Monday, May 16, 2005
New TGP Galleries
Over the weekend I added many new galleries to the Spanking TGP. These galleries are from my sites Realspankings.com, Spankingteenjessica.com, Spankingteenbrandi.com, RealspankingsInstitute.com ,and Bispanking.com. These galleries will rotate like the others, so ou will see different galleries each day. Enjoy!
Friday, May 13, 2005
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Thursday, May 12, 2005
Sorority paddling for fun and for photos
In looking for additional information and pictures of sorority paddling, I came across all sorts of pictures that involve sorority girls being paddled, but more for fun as opposed to some official sorority activity. Most of the pictures seems to suggest that when a bunch of college frat boys and sorority girls get together and get drunk, they find it hard to ingnore the fact that there are paddled haging on the wall just begging to be used.
Many of the pictures are just people posing and pretending to be spanked or paddled:
But I found that if you look closely at all of the details you can generally tell if someone is really getting their bottom smacked or not. It may be the way the paddle is being held, or the position the person is in, but you can almost always tell by the reactions of those watching. The one thing that most of the pics seem to have in common is that everyone is having a good time. Whether it is the person that is about to be paddled, the person doing the paddling, or the people watching, everyone seems to always have a smile on their face. I am sure the smile dissapears for a few minutes after a hard swat, but in general, everyone seems to enjoy it when their is some spanking action going on.
In these next few pics it is clear that the board is going to be hitting someone’s bottom and they are not just posing for a picture:
And then there are the pictures in which it looks like some sort of spanking is going on, but you have no idea what the hell is really happening:
I have enough pictures that fall into this category, that I will do an occasional picture post of similar pictures and maybe you all can help me figure out what is actually happening.
Anal Discipline
While the girl of Bispanking.com
are not completely thrilled with the concept, we have begun to incorporate more anal discipline as part of their punishments. Neither of them are a big fan of anal sex, so when they are told to insert a large butt plug as part of their punishment, they always cringe. But, it wouldn’t be much of a punishment if they enjoyed it, now would it?
Anal discipline is become more common as a punishment at Bispanking.com and you will begin to see it appear much more often in future updates.
Signing the paddle after getting licks at school
I am not sure how common the practice is, but at both the junior high and the high school I attended, if you received “licks” (the term used by both students and administrators) you were asked to sign the paddle. This is why you always see this taking place in the “School Swats” series at Realspankings.com. While our signature paddle is getting quite full of signatures, we really should have more. When we first began the series, we had them sign the paddle that was used on them. But, due to the force of the swats, we break a lot of paddles. We have several broken paddles with just a few signatures on them. Now we have a special paddle that is never used to spank and only used for signatures.
Another custom at my school was that if that paddle broke on you, you got to keep the paddle. On several occasions, you would see many students gathered around someone’s locker between classes looking at the broken paddle. This was one of the only ways that people could determine who had been paddled recently. All of the paddles used by our VP were made in the shop class by the instructor or the students. These were fairly large paddles and they did not seem to break too often. The couple of broken paddles that I saw were so filled up with paddles, that some students had to sign their name on the edges of the paddle. Did anyone else attend a school were signing the paddle after your swats was required?
We are up to 19 different “school swats” scenes on Realspankings.com and we have 2 in the “bare school swats” series. There are another half a dozen school swats scenes that have been filmed and will appear in future updates. For those of you that are not familiar with the series, it is a non-scripted scene in which we explore the real effects and effectiveness of school paddling. We begin each scene in the series with an interview in which the model discusses any experience she has with school corporal punishment. While most of them do not have much experience, we have been quite surprised at some of the accounts for those that have. The models are then asked to bend over for what I feel to be a very realistic application of the school paddle. While a typical school paddling rarely consists of more than 6 swats, we generally give the girls 10. I feel it is appropriate to adjust for the age of the girl being paddled. After an extremely hard paddling, we have them show us the result on their bottoms and then discuss if they feel this would have been an effective deterrant for bad behavior when they were in high school. Most think it would have done a lot to change their behavior, others felt it would have just pissed them off. Either way, I feel this series explores school corporal punishment on a much more realistic level than typically seen in spanking videos.
