Monday, March 28, 2005
Lovely Michelle
This year has certainly been going our way with the return of some of our favorite models. As I discussed before, beautiful Sarah has returned and is currently doing a shoot a week with us. We were also pleasently suprised when one of our all time favorite models, Michelle, moved back and jumped right back into a regular shooting schedule with us.
Michelle is truly gorgeous and one of our favorite models to work with. Her body is the type that fuels most men’s fantasies. Everyone in the studio is in agreement that she has the most wonderful breasts that we have ever seen. For someone who gains no enjoyment from being spanked, she sure can take a hard one. She is one of the first models ever to constantly request that her spankings be administered harder. It is always nice when such a young and hot model leaves the studio with a bruised bottom and a smile on her face.
We have filmed 6 new scenes with Michelle for both Realspankings.com and the RS Institute. She will be in the studio again today to shoot another 3 scenes. You will begin to see her on a regular basis in a few weeks, as her new scenes begin to get into the update schedule.
If you are a big fan of Michelle or Sarah, be sure to consider the Realspankings Pass which gives you access to all of our spanking sites.
Tuesday, March 22, 2005
Bottoms that need a spanking
I generally do not post non-spanking pictures here, but I figure that most of you out there that like spanking, also love to see beautiful bottoms. When surfing the web, I occasionally come across pictures of bottoms that you just know need a good spanking. Recently, I came across these pictures that fit this category nicely. I always credit the source of the pictures and in this case, while the source is credited, I cannot vouch for the quality of the sites, I know nothing about them.
This first one certainly conjures up the thought of school girls prepared to be paddled as a group. This image has a copyright for TiffanyTeen, but in researching the source, it looks as though TiffanyTeen has been merged under the website Phil Flash
The next pic comes from Abby Winters and is just a bunch of wonderful young bottoms.
Just for fun, post what you think is a good spanking caption for these pics, in the comments section. Enjoy!
Wednesday, March 16, 2005
Enjoying my work
I have been known to complain a bit at the studio that I sometimes get tired of my job. I know, I am not going to get much sympathy from most of you. I can hear it now, “poor Michael is overworked and has to spend his days spanking the firm bottoms of hot naked young ladies, get out the violins”. But you must understand that spanking on a daily basis tends to take some of the thrill out of the whole process. Take anything that you truly love and make it your career and it looses a bit of its attraction.
But, there are certain days that everything just falls into place, and even if it is the 5000th+ spanking that you have given, it is just as fun as the first. Anyone that frequents this blog or the world spanking forum knows that there are a few things that I really like in regards to spanking. First, I like for a scene to be fairly severe. Whether watching a video or administering it myself, I need a sense of realism. The whole concept of spanking is to apply pain as a punishment in such a way as to reduce the chance of the behavior occuring again. If the person being spanked is not having their limits pushed or exceeded, it does not do much for me. In addition, I like to see spankings administered with a wooden paddle. Nothing gets to the heart of the mater like a wooden paddle and it will always be my implement of choice when needing to teach a very real lesson. I also like to administer a punishment that is felt for a few days by the naughty girl. There is nothing like many well placed strokes on the lowest part of the bottom, so it is felt when sitting the next several days. My favorite position is to have someone bend at the waist and grab their ankles. This is a very submissive act and it really presents the bottom nicely. Whoever is being punished is forced to cooperate during their punishment or they will not be able to keep their balance. Finally, I have always liked a scene with a school feel to it. Young ladies grabbing their ankles in a school environment for swats with a large wooden paddle, will always be one of my favorite things to watch.
So, sometimes I am presented with a scene that really does it for me. The picture below is from Bi Spanking and it was just one of those days. Based on my descriptions above, you can imagine that this was one day that I did not have compliants about my job!
Full size version of the above pic here
Tuesday, March 15, 2005
Sarah is getting kinky
Last week I posted to let you know that our wonderful model Sarah is back. I thought I would share some additional fun information. As I stated before, Sarah returned after a long time away. We were suprised to see her back because we knew that she is enjoying great success with her own business and the money has become very good for her. As someone who had previously been somewhat of a reluctant model, we have been blown away by her new enthusiasm. You must understand that Sarah is a model who does not enjoy being spanked. In addition, she has a fairly low pain tolerance so even our lighter scenes really have an effect on her. As I stated in my last post, with her return she mentioned that she would really like to do some girl/girl sex scenes. Last week when she came in for her shoot she asked if we could do a scene that kind of plays on the “rape fantasies” that she has.
