Monday, October 07, 2013
A hard bare bottom strapping in front of her sister and friend
Most spanking take place in private, but there are those situations in which a more public punishment is called for. In a recent update at Realspankings.com Miss Harlan found herself in trouble with both her sister and her best friend. All three girls learned that those who play together, pay together. This animation shows a small taste of the severe bare bottom strapping that Harlan received for her transgressions. Before it was all done, there were bruised bottoms and teary eyes for all three girls.
Realistic school paddling Video
What happens when a young lady tries to push the boundaries of the school dress code, on the last week of school? In many schools, that young lady is made to grab her ankles and have her bottom paddled until she is crying. Last week in the member’s area of Realspankings.com I explored this very concept and paddled 19 year old Abigail until her bottom was bruised and the tears were flowing.
A hard paddling is best for long term learning
Spanking serves many different purposes on different people’s lives. For most of us, spanking was something that took place in childhood, and its primary purpose was to serve as a punishment and as a deterrent. For many adults, the act of spanking serves a fun and sexy purpose and is used to spice up there love life. Other adult couples have taken it back to its roots and use it as a form of discipline within their relationship. At the very root of spanking, the goal is to provide the recipient with a stimulus painful enough to change their behavior. This process can be accomplished in two ways, the pain of the initial spanking and the sting that it provides, and then the long term pain and soreness that can accompany a well spanked bottom.
If the purpose of a spanking is for it to really be a punishment, then I feel the long term effects are just as important as the primary act of spanking itself. A proper spanking can indeed be a painful experience, as the implement is applied and creates a very painful stimulus. But the human body has a way of helping to cope with pain and very quickly into a spanking, the production of endorphins occur. This allows the naughty young lady to better deal with the pain she is experiencing. This also helps to sooth the soreness after a spanking, and the pain very quickly becomes sort of a warm glow that is not all that unpleasant. But if the overall goal of the spanking is long term learning, then a three minute process that ends with sensations that are not all that unpleasant will not suffice.
In my private life, when I apply a disciplinary spanking, my focus is that of long term learning, and not simply just a short and painful experience. Over the years I have learned that nothing achieves the desired long term results as much as a paddle. A hard paddling hurts very much while it is being applied and has the tendency to produce tears very quickly. But I am looking to provide her an experience that lasts well after the tears have dried. Just about any paddle, when used properly, has the potential for long term learning and growth. I have found that long term learning and growth are best achieved by bruising a bottom. Hard paddle swats, applied forcefully to the lowest part of the bottom, can leave a bottom bruised and sore for many days.
The long term soreness is an important part of the learning process. This allows the naughty young lady who has been punished to be forced to reflect on her behavior for many days. There are many hours a day spent sitting, and after a hard paddling, the simple act of sitting becomes a punishment in itself. A paddling does not just affect the skin when it hits a bottom; it compresses the skin and allows the muscles to feel the full weight of the paddle. This muscle soreness is the desired goal and assures that a young lady not only remains on her best behavior for many days, but that she is reminded of her past behavior.
Monday, September 30, 2013
A severe mouth soaping and spanking
So clearly I have a bit if a reputation as being a hard spanker. Much of it is personal preference, but most of it is the fact that I like to film realistic videos. An on camera spanking, which is depicting an 18-24 year old girl, getting punished, needs to be hard. The goal has to be tears and her bottom needs to be marked and sore for several days.
While I have filmed several mouth soaping scenes over the years, I have never really tried to apply a mouth soaping in a severe manner. So what are the elements that make a mouth soaping “severe”. Unfortunately for Miss Syrena, she was the girl who found out exactly how severe a mouth soaping can be. It began with a low stroke of the belt that landed on her thighs and not on her bottom. Her response was “God Dammit”, followed by “that hit my fucking thighs”. That was all I needed to hear in order for a “severe” mouth soaping to take place. I marched her into the bathroom, grabbed a bar of the soap from the sink, and required her stand with her mouth open while I lathered it up. For a typical mouth soaping, I would simply put the bar in a young lady’s mouth and move it around a bit, making a couple of such trips with the bar. But Miss Syrena was not that lucky. With each trip of the bar, I targeted a different part of her mouth.
For the 1st trip into her mouth with the soap, the goal was to just introduce the bad taste, and I made a quick trip covering the entire area. For the next trip into her mouth, the goal was to cover the roof of her mouth as much as possible.
With each trip, and as the water warmed up, the bar of soap began to create much more lather, allowing me to really get to work. For her next round, I covered what I think to be a very important part of a severe mouth soaping, and that is the teeth.
I focused on grinding the soap deep into her teeth, so slivers of soap stayed behind. While I will often pull a bar of soap against a young lady’s front teeth as I pull it out, for Syrena, I grinded the soap deep into the teeth in all areas of the mouth. I made sure that there was not a spot, in between any two teeth that did not have chunks of soap stuck between them. Once her mouth and her teeth were properly coated with soap, it was time to focus on her tongue. As the tongue is responsible for most of the taste in a mouth, I felt it was important that it received its own session with the soap. She was required to stick her tongue far outside of her mouth, so I could see well enough to rub the soap over 100% of it.