Tuesday, May 10, 2005
Further exploration of sorority paddling practices
Having recenty posted information on sorority paddling that was based on first hand accounts, I felt I needed to do additional research to try and further validate what I had said. While you will never find a sorority web site that states that they paddle pledges or exchange swats when the big sister is given her paddle by her little sister, you can certainly learn a lot by reading the captions they include with their pictures. I came across more than 100 pictures that demonstrate that sorority paddling is still alive and well.
From the captions and the pictures I learned a lot. First it seems that most sororities have an activity that is based around the paddle. There were many pictures that had titles such as “Paddle Party”, “Paddle Initiation”, “Paddle Ritual”, and “Paddle Night”. Something else of great interest is that it seems that it is a fairly common tradition that on the night that the little sister presents her paddle to her big sister, that the big sister also gives a gift, which is a pillow. I can only assume why it is that on the same night that one gives a paddle, one receives a pillow. The two seem a little too closely tied for us not to assume that someone ends up with a sore bottom that requires a pillow for sitting.
Many of the pictures I found clearly showed that a lot of the paddling is done in a fun way and takes place at parties. Either way, it is clear to me that the paddles you often see on the walls are not just for decorations. There are literally hundreds of pictures out there of young ladies bending over for swats at a party.
Often these girls are being swatted by guys:
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But even more often the pictures featured girls being paddled by girls:
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Click the “more” link below for more pictures and evidence of sorority paddling
While many of these pictures were clearly fun and games at a party:
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Some of them were clearly part of a activity, initiation, or some formal event. The captions for these two pictures was “waiting for the pledges”
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There is no doubt that both of these are the real thing at an event based around the paddle:
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I also find it hard to believe that unless this picture comes from a movie I am unaware of, that these young ladies will not be feeling these paddles before the end of what looks like a very interesting night. Note that these are not the pretty decorative paddles you generally see, these are very functional paddles:
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The next two caught my attention because of the captions. Both of them esentially described that this was the little sister trying to avoid what she had coming from her big sister. Based on the size of the paddles, I do not blame them:
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The next three all deal with the actual event of the little sister and the big sister exchanging swats during the presentation of the paddle.
This is one of the pillow/paddle exchange events. The little sister, holding her new pillow, is preparing to take her swat:
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The caption for this one was “big sis takes lil’ outside for more room to swing”
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In this picture the little sister, now on the floor, just took her swat from the big sister which knocked her to the ground:
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The caption of this final picture made it clear that this was not an ornamental paddle. It read “___________ waits to paddle __________”. Too bad there was not a picture of the actual paddling, just look at how thick that paddle is:
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I have dozens of pictures like these that I will continue to post in the weeks to come.
Thursday, May 05, 2005
Fashion Trends for the spanko
I think everyone that is into spanking has a thing for a nicely shaped bottom. I have stated before that when I see a nice bottom in a tight pair of pants, my initial thoughts are not about sex, they are about spanking. Over the years there have been many fashion trends that lend themselves nicely to those of us that are “ass men/women” as well as spankos. In the early 80’s the skin tight jeans with no back pockets were just about enough to cause my heart to skip a beat.
Unfortunately for me, when I was in college the “grunge” thing came into popularity. We all listened to the Seattle scene bands such as Alice in Chains, Pearl Jam, and Soundgarden. With this new style of music came a new style of dress. All of a sudden lots of layers, baggy pants, and plaid flannel shirts were the in thing. While it was a comfortable fashion trend, it certainly did not lend itself to those of us who like to see a young lady in a tight pair of pants. Most girls showed up to class looking as though they just got out of bed and put on the clothes that were sitting on the floor from the night before. As it turns out, I guess I went to college a decade or so too early. Now, if you sit in a college classroom and are bored and looking about the room for some “eye candy”, this is what you get to see:
Maybe I should be thankful for when I went to college, because I doubt I would have gotten the grades I did had I had that as a distraction during every class. I just love it when a fashion trend pops up that really presents a bottom nicely. Not only are the pants as tight as ever, they are now lower than I ever thought possible. It has been taken one step further and we now have the visible thong as a fashion statement. Oh my, do I ever like the visible thong and the low rise pants. In many cases it is somewhat of an illusion and you are not seeing much more than with more typical jeans:
But somehow being able to see the top of a thong peeking out of a pair of pants adds a bit to the visual presentation. However, as we will always see with fashion trends, some people like to push the envelope a bit and make even more of a statement allowing the “viewer/voyeur” better visual access and leaving a little less to the imagination:
When I was in college the pants were so baggy that it was almost a full-time job for people to keep them up and the young ladies on my campus spent half their time pulling their pants up to keep them from sliding off. The other day I was in the mall and I watched a young women stop walking and spend a moment pulling her pants farther down and her g-string farther up. This new fashion trend is certainly a good one for those into spanking. It is further enhanced when we are doing more than just looking and are in the actual situation of spanking. The low rise jeans with the pull up thong look even better when a young lady is bent over presenting her lovely bottom for a spanking:
I just love it when fashion goes the direction of presenting bottoms in such a wonderful manner.