She told us specifically that she wanted to do a scene in which she was over powered by two women and stripped of all her clothes. There was some additional stuff that she wanted done to her, but that did not really fall within the theme of spanking, so we were not able to accomodate that request. We did however script a scene in which she could be overpowered and stripped by two women. The scene was shot for the RS Institute and she was overpowered by Betty and Kailee when she refused to undress for her spanking.
We are not sure what has gotten into Sarah, but we are very happy with the transformation. When she was just doing this for the money, she never seemed all that thrilled to be here. Now that she does not need the money, she seems to be using our shoots as a venue to explore her sexual fantasies. For whatever reason she seems as into this as one can get. When she returned for a shoot after being away, we filmed a scene in which we had a new male member of our production staff behind the camera. On the next shoot she asked if we would use him behind the camera again because “I like getting naked with strangers in the room”. At the end of the day she told me that she has no problem with having multiple people in the room for her shoots and that she would be willing to do a scene in front of an audience because “being forced to strip in front of a bunch of people really gets me hot”. Wow! Where were girls like this when I was 18? You should all look forward to her future updates on Realspankings.com and RS Institute, she has brought a new level of enthusiasm with her and it shows in the videos. It is also wonderful to watch a scene in which you know the model is getting all hot and bothered throughout the process.
Cuitespankee update
Last week I posted about the new Japanese discipline site www.cutiespankee.com. I thought I would give you an update and let you know that there is a page that features 36 high resolution pictures and 6 of some of their best videos. All of this content is free, and thankfully, there are no pop ups or banners. You can check out the free content at
Spanking Japan. Enjoy!!!
Monday, March 14, 2005
Cute new model
We recently shot a new model for Realspankings.com, which is nothing new for us, but due to the way she was hired, I thought I would share it with you. We held our company Christmas party at my house this year, and had a very full house with more than a dozen employees and their significant others. A new employee of ours who runs our shipping department, brought a girl with him to the party. The funny thing is that this was a first date and they had met at an online personals site. Being that this was not an ordinary company Christmas party, on the drive up to the mountains, he explained to her what it was that we did. Surprisingly, she thought that it sounded like fun and was excited to be at the party.
While the pictures that I will post with this do not do her justice, all of the guys (and a few of the girls) were completely blown away by this girl. Having just turned 18, she obviously had a young look about her. What I think really did it for all of us was the way that she carried herself. You could tell that this was a very fun, dynamic, and sexually confident girl. I am someone that sees naked, gorgeous, 18 year old girls every day at work and even I could not help checking her out every chance I got.
I did my best to contain myself and made a point of not trying to hire her. I did not want someone feeling pressured at my party, in my house, so as much as I wanted to pitch a job to her, I did not. Later in the evening we did one of those crazy gift exchanges in which people can steal other’s gifts. Being that she is not an employee, she did not bring a gift, nor did she receive one. The gift that I provided for the party was the “rub my duckie” vibrator. It is basically a rubber duck for the bath, but when you squeeze him just right, it turns on and becomes a waterproof vibrator. When Dee ended up with this gift, the girl began to complain in a playful way. She told us “Damn, I wish I would have been part of all of this, I just broke my vibrator and I desperately need a new one”. You must understand that this is a girl that turned 18 a few months before, in a room full of people that for the most part have at least 10 years on her. She had known all but one of us for less than 2 hours and here she was discussing her masturbation habits. I do not know about you, but when I was 18 I did not discuss my masturbation habits with my friends or girlfriends, much less a room full of strangers. It was very clear that she was a sexually open girl and probably a whole lot of fun.
The night progressed and as I was making the rounds visiting all of the groups, as a good host should, and I saw that her and Dee were having a conversation. I sat down and realized that this girl was asking Dee about becoming a model for us. Since the girl had broke the ice, I got involved and answered all of her questions. I made it clear to her that we gave real spankings in our studio and that this was not acting. She was very excited to give it a try, but I felt she needed to make more of an informed decision. When she left that night I sent her away with a list of our websites and passwords to access them. I told to her to look long and hard at the videos before she decided to come in and give it a try. She e-mailed me a few days later and told me that she was still interested, but that she was now a little nervous having seen our content. I wrote her a long e-mail and helped her to fully understand the process. After a couple of weeks of thinking about it, she wrote me back and stated that she was ready to be spanked. She stated that while very nervous about the pain involved, the thought of the whole shoot had begun to turn her on. It was not so much the spanking that was getting her excited, it was the thought of being naked in front of the cameras and the people involved in the shoot. Into spanking or not, it was clear that she was our kind of girl.