But for a severe mouth soaping, only covering the top is not enough to get the job done, so the bottom side of her tongue also got a full round with the bar.
Once there was no spot in her mouth that did not have complete and total coverage with the soap, she was required to hold it in place, so I could get back to spanking her bare bottom. I lifted up her PJ’s and got to work. Part way into the spanking, I could tell she was having difficulty, as she was beginning to choke on the soap. I allowed her to remove the bar of soap, and to spit a single time, in which time I bent her back over and got back to work.
When her spanking was complete, I moved her back to the sink, but before I told her to do anything, she spit out more soap, without being told to do so. While her punishment was complete at that point, it was her inability to follow directions that led to her spanking in the 1st place, so I had no choice, but to start again. With her mouth still foaming from the previous mouth soaping, I literally started the entire process over again. 1st the entire mouth, then the top of the mouth, then the teeth, and both sides of the tongue again…before it was all said and done the bar of soap made 9 separate trips into her mouth. It all ended with several minutes of standing with the bar in place before she was finally allowed to spit and rinse.
It is certainly the most severe mouth soaping I have ever administered and it was highly effective. When the entire scene was over she told me that she would take a wooden paddle on her bare bottom, any day, over the mouth soaping such as she just received. The 8 minute, HD, mouth soaping video went online last Friday in the member’s area of RealspankingsInstitute.com
Tuesday, September 17, 2013
What turns me on about spanking and private discipline highlights
While we all love spanking, everyone’s kink is highly specific. I see this all the time in the many requests and emails I receive on a daily basis. For everyone that loves hand spanking and OTK, there is another that hates it and wants to only see bare bottom with a girl grabbing her ankles. I am not exactly sure how our kink evolves, but certainly childhood experience has a lot to do with it. For those models that I spank, that are truly into spanking, their particular desires tend to be influenced by how they were spanked growing up. For many of us, our thoughts and desires were shaped by things we experienced, saw growing up, or accounts from friends that were spanked. I grew up in Texas where the paddle ruled in the schools and the belt was the implement of choice in the home. I am sure this had a direct effect as to why school paddling scenes and belt over the jeans are two of my very favorite scenes to film. This was the world I grew up in, this is how I was first exposed to real life spankings that existed outside of my head, and it has had a big influence on what I like to see as an adult.
I spend most of my time blogging about my life as a spanking content producer and do not get too much into the details of my private spanking life. I thought I would spend some time blogging about the unique opportunities I have had as a disciplinarian off camera, highlighting some of my favorite sessions and exploring some of the things that I really like to incorporate into a real life session. I must start by saying that off camera I have never done “a scene”. There is no role playing, and I only see young ladies who are willing to visit me for a real life punishment for very real offenses. I have done this on and off for close to 15 years and it tends to breathe a new life into me as spanking is something that has become my job. At work, spankings are exactly that. I spend so much of my time focused on the content, the cameras, the lighting, the model’s comfort level, that most of the joy of getting to spank young and beautiful girls is taken out of it. But when I do a private discipline session, I once again am able to see the attraction to spanking in general.
Over the years I have become highly selective as to whom I will spank privately. I get many emails that are basically “I love your videos, will you spank me”? These emails go right to the recycle bin as they have grown old very quickly. On occasion I will get a well thought out, well written email in which a young lady is reaching out to me for help in her life. Yes, the common thread to all of the emails is that this is indeed someone with a spanking fetish and a desire to be spanked, but there are some out there really looking to incorporate their desires with a real need to be held accountable for their actions and transgressions. These are the emails that get my attention and warrant a response. I spend a great deal of time looking into where in their life that they need help and at the beginning of the correspondence there is no talk of spanking. The focus is on the issues they are having, big mistakes they have made, and accountability for their actions. I have learned to weed out those that are looking for good masturbatory material, and are simply corresponding for some sort of fun and sexy game. I make it clear that what I am offering in the way of a discipline program is going to more than just about spanking. I have found one of the best ways to really see how committed a young lady is to the program, is for her 1st punishment to be the writing of lines. This is always the 1st punishment assigned and there is nothing sexy or fun about it. A typical assignment is 500 lines, hand written, with a pen, in all capital letters. It is generally a couple of sentences designed to be complicated and hard to memorize. She is required to write all 500 lines and then send them to my PO Box for my review. This is a good 1st step and shows her total commitment to the overall process and making changes in her life. It does nothing to feed her spanking fantasy, and the reality is, writing all those lines sucks a lot and leaves someone with a very sore hand. It can take many hours to complete such an assignment.
When there is finally an agreement to meet, women often travel to my location for their actual punishment. While I do put a lot of thought into their program and the setting of goals, and appropriate punishments for their past actions, this is the one point in my life where I get to enjoy what I like about spanking. There are several elements that I really enjoy regarding a real life corporal punishment between adults. The 1st, and most important to me, is that it be a spanking for real life offenses. I do not want anyone to pretend to be naughty; I want a person who has actually misbehaved in a manner that requires correction. In general, I want her offense to be serious, one that requires a severe punishment. The times that I have spanked young ladies for actual crimes, or DUI’s are the best, as I know they are deserving of the type of punishment I like to administer. Another big factor for me is to provide a punishment that is far beyond what they would willingly accept. Let’s face it, a spanking that is enjoyed, does nothing in the way as serving as a deterrent. I know that they are going to fantasize about their punishment prior to it even taking place and will also probably masturbate to the whole experience, days after it is over. But I try very hard to make sure that during the punishment, that there is absolutely no part of it that is enjoyable, and even if they will be able to eroticize it at a later date, I want to make sure that it is a punishment that they would never in their lifetime want to repeat. These are the factors that lead to learning, and a change in behavior actually taking place.