Wednesday, May 04, 2005
Bottoms of the week II
The Bottom of the Week gallery has enough pictures that it is beginning to load slowly, so I have started a Bottoms of the Week II gallery. Click the more link to view the second gallery.
Week of 5-2-05
Seven very spankable bottoms from LightSpeed Sorority
Three young ladies from xxxraimi.com present their lovely bottoms in such a way that you know they need a good paddling.
I am not sure what it is about Teen Topanga but every time I see her present her bottom like that, I know she needs a couple of good swats.
Trixie Teen assumes the position.
Bottoms of the Week- 5-23-05
Just a random picture from the web in which six girls are posing in front of a school and clearly need their bottoms paddled.
Three lovely bottoms from www.xxxraimi.com
Four more pretty young things from stacybride.com
making you wish a paddle was handy.
More spankable bottoms from ls-sorority.com
Everytime Trixie Teen bends over I seem to imagine a belt swinging through the air.
Week of June 1st
Cute bottoms in the locker room from nikkigrinds.com
Trixie Teen has been bad and has been put in cornertime.
Chloe 18 assumes the position.
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Tuesday, May 03, 2005
New Spanking Model Profile- Jenna
Well, there is good news and there is bad news. The good news is that we hired a wondeful new model named Jenna and she has worked for us twice. She is young and beautiful with an amazing bottom. She has done 6 scenes and seems well suited for this type of work. While she reports that the spankings “hurt like hell” she seems to have a pretty high pain tolerance and we have high hopes for her.
The bad news is that she is a college student from out of state and she will be going back home for the summer. She promises that we will pick up where we left off once the fall semester rolls around, but until then we will have to be happy with the six scenes we have already filmed. I look forward to a nice future with Jenna. Click the more link below for more picture previews.
Monday, May 02, 2005
Sorority Paddling, Hazing, and Initiations
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I think most people that are into spanking find the thought of cute sorority girls paddling each other to be quite sexy. Unfortunately most of these activities are kept a secret and most of us will never get the full details. As illustrated in the image above, (which I believe to be from Life magazine) in the past these activities were not as frowned upon as they are today. There are enough current news stories to demonstrate that sorority paddling as an initiation and as hazing is still alive and well, but we hear little about it because it is a very quick way to get your sorority charter revoked. Most of the news I have read tends to focus on the injuries that resulted from sorority paddling and there is certainly nothing sexy about internal bleeding as the result of abuse.
But we love to fantasize about a row of cute pledges with their skirts lifted being paddled by their pledgemaster. I was a member of a fraternity as an undergraduate in college, and as a result, I knew my fair share of sorority girls. As pledges and active sisters they are very dedicated to keeping all of their pledge activities a secret. But, not everything is a secret and I was able to obtain some minor details in regards to sorority girls being paddled. First, I have never heard a verifiable account of a modern sorority paddling their pledges as a form of discipline. I have read articles in which pledges were paddled as an inititation, but never when they were in trouble. This is not to say that it does not take place, but I do not report on things that I do not have a reliable source on. The one consistant paddling account that seems to be universal is based on a pledge giving her “big sister” her paddle. Most fraternities and sororities honor the tradition that the “little brother” or “little sister” is to make and give the paddle to their “big sister” or “big brother”. I have yet to meet a sorority girl that owns a paddle in which she did not get at least one swat from it. All of the sorority girls that I knew in college that would talk about it admitted that when the paddle was presented that a single swat was exchanged by the girls. In most cases this was done in front of the entire sorority membership. More than one girl admitted to me that it was not uncommon for the active member (having already received her swat first) to raise the pledges skirt. With as competitive as many of these girls are, the swats were administered in an attempt to apply the swat harder than it was received. The distinction for them that seperated this from hazing, is that this was a voluntary ritual and was not a requirement. In addition, the pledge and the active sister got to swat each other, so this was not considered hazing of the pledges.