She has now finished her first shoot and it went very well. She surprised us and herself, by being able to take much harder spankings than our typical model can on her first day. She took three very hard spankings that left her wonderful bottom black and blue. She did so well that I even sent her home with a brand new vibrator to help her release the sexual energy that she had clearly built up over the course of the shoot. When I handed it to her, her eyes lit up and she told me that she would put it right to the test the second she walked in the door of her house (in the privacy of her room of course, she still lives with her parents). She is scheduled for her second shoot next week and I am confident that you will be seeing a lot of her. Now if we can just get her to go back to the hair color she had when she came to the party, it suited her much better. I do not feel the pictures from her first shoot do her justice, but we will make an effort during her next shoot to capture the innocent beauty she displayed at the party.
Her first few scenes will be featured at Realspankings.com in the weeks to come and you can hear her tell her version of being at our party during her interview for her “Punishment Profile”. We are glad to have Tanya as a new addition to our shoots.
Model Profile- Nicky Montford- Firmhand Productions
Well, I have to give Firm Hand Spanking credit for finding a fantastic spanking model with a pain tolerance rarely seen in this industry. Her name is Nicky Montford and she is helping Firm Hand Spanking
redifine what a severe spanking is all about. I must warn you in advance that her videos are not for the faint of heart. She is mainly featured in their “Severe Discipline Series” and Nicky currently has 26 videos in the series. The ones that stand out for me are the punishments in which the wooden paddle is featured.
There is a series of five videos that features some very hard paddling. I may be going out on a limb here, but I would have to say that this series of videos may be the hardest paddling ever filmed for the web. The video begins with her being questioned by a school official about some trouble she got into. While she maintains that she committed the offenses alone, he points out that there were two young ladies captured on the security video. When she refuses to give up her friend, he decides that he will paddle her until she gives him the information he needs.
This very lengthy punishment is divided into five different videos. In the first video she is given 5 full force swats on her bare bottom. When this does not achieve the desired results, he then gives her 10 hard swats. This pattern continues and in the third video she is given 15, the fourth video 20, and the fifth video she receives the final 25 swats. Never before have I seen such hard swats applied to the bare, with such a large wooden paddle. In addition, there are no pauses between the swats. He lays on the full force strokes as quickly as he can possibly swing. She can barely keep up with her count due the rapid nature of the paddling. As someone who likes to see hard spanking in videos, I am not exaggerating when I say this is as hard and fast of a paddling as you will ever see in a spanking video, with more swats from a wooden paddle than I have ever seen in a single punishment. If anyone knows of a video that features a single punishment with more than 75 full force swats with a wooden paddle, please let me know.
There is another series with Nicky in their severe section that is similar, but features the cane. This would be a fantastic video, but I disagree a little with the caners style of discipline. He does not control his cane very well and every stroke wraps around to the side of her hips. While clearly as painful as hell, and as intense of a caning as you will ever see, I think he needs to work a little on his accuracy. As with the paddling, she is given many strokes of the cane as fast as they can be applied. Each set of cane strokes grows in number with the first being the traditional 6 strokes. He then moves on to apply 12, then 18, then 25, then finishes her off with 50 in a row without stopping. This is not the type of caning in which there are long pauses for lecturing and bottom rubbing. Every stroke is clearly laid on as hard and fast as he can swing. When it is all over, her bottom and the sides of her hips are a big mess of angry welts and bruises.
While these two series stand out the most for me, there are more than a dozen other videos with her in them and they all feature discipline on the high end of the severity scale. I had never really thought of the slipper as a punishment implement that was all that effective. After watching the results of a very severe slippering, I have chnaged my mind. I also like the video that features the “clothes brush”. Picture a large wooden hairbrush, then double its size, and add a pound of weight and you have the clothes brush she is punished with.