I find it important to make all aspects of her punishment, beyond just that of the spanking, as uncomfortable as possible. If getting her bottom spanked turns her on, I need to be creative to find other ways to assure she would not want to repeat her punishment. While I do my best to never humiliate a young lady, I find that embarrassment can go a long way in making a punishment memorable. The typical girl, that comes to me for the 1st time, is generally worried about two things, how much the spanking is going to hurt and any level of nudity. Unless she is a full on exhibitionist, most women are not all that comfortable showing any part of their body to someone they are not in an intimate relationship with. While I have indeed had frequent email communication with these young ladies, typically, when they walk in my door, this is the 1st time we have ever met in person. I typically greet them warmly, offer them a glass of water, and ask if they need to use the bathroom. Once that is taken care of, I politely instruct them to remove all of their clothing and jewelry, and to stand at attention in the middle of the room. This has a way of really setting the tone and also catching them off guard. I am demonstrating, from the 1st minute, that I am not only in control, but I have the power to have them strip naked. There is really no situation is a woman’s life in which any person has the power to tell them to strip naked and just stand there on display. It establishes power, control, and dominance instantly. There have been more than a few who hesitate and just sort of stand there like a deer in the headlights. This problem is generally fixed with a casual comment such as “10 swats with the wooden paddle, on your bare bottom, for not following directions, would you like to make it 20”? I have used this phrase at least a dozen times in my life and it gets clothes off of a woman quicker than tequila.
Once the young lady is naked and in place, or shall I say, on display, I sit down and review her punishment journal. I have everyone keep one of these and it consists of goal, daily schedule, infractions, and so on. For close to ten minutes, while she stands fully naked in front of me, with her arms behind her back, I review her journal and say nothing at all. I believe this is a very powerful part of the overall punishment process. Yes, she may spend all day fantasizing about being spanked, but this is not typically what she fantasizes about. She now has time alone with her thoughts thinking about nothing but how uncomfortable she is standing there naked and what she did to bring her to this point in her life. The punishment has already begun for her and there is not an implement in site. For many young ladies the lecture is a big part of their fantasy. While I will eventually review with them what they did wrong and what the results will be, giving them that awkward time, in which no words are spoken, gives them nothing to fuel their fantasies. They are simply naked and on display and I make a point of looking them over often while I review their journal.
Another element that is a big factor for me during any spanking is that of cooperation. I see the whole process as being done for their benefit, not mine. It is not my spanking, it is HER spanking. We are there as a result of her actions, we are trying to correct her behavior, and therefore this is HER punishment. I have been kind enough to spend many hours helping her to come up with a schedule to make her life more effective as well as to bring her to my home to correct her transgressions. As a result, I expect her to be an active participant and to help me in any way required to see that she is punished to the best of my ability. I expect that I will not be chasing anyone around the room, or holding anyone is place while she is being spanked, it is her job to cooperate and assist me throughout the entire process. Obviously this is easier said than done, as when I administer a real punishment spanking, there is nothing fun about it. I find the threat of additional correction helps a lot during a spanking, to get a young lady to better cooperate. I also find that moving to the thighs and punishing her hands, helps a young lady to realize that it is best to hold still and only have her bottom spanked. Repeated strokes, for moving out of position can also be a good motivational tool. When a woman ends up taking 40+ swats with a wooden paddle, for a 20 swat paddling in which she would not hold still, her resolve seems increased as we progress in her punishment.
It should be no surprise to you that I prefer to administer a hard spanking. It is certainly no surprise to the girl being punished that this is going to be the case. This part was made abundantly clear from the very beginning of our correspondence and while the pain is certainly shocking at first, it should not be all that surprising to her. After all, we are talking about adult women, who are traveling to see a man, in order for him to punish her in a manner that will actually change her behavior. Or, it might be to help her relieve some guilt she has felt for many years regarding a particular event in her life. But either way, there is no reason for any aspect of it to be playful or fun for her. The goal of the day is to provide a stimulus to her bottom that hurts enough, that she would not want to feel it again. I do not believe in a warm-up spanking in any shape or form. My goal is not to guide her gently through the process and build things up slowly to a place in which a harder spanking is possible. It is actually quite the opposite and I take full advantage of those first few minutes. I know that her body will begin to produce endorphins and slowly be able to adjust to the level of pain she is feeling, so the first few minutes are the most important. This is my chance to really send a message to her brain, through her bottom, that tells her to get her act together. I have heard many people say that a spanking does not really start until the person being spanked wants it to be over. My goal is for the person being spanked to want it to stop the very moment it begins. For some of the more severe offenses I have dealt with in the past, such as a DUI, tears are the goal from the very 1st swat of the paddle or crack of the belt, and in these situations, I tend to achieve my goals.
