lines when they are fantasizing about being punished. The writing assignment needs to be a long one and it should be a couple of sentences, or a paragraph, which is difficult enough that it is not easily memorized. It should also be a sentence that will help them consider what got them there in the first place. I recommend making them use a pen, not a pencil, and any mistakes do not count towards the total number of lines required. I think it is also beneficial (meaning harder for them) to make them print all words and use all capital letters. Do not go light on the number of times they have to write the paragraph. Ideally, you want an assignment that will take 2-3 hours to complete. If they are not stopping and shaking out their writing hand, well into their assignment, then you do not assign enough lines. Remember, we are not just looking to give them something to pass the time; we want this to be uncomfortable for them and difficult to complete. When you review their lines upon completion of their assignment, feel free to not count any lines that are not legible. If the last 20 lines were hard to read, they should be made to redo them.
As disciplinarians, we need to think back to childhood to find the most effective things to include beyond spanking. Maybe your naughty boy/girl should be grounded after the spanking. Maybe there should be extra chores assigned. If applicable, maybe you should have the person being punished apologize to anyone that was affected by his or her behavior. What about sending them to bed with no dinner after the spanking? Does the person being punished have a favorite TV show? If so, it may be time that they missed a few episodes. A lot of people into spanking spend a lot of time on their computer. If so, think about packing it up and putting it away for a month. After the punishment, if the person being punished gets a phone call from a friend, it might be effective to tell the friend that they cannot come to the phone, they are grounded. A little embarrassment goes a long way as a part of a punishment.
Once again be creative and think hard about the likes and dislikes of the person to be punished. Measure the things that you use as part of the punishment by “does he/she fantasize about this when thinking about being punished”. If the answer is “no” then you should include it. Remember our goal here is not to realize fantasies; it is to extinguish bad behavior that we do not want to see repeated.
MAKE THE PUNISHMENT LAST BEYOND THE DAY OF THE ACTUAL PUNISHMENT
A brief punishment is one that is rarely remembered. I am not talking about just making the actual spanking longer, I am talking about a punishment that effects their comfort for days to come. This is accomplished in many ways.
As in my examples above, things like making them watch the video, or grounding them, or taking away their computer serve as a daily reminder of what they did wrong. Unfortunately, the pain of a spanking rarely last as long we would like it to. But, there are a few things you can do to make sure they think about their infractions every time they sit down for a least a week. To really accomplish this, you need to select implements carefully. Some implements sting a lot, more like being slapped. Other hit with a thud, more like being punched. It is the implements that hit with a thud that leave a longer lasting impression. I recommend ending any serious punishment with a thick wooden implement. This implement should be used to strike the lowest part of the bottom, where the bottom meets the thighs. I am essentially talking about the “sit spot”. (Please note I assume you know what you are doing and that you have the ability to apply a hard spanking safely. If you are not experienced please do not consider any of the things I am saying). You are targeting the area that always touches a seat when they sit down. You should apply repeated strokes to the exact same two spots. If done properly, this will assure that they are not able to sit comfortably for several days. While a spanking can be sensual, and the after effects of a spanking as well, a sore bottom three days after the fact, is just a sore bottom. It provides pain and discomfort that serves as a frequent reminder of their previous behavior.
For the most severe infractions (ex. Drinking and driving), I feel a follow up spanking(s) may be beneficial. This is especially effective for those with a very high pain tolerance, especially if you have concerns if the spanking did the trick or not. You will not believe the changes in behavior you will see when you decide to paddle a naughty person’s bottom the day after their punishment. With the exception of additional pain, there are not really any added dangers in spanking an already bruised bottom. I promise that when you apply a paddle to someone’s bottom that is already having difficulty sitting, regardless of how much they are into spanking, they will not enjoy it. This is a very effective way of spanking someone who likes to be spanked and making sure they do not enjoy it. If you really need to make a point, maybe they should get 10 swats every morning following their punishment for a week, right before they head out the door for work. It does not matter how much they like to be spanked, a punishment of this type will assure that they will get their act together.
A final thing that I feel is mandatory, but is very hard to enforce, is that of orgasms. When spanking someone who likes to be spanked, and wanting it to be a very real punishment, you need to take away their ability to have an orgasm for at least a week. We would hate to have gone through all this trouble to change someone’s behavior, only for him or her to lie in bed the next day, masturbating to the image of the whole thing. This is the type of reinforcement that we do not want, something that gives a positive slant to the whole process. Remember, we want nothing but negative images and emotions associated with this punishment, and a powerful orgasm right after a punishment interferes with the whole process. But, most people masturbate in private and alone, so this is going to be a hard one to enforce. The best way is to inform them of how many days they are to wait before they will be allowed an orgasm, and let them know that failure to comply will result in an exact repeat of the punishment they just received. This is not to say that you cannot have sex with your partner during that time, but THEY will not be allowed to achieve an orgasm during sex with you. You did nothing wrong, so there is no reason you cannot.
The whole point of this essay is to help you achieve results when punishing someone who likes to be spanked. As much as they like it, you can still apply a very effective punishment that they will never want repeated. If you really care about this person, you will take the time and effort required to teach them the lesson they deserve. We are here to guide them and help them see the error in their ways and help them to learn from their mistakes. While the punishments I have outlined here are for the most part severe, please do not ever be abusive. You can punish someone severely while still caring and respecting him or her throughout the whole process. The punishment should be applied out of love and not anger. In addition, while there may be certain levels of embarrassment involved in the process, we are not here to humiliate them or make them feel like less of a person. We are here to clearly let them know that what they did is unacceptable and there is a price to pay for their actions. Follow up the punishment with a hug and let them know how much you care about them. Let them know that if you did not care for them, you would not take the time to punish them. Most of all, play safe!