While Nicky is not your classic beauty, she is very cute and fits the role of a traditional English schoolgirl very well. If you like your punishments as hard as they come, check out the “Severe Discipline” series with Nicky Montford at Firm Hand Spanking
Realspankings Pass
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Friday, March 11, 2005
Lovely Sarah is back
Many months ago we were quite dissapointed to learn that one of our most popular models, Sarah, would no longer be doing shoots for us. But now it seems that she is back. She returned to us a few weeks ago and is enthusiastic as ever. She surpirsed us all by bringing some extra excitement with her. First, she brought a good friend of hers that wants to give mdeling for us a shot. After doing her friend’s new model orientation, we discovered that her friend has fantasized her whole life about being spanked hard, but is still a spanking virgin. She had great trouble concealing her excitement as I explained to her the various scenes we do. She is gorgeous and I am sure that our Realspankings.com members are going to be quite impressed.
Sarah also revealed some new information to us that we were completely unaware of. She asked if it would be possible to do some scenes with other models in which their was sexual contact. It appears as though Sarah is very bisexual and never hesitates to engage in some hot girl/girl action. She has been looking over our model list and asking about certain girls that she wants to have an encounter with. Looks like Sarah might have to make a couple of guest appearances at bi.spanking.com so she can satisfy her cravings.
We are very excited to have Sarah back and look forward to the addition of her hippie/model friend. Look for them both this summer, I am confident that we will be seeing a lot of both of them.
More models that like to be spanked.
It seems the spanking Gods have been with us lately with new models. It seems that the majority of the new models to walk through our doors nowadays really like to be spanked. In the last four months we have signed on four new models with a desire to be spanked. The one thing that always confuses me are the girls who have boyfriends or husbands who won’t spank them right. Out of the four new models, all of which are in a relationship, none of them are getting what they desire at home. In all four cases their significant other knows about their fetish, but do very little to satisfy it. It is great for us when we explain to a new model that the majority of our scenes involve a sense of being in trouble and really being punished, and they reply excitedly with “Thank God”! These are not girls who are looking for fun little handspankings during sex, they want to be in trouble and they want to be properly punished. They all have shown a lot of enthusiasm in finally getting to explore their fantasies. For the first time ever, we are having models bring in scene ideas that they want to explore, without us asking for them. This has all led to some really exciting content as well as some new additions to our “Real Discipline” series. It makes our day a lot more fun and exciting when working with girls who are living out their fantasies. You should see the looks on their faces when I tell them that they can pick the implements for the day’s shoot, and then take them to the implement closet. They are like kids in a candy store as they go through more than 200 different implements that they can be spanked with. Sometimes I tell them to pick three and they return with 10. They just can’t make up their minds and want to feel them all. We are looking forward to a very fun and exciting summer with a new group of girls that can’t wait to have ther naughty bottoms spanked black and blue.
Tuesday, March 08, 2005
Spanking from Japan
I will have to admit that I missed the boat on www.cutiespankee.com. I have been aware of the site, but never really took the time to check it out in detail. My first impression was that it was a site that dealt with posed girls and soft spankings. I think part of it came from the fact that I did not see many red butts in their photos. Having now watched all of their videos, I have changed my mind on my opinion of this site. I think that they may just do their photo shoots before the videos, as a result, the butts are not very red.
Having now looked at all of their content, I am very impressed. First, the models are all gorgeous. They now have five different models and I would be lucky to have any of them working for me. Something else that I was not aware of, is that this seems to actually be a site based in Japan. All of the shoot locations are clearly in Japan and Japanese is spoken throughout. There are subtitles that allow you to follow the plot. Most of the scenes have a domestic feel and there is plenty of content for those that like to watch mother/daughter spankings. They use more costumes than most sites and the scenes have a very real feel to them. They explore many themes including teacher/student, mother/daughter, employee/boss, doctor/patient, maid/employer, and so on.
The spankings themselves are quite good. I was surprised to see that many of the spankings are quite hard. They use many implements in their scenes, with most of them including a handspanking and the hard application of an implement of some sort. The cane is featured often as well as the hard use of the hairbrush, wooden paddles, rulers, and other implements. From their free samples I expected light use of these implements, but their videos quickly proved me wrong. While I would not classify much of their content as very severe, as someone who likes to see very hard spankings, I was not dissapointed.
I can now honestly give www.cutiespankee.com my approval and I would recommend it to anyone that is looking for unique content, with good production value, hard spanking, and fantastic models. You can visit their site at www.cutiespankee.com or view more free picture samples by clicking the “more” link below.
Visit www.cutiespankee.com for more free pictures and video samples.