A long and hard punishment session with me tends to go through a few phases. The first, as I discussed above, is to shock her system. I try to make the very beginning of the spanking the worst part. Over the course of the punishment, I try to vary the spanking as to create different, yet painful sensations. I find that a thick leather belt, on a bare bottom, is a good way to start. When swung full force, it really creates a sting like nothing else. A paddle has a tendency to numb a butt quickly, and that is not what I want to happen. A couple of dozen full force strokes with a belt, on a bare bottom, will pretty much always give me the tears I am looking for. It might take a few of them on her thighs to get her to stay into place, but a belt helps the learning process greatly. She can have fantasized about being spanked her whole life, but I do my best to make sure that there is nothing at all enjoyable about what she is feeling. I often utilize corner time as a way to let her bottom cool down and for the endorphins to back off a little. If I see that her body begins to relax and that it is clear that she is finding it easier to bear, then it is time for a break. I find that if I am creative, that corner time itself can serve as a pretty good punishment. This also goes back to creating a situation that she is not able to eroticize in any way. Yes, she may have fantasized often about being in trouble, being spanked, and having a sore bottom, but there is nothing sexy about kneeling on a brick mantle, with tears still streaming down her face, and her arms behind her back. She may have thought often about a sore bottom, but for the most part, sore knees from 20 minutes of kneeling never entered into the equation for her. She is simply left alone with her thoughts and once again finds herself wondering what she did to get herself into this situation. At this point she does not know how long she will be there, if her punishment is over, she just knows that what she is going through sucks and that she would not want to do it again.
When it comes to the actual application of a spanking, there are two things every girl can count on. The first is 100% coverage of her bottom. I like to see a bottom in which there is not a single part of it that has not been spanked. While it is not safe to use a wooden paddle, or even a belt to try and cover her whole bottom, I have many implements that I use to make sure that the very tops and sides of her butt are properly spanked. I often use a thick leather paddle, at some point, to make sure I have complete coverage. The other thing that she can count on is bruises and being sore. I feel that if I am going to take the time, to punish a young lady who has actually traveled to my location, then the punishment needs to last well beyond the actual spanking itself. I really think this is one of the most important aspects of a proper punishment spanking. Yes, a hard spanking that lasts up to 30 minutes can indeed be a deterrent, but I think a lesson is better learned, if the punishment is ongoing for days. Once again, I think this is an element that most women do not fully consider when looking for a very real spanking. In their mind, they fantasize about a freshly spanked bottom with a nice red glow, and that fun tingling sensation from an erotic spanking. But what I am looking to provide is a stimulus that last for several days, that serves as a reminder every time they sit down. I want them to reflect on their past behavior as they try to endure the next few days. I have had several women report back to me that while the spanking was intense, when they left my house, they felt that it was not that bad after all. This is a result of their endorphins and adrenaline being very high and their body compensating for what they just experienced. But if I did my job, in less than an hour, they begin to realize that their punishment is not over, and that in fact, it is just beginning. The numbness begins to fade and it is replaced with a not so gentle throbbing with each beat of their heart. The muscles in their bottom begin to tighten up, and it becomes clear to them the reality they are facing. Very quickly they realize that this is not fun, this is not sexy, this is pain and learning at its finest.
To achieve the long term results that I am looking for, I generally use wooden paddles or a hairbrush. After a long session with multiple implements, the paddle is often not as bad as they expected. But my goal with the paddle is long term learning, and not short term reactions. I do my best to focus the paddle swats on the lowest part of their bottom. Hard and repeated paddle swats make a young lady’s bottom go numb very quickly, but at this point that is not an issue. I focus a lot of time and energy on the “sit spot” making sure that it is bruised in such a way that sitting becomes a very real issue in the future. Many people have heard the phrase “you will not sit down for a week”, and while that is optimistic, I have been able to accomplish not sitting down for a couple of days. I am not suggesting anyone try this at home, as I do have a bit of experience in applying a hard paddling safely, but it really is possible to spank someone in a manner in which they cannot sit down after. But this is the point, a punishment that was so intense and painful that they will do anything to never go through it again. And by anything, I mean the things that brought them there in the 1st place. I think paddling a girl black and blue, so she is so sore that she has to call into work for the next couple days, is fair for someone who repeatedly drinks and drives, especially if it has a chance to eliminate that behavior. I think many young ladies fully underestimate the amount of soreness a proper spanking is able to provide. While it seems limited to her bottom, just about any movement of her body creates pain. Walking, sitting, and even standing becomes a chore when every muscle in her bottom is tight and sore. The next morning is always the worst as the wake-up to a pain they have never known before. There is one girl, who I have had a few private discipline sessions with, that has told me that she ended up squatting over the toilet for the next few days, as sitting on the hard seat was really impossible to bear.