One girl in particular also told me that there is an exchange of swats between the president of the pledge class and the president of the sorority, when the pledge class presented their pledge paddle to be hung on the sorority house wall. These paddle are traditionally very large, often over four feet. While I am sure they are difficult to swing, from her accounts this exchange is one of the highlights of each semester. She felt that both presidents felt pressure to lay it on as hard as they could and that a two handed baseball swing was common and almost required to swing a paddle so large. She told me that the year she was a pledge that the paddle that they had spent many hours glueing letters and decorations on, had to be redone because half of the ornaments went flying after her pledge president took her swat from the sorority president.
There are many women who visit this blog, and do so in a anonymous way, so help fuel our fantasies and give us a few juicy details. You do not need to provide a school or sorority name, just let us know if you had any real life experience being paddled in a sorority. Regardless, next time you are visiting a friend who still hangs her sorority paddle on the wall, you can feel confident in knowing that her bottom knows what that paddle feels like.
On a side note, I noticed that agony auntie posted a picture that she felt was a modern day sorority paddling. I had not seen this picture before, so if you have any details of the source I would love to know. The picture is below and this is the full resolution version that I have. It certainly looks like it could be on a college campus and just as with the historic picture above, this paddling seems to have drawn a crowd and is being administered with a very large paddle swung with both hands. If you have details please send me or post in the comments section. Thanks!
Saturday, April 30, 2005
A unique true account of corporal punishment at home and school
Early on in the days of Realspankings.com when I was still shooting content out of my house, I was contacted by a woman who had always fantasized about being punished as an adult. She so desperately wanted a real punishment for real life issues that she was willing to fly to my city from Oklahoma, get spanked, and then fly right back home on the same day. Obviously, I took her up on her offer and we set a date for her punishment.
As I have always done when dealing with real life discipline issues, I spent a great deal of time communicating with her to determine not only what she was looking for, but also trying to get a better understanding for her motivation. We spent a couple of months communicating via e-mail and chat and she clearly described for me her extensive experiences with corporal punishment as a child and teen.
She grew up in rural Oklahoma and never left. She currently works as a teacher in the same school district that she attended while growing up. While we often see progress in the United States, it was clear from her accounts that not much had changed in the small town she lived in. This town might as well be the poster00.
child for the “Bible Belt”. Just as when she was a kid, corporal punishment is the primary form of discipline that is still used today. The schools not only use the paddle as the primary form of discipline, it is clearly encouraged by just about every member of the community.
We often read fictionalized accounts of corporal punishment on the web in which the author describes being spanked until they moved out of their parent’s house. I take most “true accounts” on the web with a grain of salt knowing that they are generally people just caught up in their own fantasies. As a result, I never report true accounts of spanking unless I am 100% positive that what I have heard is true. There is no doubt in my mind that everything she told me is true and she was indeed spanked not only until she moved off to college, but she also managed to get spanked during her first summer back from college after her Freshman year.
By all accounts her parents were as conservative as they come. From Kindergarten through 12th grade, she was only allowed to wear dresses to school. While grounding was common as an additional punishment, every punishment in her house included a spanking. Her spanking memories start as early as she can remember and continued until she was almost twenty. She was not able to estimate how many spankings she received growing up, but she figured she received one to two a week, as a minimum. While they became less frequent as she grew older she stated that they also got much more severe.
Her most memorable spankings, and the ones she was the most detailed in describing, occurred in her later years of high school. She described her mother as the judge and her father as the enforcer. Just about every spanking she ever received was at the request of her mother. Her mother would not only tell her dad when to spank her, but she would oversee all of the spankings and tell her father when she had had enough. She said it was common for the father to have finished and for the mother to tell him that they were not even close and that he needed to start again only harder.
She wrote a very detailed account of the hardest punishment she ever received and it occurred when she was a junior in high school. The strange thing is that this punishment was for coming home less than 10 minutes late. It seems her mother had grown tired of the constant lateness that had been occurring over several weeks. After repeated warnings and several spankings, her mother had finally had enough. Her mother had decided that this was the night that a long lasting impression would be made. She arrived just a few minutes after her curfew and it was clear as soon as she walked in the door that she was really in for it.