Thursday, February 17, 2005
Touching the toes at Spanking Online
While bent over and grabbing the ankles is my favorite position to see someone spanked in, touching their toes finishes a close second. I especially like to see young ladies touching their toes when they are wearing traditional schoolgirl clothing. There is something very appealing about seeing a young lady with her skirt lifted, panties lowered, touching her toes, in traditional knee high socks. Spanking Online is the leader in the online spanking world when it comes to presenting visual imagery of this nature. Just about all of their wide variety of models are forced to assume this position at some point in their spanking career. As an English based company, using English models, the whole concept of touching the toes for a hard caning is not foreign to any of these young ladies. In some of their behind the scenes interviews, you get to hear first hand about these young ladies experiences being punished with the cane while growing up in the UK. My first choice will always be with a young lady grabbing her ankles for many swats with a paddle, but you will never have to twist my arm to get me to watch someone touch their toes for six of the best with a cane.
Click the more link for additional photos. Visit their website Spanking Online for additional free pictures and videos.
Thursday, February 10, 2005
More true accounts of school corporal punishment
I thought I would further blog about some accounts of school corporal punishment, that I know to be true.
My wife also grew up in the Texas school system and received corporal punishment at just about all grade levels. This was a public school in a very rich suburb of the Dallas/Ft. Worth metroplex. This was a K-12 school that was its own school district. While she believes that there were probably corporal punishment guidelines for her school, they were rarely followed. While a paddling could only be officially administered by a member of the administration, it seems that most of the coaches used the paddle liberally. She was paddled enough that a lot of the details blend together for her, but she does remember some very specific instances of being paddled…
Her most memorable paddlings took place as a member of the drill team. She describes her coach as somewhat of a “Nazi” and she was on everyone’s case on a very regular basis. On more than one occasion, for whatever reason, she was paddled at the drill team coaches’ request. Surprisingly, she was never actually paddled by her coach, who at times did paddle other members of the team. As it turns out, when it came to my wife being paddled, the coach seemed to prefer it to be administered by a male coach who was able to put a little more swing behind it. As she describes it, there were a group of coaches’ offices that separated the boys and girls locker rooms. On the occasions that she found herself about to be paddled, she was escorted to the offices and a male coach was found. Her offense was described to the coach and a recommendation as to how many swats was given to the male coach.
Regardless of who was present in the group offices, she was then instructed to bend over and either put her hands on a chair, or on a bench. She stated that on most occasions she was wearing her drill team uniform. This is pretty close to what we all picture with a cheerleader uniform. It was a pleated skirt and underneath she wore what are often referred to as “spankies”. This is basically an oversized pair of panties that allow modesty when doing dance routines that leaves the skirt flying in every direction. She clearly remembers that she was never required to grab her ankles, nor was the skirt ever lifted. She felt that it did not really matter what she was wearing, the swats were hard enough to penetrate any level of clothing. She has no doubt that the swats were applied as hard as he could swing. After all, she felt the whole point of being taken to a male coach was to receive a much harder paddling than the female coach could provide. Her paddlings in this environment consisted of between three and five swats. She states that every paddling she received brought tears to her eyes, but she never once openly cried, she would not allow “that bitch” the satisfaction. On more than one occasion, there were other coaches and male students in close proximity while this took place. Her overall thoughts on the paddling she received from the male coaches can be summarized with the words “painful as hell”. She states that while she rarely looked, most of these paddlings left her bottom bruised for a couple of days. She did not describe it as being difficult to sit after one of these paddlings, but she did say that she was more than aware that she had been paddled, the following day.
Another interesting account from her is one of the very few first hand accounts I have heard about paddlings taking place in front of the class. Her health teacher, also a football coach, was in the habit of paddling anyone who had caused trouble, at the end of each class. While not a daily occurrence, she witnessed several of these a week, for an entire year. She said that in many cases it seemed to just be a jock thing. His football players were often called up at the end of class and given a few swats for various reasons. She felt this fell more into the realm of “male bonding” and most of the guys returned to their seats smiling. But, several times a month students other than members of the football team were called up for a paddling that they did not go back to their seats smiling about. It seems that whenever there was a real discipline problem, he would not hesitate to teach a very serious lesson in front of the whole class. In most cases, the students in trouble had no idea until the end of class. A few minutes before the bell rang, he would simple call out a name and tell them to come up front. The student would approach a large table at the front of the room, and be instructed to bend over it, with their bottom pointed towards the class. She describes the swats as being applied as fast as he could swing, with the resulting sound being “deafening”. While it was rare to see a football player shed a tear, she saw many occasions in which males and females walked back to their desks openly crying. Of course, the football players found this to be highly entertaining and openly laughed. She feels that the male to female paddling ratio was around 10 to 1. While it was not all that common for him to paddle the bottom of female students, they were certainly not exempt. She was never personally paddled in his class.