There are times when I have managed to have some fun with the whole thing, while adding to the overall effectiveness of the punishment. On many occasions I have taken the young lady out to eat after her session, so we can hang out and get to know each other on a different level. I have to admit it is fun to watch them squirm in their seats as they begin to realize that sitting is a very real issue. There was an occasion in which I took a girl to Chili’s after her session and when the hostess began to seat us at a booth, I asked for a table in which the chairs were not padded, adding “she was just spanked and I do not want her sitting comfortably”. The naughty girl turned as red as her bottom and the hostess said “oh my” and took us to one of the tall bar tables with wooden stools. The girl continued to be embarrassed as the hostess walked over to the hostess stand and shared with the other girl and a waitress what I had just said. For a brief second she was not focused on her bottom and was simply embarrassed as all three girls looked at her and giggled a bit. There was another occasion in which I met a girl in Vegas for her session and she was as in the closet about her spanking fetish as much as anyone I have ever known. Since this was to be a long spanking weekend, we took her punishment more slowly than I typically would, in order for it to be able to last a couple of days. Her punishment started with a close to 20 minute handspanking in which I covered every inch of her bottom and made it is bright red as I possibly could. After her spanking, she was required to change into her bikini and we headed to the pool. There was a family pool and an adult area, so we went to the adult pool. I required her to pull her bikini up into her butt crack a bit and sunbathe her bright red bottom. She did as she was required, but she buried her face into her towel as she could not bear the reactions she assumed she was getting. I sat a few chairs away and watched as people walked by. Surprisingly, everyone seemed quite entertained and not at all concerned, one guy even gave his lady a good smack on her bottom as they walked by giggling, it was Vegas after all.
For the most part there is not a strong sexual element to the punishments I provide those in need. But there have been occasions in which I have used something, which does have a sexual element, to further enhance the discipline. It has been several years, but there was a girl I met for a single time, that was clearly a huge fan of the sites. It was also clear to me that she had a collection of spanking porn larger than mine. She knew every site and every model, and every spanker out there. While I felt her heart was in the right place as a far as seeing me for a session, I knew that she was really getting off on the whole idea well before we ever met. I did not want her to bring all of that sexual energy into a session with me, so I simply decided that she would have to relieve it prior to being spanked. Before she arrived I went and bought one of those small “mighty might” vibrators that is specific to clitoral stimulation. Her session started like most, with her having to strip and me reviewing her journal, but after some quiet time with her standing naked, I went and got the vibrator. I told her to lie down on the couch and to use the vibrator until she achieved an orgasm. She was a little hesitant at 1st, as once again we had just met, but after telling her she had earned some cane strokes (the one implement she feared the most), the vibrator began to hum to life. It took her all of three minutes to cum, so I made her do it again. It took her more than 5 minutes the second time, but that was enough, and her punishment began. With the Vegas girl, there was a lot of down time between spankings and it kind of felt like a date weekend. I needed her to remember at all times the purpose of the trip, so I took her to an adult toy store for some shopping (which she also found horribly embarrassing). We went in and picked out 5 different butt plugs, or various sizes. I gave her the money and made her go to the counter to purchase them. As the weekend progressed, she was required to insert a plug into her bottom every time we left the room. I think it is safe to say that when we saw the Blue Man Group that she was the only girl in the audience with a bruised bottom and an extra-large butt plug inserted into her behind. I promise you have never seen a woman squirm so much during a Vegas show.
I have been very lucky over the years with my spanking experiences. I am not a particularly handsome guy, but my job has allowed me to be a visible member of the spanking community. Many women have been able to see my style of spanking, have watched how long I have been doing it, and somehow with that, comes a sense of trust. I have not had to work hard to make the connections I have made, and in every case, the women have come to me. Beyond the actual spanking, I really do work hard to try and help these ladies find a direction, to be self-motivated, and to pursue success in their lives. Yes, I have blistered and bruised every one of their bottoms and left them in tears, but they all seem to have appreciated it. There are many who have never come back to see me, mostly because they learned their lesson and realized that they do not want to behave in a manner that results in a punishment like the one I provided them. There are several who I have seen on and off over the years, or as often as their behavior requires it. These sessions are what feeds my kink and allows me to pursue spanking as it exists in my head. It is nice to not have to worry about the “lights, camera, action” element and focus on a spanking as an actual punishment. This turned out a little wordy but it feels good to share something beyond my spanking productions. Cheers.
Thursday, August 29, 2013
Naked and Embarrassed before her spanking
Never underestimate the power of having a young lady undress and making her stand fully naked prior to her spanking.
Thursday, August 15, 2013
New spanking models for August
This month we have shot two new models, with another two new models scheduled for Sept. The first is Miss Stevie, who is not new to the industry, so she did not get the normal 1st day light spankings. She jumped right in and took a fairly hard profile spanking. For her second scene I blistered her bottom with my heavy leather belt and she took it like a champ. When discussing what she wanted to be spanked with for her final scene, she surprised us all and went for the 32” long, 1/2” thick, tiger cane...which no model has ever requested. This is the biggest cane we have ever owned and it packs a punch. She endured 12 full force strokes, the last 6 on the bare and hardly even marked. This girl has a bottom made for spanking. Here is a preview of her upcoming updates:
The next new model is Miss Jordan. She is 30 years old and has a beautiful smile. She was a little nervous about being spanked, but loosened right up. During her profile she went into a detailed account of the spankings she received growing up, until the age of 12. She was not only spanked by her mom and her dad, but it seems that grandpa had a paddle with holes in it that hung in the basement, and she details more than 1 trip down into the basement for a hard paddling from gramps. She did our standard 1st day profile, hard strapping, and an arrival at the Institute. Take a look at her black and blue bottom below and you will see that she did not have a light day. Her butt was so marked and sore, that she had me take pictures of it with her phone so she could txt pictures to her good friend Monica, who always used to come home and show her bruised bottom after a shoot.