She described coming in the door and being met by her mother who told her to get the paddle. The paddle was the primary implement that was used to punish her and she guessed that they had probably gone through five or six over the course of her childhood. She stated that there was nothing fancy about it; it was simply a thick board that was cut into a paddle. She felt that it was at least an inch thick and hit with much more of a thud than a sting. A typical paddling generally involved between 10 and 20 swats, depending on her mother’s mood and the severity of the offense. On this occasion, she knew that arguing would be futile, so she simply went and got the paddle from the shelf above the washing mashing in the laundry room. She returned and handed the paddle to her mother and was told to assume the position.
Since puberty, the position used was always the same and required her to bend at the waist with outstretched arms and place her hands on the wall. Any lecture was always given by her mother and took place while she was in the position. She stated that her mom was far from calm at these moments and usually displayed visible anger. When her mother felt it was time for the punishment, she would hand the paddle to her dad and he would begin. On this particular occasion her mother made it very clear to the father that she needed to really feel this paddling. The strokes were laid on close to full force and just a few swats into it she was already in tears. This did not faze her mother at all and she asked the father to “put more into it”. After what she felt was the 12th or 13th swat, the paddle broke. While bawling her eyes out, she was very relieved. In the past a broken paddle meant that the punishment was over and that her dad would be in the garage the next day crafting a new one. On this occasion, it was not to be, her mother felt that they were just getting started.
She was told to remain in position and her mother went to find a belt. She had not had the belt for many years and while concerned, she was relieved that the rest of the punishment would not be with the paddle. Her mother returned with the belt and handed it to her father. The mother told him to “start from the beginning”, and just as her tears were drying up, the force of the belt brought them quickly back. While not as bad as the paddle, she stated that the belt was just vicious on her sore bottom. She thought that her mother must have felt that the belt was not all that effective because she had him blister her bottom for a couple of minutes straight. When all was said and done, she had received the spanking of her life. While this spanking stood out the most in her memory because of the broken paddle, she felt that there were dozens of others that were close in intensity. I asked her if she was ever spanked on the bare or just on her panties and she said that it never once happened. Apparently, any form of nudity was highly frowned upon in her house and she was not even allowed to walk around in a long t-shirt as a night shirt, so there was never a case of her being spanked with any skin exposed.
Unfortunately for her, being spanked at home was not the worst of it. The school she attended, and currently teaches at, uses the paddle on a daily basis. We are not just talking about students being sent to the office to be paddled by an administrator, we are talking about a school in which every teacher has the option of possessing a paddle in their classroom. The only thing that has changed in the thirty years since she was a student is that all paddlings administered by a teacher have to have a witness. The worst of it for her happened in the 10th grade when her math teacher was her father’s best friend. Apparently all of the students in all of the grades knew his reputation as a heavy hitter and one of the most frequent paddling teachers at the school. Being a small K-12 school, there was only one math teacher for the tenth grade level, so there was no way to avoid being in his class. It was even more difficult for her in that she had known him most of her life and he was well aware of the nature of the discipline used in her home.
She felt that for the most part his discipline was effective and resulted in just about the best behaved classroom in the school. While he would never hesitate to paddle for the smallest infraction, the students stayed on their toes and followed the school rules very closely in his class. For her the problem began when her math teacher was having dinner at their house, which was a very common occurrence. The mother began to inquire as to how her math work was going and the teacher stated that she could do better and that she had turned in some assignments late. Over the course of dinner it was decided, mostly by the mother, that the teacher’s requirements for her should be higher and that he should feel free to handle discipline however he felt the situation called for. The policies at this school did not really allow for discipline based on schoolwork, it was more behavior based. It was clear by the end of dinner that anytime he felt a paddling would be effective he had full consent to apply it. While the conversation seemed to have somehow made the mother happy, the daughter was very stressed.