Ok, one more from my wife that I have always found to be a good indicator as to how quick some coaches resorted to corporal punishment. My wife was 15 and she and her best friend were taking driver’s education. In the Texas school system, many teachers taught driver’s Ed after school as an additional source of income. Keep in mind, that this is a class that is separate from required school classes and that you have to pay to attend. These classes generally took place in the summer, or after school. Of course, their driver’s Ed teacher was the same coach that had taught her 9th grade health class. A few days into the classes, her friend showed up late to the class. As she went to take her seat, he told her to come up to the front of the class. With her protesting the entire time, he bent her over the desk and gave her a single hard swat with his paddle. Apparently, she freaked out, screamed bloody murder, and cried her eyes out. While she kept her sore bottom in the desk for the remainder of that class, she never returned. Her parents filed a complaint with the school, but the school backed the coach’s decision to paddle her and nothing else came from it.
I have previously described an account of a friend who transferred schools to one a little farther outside my school district. I have another female friend that moved to a very small town in Texas during her senior year. The summer after her last year of high school, I ran into her and I managed to gather some details of her school paddlings. From what I gathered, this was a school that paddled as the primary form of discipline. This was a very small country town and her graduating class consisted of 13 people. The teachers did not have the authority to paddle, but just about any disciplinary referral to the office would result in a paddling as well as additional forms of punishments. She was not much of a trouble maker, but with the strict nature of this school, she found herself in the office on a regular basis. Each and every one of these referrals resulted in her being paddled. In most cases, her parents were called, and she also received detention. When I asked her what kind of things she got in trouble for, they all seemed very minor. She was “sent up” as a result of things like chewing gum, being tardy, “distracting other students”, forgetting an assignment or book, or having a bad attitude. She told me that there was no such thing as a warning at this school and that even her first office visit for a very minor offense resulted in a paddling.
There are a few things that make her account somewhat unique. First, as far as she knew, there was no limit to the amount of swats that could be applied. She received a paddling that consisted of as little as four swats and as many as ten. She knew of cases of paddlings that were close to 20 swats. Something else that was quite unique is that he had footprints painted on the floor of his office that she was required to stand on for her paddling. She was made to stand on the footprints, which she stated were quite far apart leaving her with her legs spread, and then bend over and place her hands on her knees or grabbing her ankles. She described the paddle as “huge” and wrapped with black tape. I asked her if she ever cried from the paddling and she replied, “oh, everyone cried”. Something else that was unique is that she never knew how many swats she was going to get. It was as simple as, “well, you will have to paddled, stand on the prints and grab your ankles”. She felt that he just kept swatting her until he achieved the desired results. After her ten swat paddling she learned to no longer try and hold back the tears. She felt that tears were the goal, so better to get them out and get it all over with. If anything, she felt like she played up her reactions a little in the hopes of it ending quicker. As you would expect from a paddling of this nature, a bruised bottom seemed to be the norm and she reported the pain to have lasted more than most accounts I have heard of. She felt that it was pretty much the norm when a student returned to class after being sent up, for all of the students to watch them sit down. Everyone knew that a trip to the office most often meant a paddling and the students wanted to see how the other students reacted to the hard wooden desk after their paddling. She told me that the classroom environment was strict enough, that while everyone watched the reaction to sitting, no one ever laughed.
On my next school corporal punishment blog entry I will look at the facts and statistics of school paddling in the US.
Finding a spanking partner
I was asked by a good friend of mine to create a blog entry that addresses finding a spanking play partner. This is a common request and an article I have thought about writing for some time. I have always hesitated to do this because there are so many variables involved, that I would hate to give someone a sense of security based on my article alone. Instead, I will address this in a question and answer format. Please keep in mind that these are simply guidelines based on my own personal experience and none of this can replace common sense and personal instincts.
Is it safe to pursue a spanking relationship with someone I met online?
With the exception of local clubs and groups, this is one of the only ways to effectively find a partner with interests similar to your own. With careful screening and a little common sense, I think this can lead to a mutually beneficial relationship.