Look fdor both of these girls in future updates at Realspankings.com and RealspankingsInstitute.com
A fun day of spanking
There are times that work just drags on and I want to be somewhere else. But then there are those days that it is a pure joy to be at work. When I get the perfect models, with perfect bodies, that enjoy being spanked, I would not wish to be anywhere else. We had just such a day last week in which I brought in three perfect models and came up with the kind of scripts that exist in my fantasies. I found various ways to spank, strap, and paddle these young ladies and it was a long and hard day for them, but the content is fantastic. We started with three young ladies (two sisters and a friend) that find themselves in a lot of trouble. The other dad is called and all three girls get the spanking of their lives in front of each other. When then move on to an RealspankingsInstitute.com scene in which I find reasons to get them naked and strap and paddle their bottoms, with lots of nudity and uncomfortable corner time. We ended the day with the three young ladies sneaking onto my property for a little skinny dipping in my pool. I see them out the window and call my buddy over which leads to us taking turns on all three naked girls with our belts. It does not end until their bottoms are blistered and they are in tears. It seems only fitting that they should clean my pool after it is over. With lots of new models and some of the best content we have ever filmed, RealspankingsInstitute.com and Realspankings.com are doing our best to make our members very happy.
Wednesday, August 14, 2013
Getting her tiny bottom paddled at school
Being sent to the principal’s office is never pleasant for the older teen girl, but when she is sent up during cheerleading practice and is only wearing her tiny practice shorts and a sports bra, the experience become even more overwhelming.
She has to sit in the office, of this administrator that she has never met before, wearing an outfit that barely covers more than a swimsuit does. She is 18, a legal adult, but she has to sit there and be lectured like she is still a child. She may be a legal adult, but as long as she attends this school, she is required to adhere to the rules and regulations set forth in the school code of conduct.
Unfortunately for her, the only thing that could make this situation worse, is the decision he makes as to how to handle her excessive tardies. She is informed that she will indeed be paddled for her infractions. She has no say in the matter, he simply states it as a fact. Before she can fully realize what is happening, he is getting up from his chair, turning it around, and telling her to bend over it and to present her bottom to be paddled. Having never been spanked at school or home before, the reality of the situation begins to really hit. This reality is further emphasized as he pulls out a giant wooden paddle to spank her bottom with.
She bends over as instructed and can feel the cold AC of his office on the very lowest part of her bottom, knowing now that in this position, part of her butt is indeed exposed. He takes his time with the paperwork required when he paddles a girl’s bottom, and she is left presenting her little teen butt, just waiting for it to be paddled. The moment finally comes and she feels the wooden paddle touch her butt. She watches out of the corner of her eye as the paddle is raised high in the air...and then the learning begin.
From a recent update in the member’s area of RealspankingsInstitute.com
Monday, August 05, 2013
Paddles for all
Thursday, July 18, 2013
A severe OTK bare bottom hair brush spanking from dad
It seems as though it was a fairly common occurrence in the 50’s, a spanking with the dreaded hairbrush. There are very few implements that really hurt as much, or leave as long lasting of an impression. The pain is intense and very specific, and if a proper wooden hairbrush is used, every single smack leaves a bruise instantly. In as few as 20 smacks, a young lady’s entire bottom can be completely marked. The main benefit to a hairbrush spanking is the long lasting results. Sure, after a particularly hard strapping the naughty young lady might be a little sore the next morning, but it in no way compares to a severe spanking with a brush. The naughty girl in question soon realizes when she gets out of bed the morning, after her bottom was spanked with a brush that her punishment is just beginning. Basic tasks such as sitting, walking, and even standing become quite painful, as any movement of her body causes her poor bottom to ache. If it was a proper spanking, she will feel the results for as many as five days.
Punishments like this are rare in spanking videos. Most models cannot handle such an intense punishment and are generally not willing to feel the results for so many days after the video has been filmed. I do no occasion find the rare model that is willing to endure such a punishment. Miss Lila and I had talked about giving her the spanking of her life on many occasions and one day we finally decided to make it happen. She wanted to receive a very traditional hairbrush spanking, just like teen girls received in the 50’s. She was clear that she wanted a “father/daughter” type of scene and wanted to be OTK. It is truly as hard as I have ever spanked on camera, and it left her with a very bruised and sore bottom for more than a week.
Below is an animation from that very scene, one in which we filmed without a safeword. She wanted to give up all control and to know what it was really like in the days when the rod was rarely spared. This video is available on demand HERE.
Monday, July 08, 2013
Using a switch for real corporal punishment.