It took less than a week for her first paddling in that class. The teacher asked all of the students to pass up their homework and she had forgotten hers in her locker. She asked if she could go and get it and she was quickly invited into the hallway. She stepped out into the hall and he told her to stay put and that he would be with her in a moment. She said that she was forced to wait almost half the period before he finally came out. Her heart dropped as he came into the hall caring his big wooden paddle. She stated that his was different than most in that it was completely wrapped in black tape. He explained to her that homework begins when he gives the assignment and ends when it is turned in completed at the beginning of class and that any variation is understood to be incomplete. As a result of not completing her homework she was to be paddled.
He had her stand in the middle of the hallway and face down the hall. She was instructed to assume a wide stance, “lock her legs”, and grab her ankles. She was told that she would get six “pops” the maximum that a teacher was allowed to apply for a single offense. As it turns out, there was not a maximum for the Vice Principal. As soon as she grabbed her ankles the first swat landed and she jumped up, grabbed her bottom, and told him through the tears that were already beginning to flow and in a very rude manner, “that was entirely too hard”. He told her to grab her ankles for the remaining five “pops” and that she would now be receiving an additional three “pops” for disrespect. He presented it as a separate offense which made additional swats allowable by school policy. She resumed her position and endured another eight swats as hard as she ever felt. She never thought her dad went lightly, but she described his paddling as “a whole new level of enthusiasm”. After her paddling she was escorted back into the classroom immediately with the tears still flowing. While everyone watched her sit down, she stated that no one giggled as she winced in pain as they often did on other classes, because they knew it might result in them receiving their own paddling.
Prior to this year in school, she looked at being paddled by a teacher as a good thing because it was not documented, nor were the student’s parents notified. Any paddling that took place in the office resulted in parents being contacted, and for her, always meant more of the same at home. But, this teacher was a close friend of the family and her mom was notified by the teacher during his lunch break. When she returned from school, her mother let her know that she would get a “healthy dose of the paddle” when her father got home from work. As expected, just before dinner, she took another ten swats on her already bruised bottom from her father minutes before dinner. Over the course of her 10th grade year she estimates that she got it from this teacher and then again at home almost 10 different times.
From her descriptions it seems that in most cases her punishments were a little over the top. While discipline this frequent and this severe seemed somewhat common to her, I feel that it borders on abuse. I grew up in a neighborhood where most kids were spanked with a belt, but for the most part, the punishment seemed to fit the crime. While she did not feel that her desire to be spanked developed until many years after she moved out of her parent’s house, she states that she was at least intrigued with the concept. She felt that this was most evident in her need to see her marked bottom after a paddling. She would always check her butt after a spanking and then everyday after until the marks disappeared. From her descriptions it sounds as though her bottom was pretty worn out after every spanking she received. She described the typical bull’s eye bruises that result from a hard paddling and stated that they were a deep black and blue that would last for close to a week. She felt that her bottom was pretty sore after a paddling but nothing compared with “the unbearable pain” the following day. She felt that a Monday paddling, whether at home or at school, was the worst because she then had to deal with four more days of a bruised bottom while sitting at a hard wooden desk.
As horrible as all of her spanking experiences seemed, as well as the fact that she did not sexualize any element of the spankings at the time, I found it quite surprising that she wanted me to deal with her real life discipline using a large wooden paddle. I guess people stick with what they know. I found it a little unusual that she feels that she developed a spanking fetish late in life, when most people report these thoughts at a very early age. While living at home she never fantasized about spanking, nor did she find herself masturbating after a spanking. It was not until her mid-twenties that she began to fantasize about being properly punished again.
Having had the experiences she did, I asked her about how she feels about the paddling that still takes place at the school she teaches at and if she ever paddles students herself. She told me that every teacher has the authority to paddle any student for a “clear violation of school rules”. She told me that there is not a day that goes by at that school in which they do not hear the crack of the paddle in the hallway. While she is not fully opposed to paddling students, she feels that the teachers paddling a student in the hallway only serves as a distraction to all of the other classrooms on that hallway. She feels that from the moment the first swat lands until it is clear that it is over, every student stops what they are doing to listen. In addition, during the paddling, the classroom that the student came from as well as the classroom in which the teacher who serves as a witness are essentially left unattended. She feels that there are literally hours a semester wasted as a result of the distractions from hallway paddlings. As a result, she sends all disciplinary referrals to the office. Based on the form the students bring back after being sent to the office, she estimates that a little more than half of the students she “sends up” receive “pops”.