Where is the best place to meet for our first play date?
People may disagree with me on this one, but I feel that the safest place to play is at the spanker’s house. This is the best way to make sure that the spanker has some accountability. A first time meeting at the spankee’s house, a hotel room, or anywhere else, allows the spanker to do whatever they want and then just disappear after the session, without any sense of accountability. If they are looking to just abuse someone, a location that cannot be tied to them is ideal for their purposes. But a session at their house ties them to a location, should something go different than was agreed upon in advance. In a worst case scenario, you have some place to send the police.
Everyone seems to be a “experienced spanker”, how do I know if this is really the case?
When I was offering discipline programs for various ladies around the country, I always provided references. If they are experienced as they say they are, then e-mail or phone references should be an easy thing to provide. I never once had someone I spanked that was not willing to communicate with others about their experiences. If they have provided “safe and effective discipline” to as many people as they claim, a reference should not be too much to ask. Keep in mind how easy it is for someone to create a free e-mail account and all of a sudden become their own references. An “experienced” spanker will also be the one to introduce the use of a safe word. You should purposely avoid this topic, until they introduce it. If they never bring it up as a requirement for the first few sessions, this is not the person for you. An experienced spanker will know that this is needed until they get a sense of how you respond to being spanked.
Should our first meeting involve a spanking?
Every person I ever met for the first time, with the thoughts of eventually spanking them, we met at a restaurant with the purpose of getting to know each other better. Lunch was the only activity that took place at these meetings, with a spanking taking place later down the road. Anyone that insists on the first encounter involving a spanking may not be the right person for you.
We have had our initial meeting, things went well, and I am now going to meet this person for a spanking. What sort of precautions should I take?
The most important thing is to follow your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, make it clear that whatever it is, is making you feel uncomfortable. As an extra security precaution, I feel that a cell phone, charged and ready to go is essential. When you arrive at your destination, use your cell phone to call a friend and let them know where you are at. Make this phone call in front of your new spanking partner. I think a first time spanking with a new partner should only involve handspanking. If your new partner becomes a little over zealous, they are limited in what they can do with just their hand. Bondage is definitely out of the question until your trust this person enough to baby-sit your best friend’s children. Through previous communication you should have established what your expectations were for this spanking. If at any point things go in a direction differently than you planned, put a stop to it. When I spanked new people, I used a three part safeword system. This allowed easy communication without killing the dynamics of the scene. “Green” was the word that they used to let me know that they expected things to be a little harder. “Yellow” was the word to let me know that something was wrong, that was not related to the pain of the spanking, such as feeling a little dizzy, sick to their stomach, or maybe just the position was too uncomfortable. “Red” meant the spanking needed to stop at that very minute. I never once heard the word “red” in any real discipline spanking I administered. If you find yourself constantly safe wording, then this person is not as experienced as they led you to believe.
Do not let everything I have written scare you out of the experience. Most people that I know that have met someone online for their first spanking have had a good experience. I am merely trying to prepare you for worst case scenarios. For the most part, people who are out there looking to spank women want to do it on more than one occasion. They are generally just as motivated as you are for this to go well and to lead to a long term spanking relationship. But you must always keep in mind that to a certain degree, this person’s sexual fantasies revolve around the application of pain. Many people see a true spanking as one that is applied as a punishment and leads to tears. As a result, communication is the key. In this communication, you need to look for trends that lead you to believe that this person is honest. I feel that if you discover at any point that this person has lied to you, then this is not the right person for you. If they lied about their age or even how they look, then who knows what else they are lying about.
You want to find someone who has at least a little experience (or is honest about the fact that they are new to the process), have been receptive to your needs, introduced the concept of a safeword themselves, and are willing to take things as slow as you need them to be. With patience and common sense it is not all that difficult to find someone who will help you fulfill your spanking fantasies.
Tuesday, February 08, 2005
Spanking, sex, and endorphins
Endorphins play an important role when dealing with spanking at the harder levels. Let’s take a quick look at what endorphins are and then we will explore the role they play in spanking. Endorphins are neurotransmitters found in the brain that have pain relieving properties similar to morphine. Endorphins interact with opiate receptor neurons in the brain and essentially block pain signals sent to the brain by the nervous system. While research on the topic is still relatively new, studies are showing that endorphins are very beneficial to our bodies. Recent studies suggest that, among other things, endorphins enhance the immune system, relieve pain, reduce stress, as well counter some of the effects of the aging process.