The use of a switch for the application of corporal punishment has been used for generations throughout the world. This traditional is still alive and well in many parts of our country, especially in the Southern states. Part of this time honored tradition involves sending the naughty young man or young lady out to pick their own switch. It leaves them with a tough decision as they have to look at the bush and choose the exact implement that they know will be used on them. But it adds a real sense of ownership to their punishment as they become an active participant in their own discipline. Most have been warned that if they choose a switch that is ineffective, that one will be selected for them.
The next step once they have selected the switch is to clean it. They get to know their punishment implement very well as they peel off ever little twig and leaf that is still attached to it. The process of selecting and cleaning a switch, or 2-3 switches for a longer punishment, can take as long as 20-30 minutes, which allows a lot of time to reflect on what they did. With every leaf peeled off of the switch all they can focus on is how bad it is going to hurt when it hits their bottom.
Because a switch is so thin and light, it is traditionally applied on a bare bottom. It does not have the weight and thud that a cane does, so it serves very little purpose to be used over clothing. The last step in the process before a switching takes place is for the pants and panties to come down.
Once the bottom is bared and she is in the proper position for her switching it begins. Anyone who has ever felt a switch will tell you that it has a burning sting like no other implement out there. A switch is small and light enough that it creates very little resistance when traveling through the air, and as a result it travels at a very high velocity. The sting created is very specific to a small area and the part of the bottom that it makes contact with burns like a bee sting.
As a result of the small area that is made contact with during a switching, it takes a while to cover an entire bottom. There are very few parents and disciplinarians that see a spanking as over until the entire bottom has been spanked. When a switch is used, this can take quite some time, and involve many more strokes that a spanking with a typical implement like a belt, paddle, or wooden spoon. With a belt, the entire bottom can be covered in less than 20 strokes, but with a switch, it can take as many as 50-60 to stripe the entire bottom of the offending young lady.
Because a switch is such a lightweight implement and creates no safety concerns when it comes to striking muscles or bones, it is quite common for a switching to include the back of the thighs. For many who are spanked with a switch, it is common for the spanker to start at the top of the butt and stripe all the way down the very bottom of the thighs and then back up again. The severity of their offense determines how many trips up and down that will be made. There are many naughty young ladies out there who have bent over for 4-5 such trips to be made. The marks are quite unique and very visible for quite some time. A switch leaves a nicely raised welt every time it hits. There are very few implements that leave such a distinct mark.
With it now being summertime, it is switching season again at Realspankings.com and I have been sending many young ladies out to pick a switch. This post is illustrated with the latest switching update to the member’s area of Realspankings.com in which Miss Ivy has gotten in trouble at school and as a result, is also in trouble at home. Her friend is staying with her for the week, so she is present to not only witness the punishment, but to help with the process. Ivy and Syrena are sent to the yard with a pair of scissors, to select 2 switches to be used for Ivy’s punishment. After they each clean a switch, he gets to work striping Ivy’s bottom. He works hard enough with the punishment that he wears the 1st switch completely out. He moves on to the second switch and gets right back to work. Every inch of her bottom and the tops of her thighs are set on fire, teaching her a very real lesson.
Tuesday, July 02, 2013
A real witnessed spanking
I have spoken on many occasions that I do not think that corporal punishment is an effective form of discipline for children. Yes, for many of us, our spanking fantasies are deeply rooted in childhood experiences and there is often a childlike dynamic in a lot of spanking fantasies and adult spanking role play (read my long article from the past if you want my full feelings on this subject). With that in mind, I do need to share a unique experience from this past weekend.
I was at the waterpark with my own kids and we spent the morning riding all the rides and such. After lunch they wanted to head out on their own and we agreed to meet in two hours. It was 100 degrees and I was feeling it, so I went to the car and cranked up the AC and turned on NPR. I had the window cracked to make sure that I had some fresh air and lowered the back of my seat and just relaxed in the cool air. From across the parking lot I saw a mom with her older teen daughter (I am guessing 16-17 years old) walking across the parking lot and I could tell by their body language that something was up. As they got closer to my vehicle I could hear the mom, not quite yelling, but using a raised and angry voice. They ended up two vehicles to the left of me on the same row and stopped at a minivan. The girl was protesting hard, and what she was basically saying in various ways was “please mom, not here”. Even though we are not talking about consensual adult spanking, I am a spanko, and as soon as I heard her pleading, my heart rate increased and it seemed to me that a spanking might take place. Her mom opened the back of the minivan and began to dig around in the back, with the girl still pleading for it to wait until later. Well my question as to what this was all about was quickly answered as the mom came from the back of the van, with a small plastic hairbrush in her hand. This was not a typical spanking brush, it was small and plastic, the kind that every one of us probably owns. She opened the side door of the minivan and sat on the middle bench seat. She told her daughter to get in and get over. The girl pleaded yet again, “no mom, not here” in which the mom told her “get in here now or you will get it at home too”. It was clear the girl was horribly embarrassed, but she did what she was told.