While she has chosen not to paddle students, she does serve as a witness on occasion. She estimated that she serves as a witness more than 20 times a year. Another aspect of the hallway paddling experience that she dislikes as a teacher is the lack of consistency between punishments. While all teachers are limited to six swats, she feels there is too much variation in the way the paddling is applied. A specific offense in one class might earn a student 2 swats from a female teacher who is just trying to make a point, where the same offense in another class can result in six severe swats from a hard hitting coach that is expecting tears from the first swat. As a result of her own experiences being paddled, she feels that there should be a cooling off period after a paddling and the student should be allowed to go to the rest room to compose themselves before returning to class. While many teachers seem to allow this, she states that there are many who feel the additional embarrassment of being walked right back into class with watering eyes is just as effective of a punishment as the paddling itself. She feels that any punishment, regardless of the severity of the offense, should not involve the student feeling humiliated.
She really dislikes the teacher directly across the hall from her class and feels that he is very similar to her math teacher. She feels that he takes it to slightly different level and not only paddles for all offenses, she feels he looks for a reason to paddle whenever he can. Her first year in that classroom, due to proximity, she served as his witness. The following year she told him that he needed to find someone else to serve as his witness. There were a few reasons for this decision. The first goes back to the distraction to her class. While she currently witnesses around 20 a year, with him it was 3-4 a day. She felt that a period rarely went by in which someone wasn’t paddled. She knew how well students behaved in the class she was in with a frequent paddler, so she assumed that students would be on their best behavior in this class. She felt that he had to be looking for reasons to paddle a student in more than half of his classes everyday. She also felt that he paddled harder than was appropriate and that there was no variation based on the offense. If she was called out as a witness for this teacher, it was always the same process. Male students received the maximum six swats and female students received four. She did not feel that he ever changed the severity of the swats and always swung full force. In addition, he taught grades 9-12 and did not adjust for age. The student was brought into the hall and made to bend over with their hands on the locker. He then swung the paddle as hard and fast as he could, delivering all the swats in less than five seconds. He would thank her for witnessing and immediately march the student back into class. She stated it was very rare for a student to not at least have watering eyes and that all out crying was more common.
I found her experiences to be quite unique as well as offering some perspective for those of you who felt you had it rough growing up. In rereading this before posting I realized that I made many references to the fact that this is how it is still done “today”. The original accounts she wrote for me were in 1998, so I guess it is far from current. However, if things stayed the same for 30 years, I doubt much has changed in the last 7.
Friday, April 29, 2005
The moment of impact
I was reading the SpankBoss’Spanking Blog and saw that he posted a few impact photos. This reminded of the fact that I created an impact gallery on Realspankings.com a couple of years ago. The problem with impact photos is that you either get really lucky with the timing of the picture, or you have to use frame grabs from the video sequences. While a lot of sites use frame grabs as filler content, I have never been a big fan. The quality is always too low for my tastes. Several months ago I saw a few pictures that were taken from a high speed camera in which it was sound activated. The impact photos taken with this setup were fantastic. If anyone knows of the link to these impact photos, please let me know, I have lost track of the link and would like to investigate the equipment they used for these shots. Click the “more” link below for more impact photos from the Realspankings.com impact gallery.
All of the photos below come from Realspankings.com
Women Spanking Men
We just finished the redesign of Women Spanking Men and it looks great. The new design is more than just visual, the members area is much better organized and you can now view the punishments by the spanker, or by the date it was posted. We are rededicating our efforts to this site and we now have the resources to spank more men in our studio. With a wealth of new spankers, we are still delivering some of the most severe male punishments on the web. If you haven’t checked Women-spanking-men.com recently, you are in for a treat. The free area has all new video and picture samples and is worth a look. Enjoy!
Friday, April 22, 2005
Realspankingsfilms.com “Road Trip” the director’s cut
We are very close the DVD release of “Road Trip”. While the original version of “Road Trip” did very well, it was not offered on DVD. I, addition, I did all of the editing on the original and this time it was all professionally edited. The DVD box set includes a digitally remastered version with much better and sound quality. The bonus features are in the tradition of “Maid for Punishment” and you can select any model, and spanking, and you can also choose the camera angle you want to see the scene from. The new version is fantastic and we recently put the high resolution trailer online. You can view the new trailer HERE. The DVD version will be avilable at RealspankingsFilms very soon.