Most of us are most familiar with the production of endorphins as a result of heavy exercise, or as the result of physical pain. The body produces endorphins at high levels in more situations than just these. Sexual activity produces endorphins and research shows that over the course of a sexual encounter endorphin levels can increase as much as 200%. It has been suggested that the euphoric feelings that one experiences after sex are the result of high levels of endorphins running through the body. There are also foods that are tied with the production of endorphins. Eating hot chili peppers or chocolate can result in the release of endorphins. This helps to explain why some people eat chocolate during times of stress and find it to be a comfort food. While released in smaller amounts than during sex, consuming chocolate can produce enough endorphins to create a euphoric feeling.
Endorphins play an important role in spanking and may further explain why those that are not really into spanking find pleasure in having their bottom smacked during sex. As illustrated above, the production of endorphins can lead to a euphoric feeling, and a little pain mixed in with sex can go a long way to increase the pleasure. As a producer of spanking videos, endorphins play a very important role in what we do. For the models that we spank that are really into it, being sexually turned on can carry them through the harder scenes we do. Models that are not into it do not have the benefits of sexual excitement in a scene and it takes endorphins to allow them to carry on past their limits.
We are often asked how we are able to find so many young and beautiful models that will take such a hard spanking. I think one of the main reasons is that we are good at what we do and can guide just about anyone through a very hard scene. We have learned to use the concept of endorphins to our advantage. We always start each day slowly and work a model into the harder scenes. Even a moderate spanking, applied to someone’s bottom who does not like it, will produce endorphins. When it comes time to do a harder scene, the nervous system is already slightly prepared for what is to come. In addition, we have learned to recognize when the body steps things up and begins producing endorphins at very high levels. It takes practice and knowing the person you are spanking, but it is possible to visibly see the signs that let you know that endorphins are kicking in to high gear. You will often see scenes in which the model struggles hard for the first half, and even though the spanking increases in intensity, she fights the whole process less towards the end. This is a result of her body finding a way to cope with the pain by producing endorphins. By recognizing when this happens, we can take a model much farther than she really expected to be able to go. Endorphins are also responsible for the fact that immediately after an intense spanking, people report that their bottoms do not hurt as much as they expected. The surprise comes a couple of hours later when they realize that they are very sore, much more so than they expected. Once the body reduces its level of endorphin production, the true soreness from the spanking is fully realized.
There is still a lot of research to be done in this area, but there is enough of it out there currently to support what I have said. As a spanker, or a spankee, you can learn to use endorphins to your advantage. There are many people that have the desire to receive a hard spanking, but find that they can not tolerate anything more than a light spanking. This is about more than just pain tolerance; it is about being properly guided through a scene that increases in intensity. Endorphins are the reason that people can take a harder spanking after a warm-up. I feel confident that I can take anyone into spanking, regardless of their pain tolerance, to a level of intensity that they had no concept that they could achieve. I have had models work for us that at the beginning, could barely make it through a handspanking, that are now able to take a wooden paddle on the bare. Nothing happened to increase their pain tolerance, we simply got to know them better and as a result were better able to read their body language to see when the harder spanking could begin. I think many spanking producers short themselves in a big way with model selection. They hire anyone cute and then just spank the hell out of them. The ones that survive are hired again, the ones that don’t are sent packing. They do not take the time to learn how to guide someone to the level of intensity their audience wants to see. They simply end up with models who can naturally deal with a lot of pain. If they would learn more about endorphins and use it to their advantage, they would quickly find the size of their model pool increasing by 500%.
I am going to go out on a limb here and suggest something that I have never seen mentioned before. First let’s look at some of the current findings in the area of endorphin research. It has been found that endophins:
- enhance the immune system
- relieve pain
- reduce stress
- counter some of the effects of the aging process
- increase the release of sexual hormones
- cause a euphoric feeling
Now if there was a pill that could do all of the above things, I am pretty sure that doctors would prescribe it to just about everyone. You do not need a pill, you already have the prescription (your bottom) and you just need to have it filled (a spanking). If you want to better fight off illness, better deal with pain, reduce the stress of your daily life, look and feel younger, increase your sexual drive, and find a natural high without drugs or alcohol, then spanking is the cure. I propose that a spanking a day will keep the doctor away. Hmmm, maybe I need to open the first spanking therapy clinic 
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