It was not your typical OTK that we all think of in our minds. The girl half laid over her mom’s lap, with the front half of her body on the bench seat that her mom was sitting on and her legs hanging out of the open door of the van a bit. At this point, the radio is turned off in my car and the air all the way down so I could hear better. I lowered the back of my seat more and tried to become invisible, but I still had a decent view through the glass of the car to my left. The mother pulled the girl’s bikini bottoms up into the girls butt crack and started spanking the girl with the little brush. For a tiny plastic brush it made a hell of a lot of noise. She spanked hard and fast and the girl handled it pretty well. She squirmed a little but I did not hear any sounds other than the brush. The whole spanking lasted less than a minute and I would guess that the girl got 30-40 smacks with the little brush. Her mom told her to get up and she hopped out of the van and pulled her bikini bottoms out of her butt crack. Her mom put away the brush and closed up the van and then they started walking back to the park. The got about 50 feet from our vehicles and then they turned around and came back. The mom was once again digging around in the back of the van and I thought for sure they were about to repeat the process. Instead, her mom produced a pair of shorts from the van and told her daughter to put them on. I am guessing that her recently spanked bottom was a little too visible in her bikini bottoms and her mom wanted to cover that up. After she slipped on the shorts they walked back to the park and the whole thing was over. I did see the girl in the park later that day, still wearing the shorts, and she was splashing and having fun in the wave pool, with a small group of girls, like nothing had happened.
I am sharing this here because I witnessed a very unique thing and I just needed to tell someone, or a million or so someone’s as is the case here on my blog. Honestly, I have not witnessed a real spanking since I was around 14. The situation was unique in so many ways. The first I think was the fact that this is Colorado, not a State in the Deep South where something like this is more common. Obviously, the fact that this was a semi-public spanking made it also very unusual. The girl’s age and beauty also added to the dynamic of the situation. While this girl was not an adult, she was not a child and I would bet that there is a good chance that she had a driver’s license. This was a fully developed, very pretty girl, and never in a million years, had I seen her an hour before in the water park walking around in her little bikini, would I have ever guessed that she was still spanked at home. The fact that her mom took the time to find a makeshift implement to spank her daughter with made me wonder what she was actually spanked with at home. I was left with the thought that the little brush was probably a bit lighter than what she was used to. The other aspect was the whole OTK thing. It was clear; this was not a unique experience for the girl. Her mother did not give her specific details as to what position to get in. It was clear that she knew exactly what to do and that being spanked over her mom’s knee was not an uncommon occurrence. I liked that it was not abusive, it was not mean, and it seemed like a pretty proper spanking. I do however wish I knew what she had received a spanking for.
The whole thing did leave me a little conflicted with my thoughts. I did not eroticize the experience and did not find it sexually exciting in any way. It certainly got my heart racing and there was no way I was going to turn away and not watch. This was a girl who was probably just under the age of 18 and I did find myself staring at her teen butt with her bikini wedgie while she was being spanked. I think the main appeal was that this was real and I was there. This was not role play, this was not adult spanking fun, this was a very real spanking administered by an angry mom. I have seen the real spankings on the Internet, like the judge, or the black dad beating his daughters with an electrical cord, and that is just pure abuse. This was a teen girl getting spanked, in a manner that I think we as adults fantasize about and try and bring into our own spanking lives. At the heart of it all, we have a girl who committed some sort of infraction that warranted a spanking in the eyes of the person charged with such a task. She was taken to a fairly private place and her little butt was spanked reasonably hard and was left glowing red, but not bruised as a far as I could tell from that distance. It was a little embarrassing for her, there is no doubt that it hurt, but was administered in an effective and non-abusive manner. Assuming that the punishment fit the crime, it is as proper of a spanking I have ever witnessed, regardless of the age of the girl being spanked.
Monday, June 24, 2013
Miss Kiki
We are happy to have little Miss Kiki shooting with us on a regular basis. I had my doubts when I 1st hired her, as she was very quiet and shy, which made it hard to get a good read on her. Our very best models are the ones I can really communicate with and as a result, get the most from them. Kiki finally opened up and came out of her shell, which has led to us filming some fantastic scenes. She is one of those girls who has a love hate relationship with spanking. She loves being submissive and it is clear that the scenes we shoot with her really turn her on. However, she has a very low pain tolerance and gets so very nervous before every scene. She is always sweating and shaking before a scene begins, but this adds to very much for us. She does not have to act at all before her spankings as her nervousness and apprehension about being spanked is real. She finds every spanking hard to endure, but her desire to be submissive keeps her in place and gets her through every one. She is such a sweetie, and I often find it hard to give her the spanking she deserves, but just about each and every time, her spanking ends in tears. Miss Kiki is shooting a lot with us now and is quickly becoming one of my favorite models. Here is a look at a few of her recent scenes with us...including a very hard school corporal punishment paddling that left her tiny bottom bruised and sore for days.
These images come from future updates to the member’s areas of RealspankingsInstitute.com and Realspankings.com
What’s New?
We are having a busy summer at the studio, with new models and lots of new content. Alyssa is our newest model and we are really enjoying working with her. She comes to us knowing that spanking interests her but she has not really explored it all the much. In her punishment profile she details the strappings she received, up to late middle school, at the hands of her father. We have shot six scenes with her so far and she will debut on Realspankings.com on July 1st and on RealspankingsInstitute.com this week. Here is a sneak peek at lovely Miss Alyssa:
