Monday, March 10, 2008
Bruised and blistered bottoms at Girl’s Boarding School
While it seems that due to the recent crackdowns by billing companies and the government a lot of spanking sites are cutting down on the severity of the spankings they portray on video, this is certainly not the case with Girls Boarding School. I had not been to their site in a few months, but I must say WOW. Clearly these young ladies are learning good lessons because severe spankings with very bruised bottoms is becoming the norm. They must breed them tough across the Atlantic because these girls are receiving punishments that they will be feeling for days. At Girls Boarding School black and blue seems to be the new national colors. Click the “MORE” link below to view more examples of the bruised bottoms of the Girls Boarding School girls.
To visit their site and to view the videos that go with each of these bruised bottoms pictures, click HERE
Realistic spanking- punished over jeans
There are many ways to show spankings in pictures and videos, but let’s face it, most of them are not all that realistic, they are more often a fantasized version of what we really want to see. While I am sure there are those that were spanked on their bare bottoms as kids, in a variety of interesting positions, but for the most part these things are generally a result of adult spanking fantasies. I have never met or talked to anyone that was spanked fully nude, or in the diaper position while growing up. The reality is, at least in the South where I spent my childhood, most spanking took place in very simple positions, with clothing in place. Just about every strapping that I knew of in my neighborhood, as well as the school paddlings that took place in both the middle school and high school I attended, where applied over the clothing of choice for students of that age, which was almost always jeans. I must admit that as a result, I often find mindself looking more at pictures of a jean covered bottom being punished, than those of bare bottoms. Quite simply, these pictures are just more realistic. Over the next couple hours I will be uploading a gallery dedicated just to young ladies having their bottoms paddled or strapped over jeans. These pictures do not show as much in regards to the marks from a spanking, but all of the pictures I have chosen represent a realistic image of how spankings actually take place in the real world. Once I have the images all uploaded, you can view them at my Free Spanking Galleries. Enjoy!
Saturday, March 08, 2008
Use of embarassment as a punishment tool before or after a spanking.
I generally think than when it comes to spanking pictures and videos, that the ones I have shot for my sites represent the best and most realistic. I will however give credit where it is due, when someone is doing something better than me. When it comes to using embarassing elements before or after a spanking, it is hard to compete with Spanking Online. As you already know, I am a big fan of cornertime as an additional punishment after a spanking. At Spanking Online they frequently use a sort of reverse cornertime, in which the young lady to be spanked, had to lower her panties and raise her skirt. This is not to show the marks on her bottom, but rather to just put herself on display as a punishment itself. I think this is an effective tool in real life punishments, especially for those with a desire to be spanked. Spanking Online often takes it a step further and when a young lady is in cornertime, she is forced to spread her butt cheeks wide. This is not something that I have ever used as a punishment, I think it moves beyond simple embarassment, and crosses over to full on humiliation, which I have never been a big fan of as a punishment. Regardless, when it comes to pictures and videos of gorgeous young ladies having to expose themselves to everyone in the room, Spanking Online is king. Click the MORE link below for more pictures that feature embarassment as a punishment tool.
To visit their site and check out the videos that go with each of these pictures, you can click HERE
One of my favorite spanking models
Here is a clip from one of my all time favorite models to spank at Realspankings.com. Kathy grew up in a very conservative household and you could tell that she was just dying to explore her wilder side. She is one of those models that while she always seemed to truly hate getting a hard spanking, you could tell the whole process left her wanting more. This video is streamed free from the brand new and totally free spanking video site, Fetish Tube.
Friday, March 07, 2008
Bend over for your spanking young lady
While there are many different spanking positions, I would have to say that someone being simply bent over, is close to the top of my list. Regardless of the setting, I think most real life spankings occur with someone just being told to bend over. Whether it is to place their hands on a desk, on the bed, or on their knees, it is really just the most functional position. It allows stability, it raises the tail bone out of the way, and just makes for a good target. I have created a new picture gallery today that celebrates this position. All of these images come from my various websites, which can be checked out at Realspankingspass.com. To view this new and free spanking picture gallery, just click the “Free Spanking Galleries” link to the left. As always has been the case, this gallery is on this site and will not take you to some crazy tgp with dozens of popups. This is truly just a free spanking gallery. Enjoy!
Spanking in the real world and the roots of our spanking fantasies (Repost)
By request, I am reposting this article that explores some of the more difficult aspects of our fetish.
This is a difficult topic to explore and one that I have always had trouble putting into words. As many times as I have tried, I have never been able to articulate this point very effectively. Regardless, I thought I would go ahead and give it a shot as a blog entry. Let�s start with the difficult questions and see if we can find something resembling an answer.
Why do so many spanking videos feature situations that feel like a child in trouble getting spanked by a parent?
Why are there so many school scenes with a naughty student and a teacher or principal spanking them?
Why do we see so many people posting their true accounts of childhood spankings on the web?
Why do so many people actively seek these accounts out and read them?
Why do I blog so much about school corporal punishment and why is this one of the most requested scenes on my sites?
Why do many couples participate in �age play� in their spanking scenes?
As you can see, these are tough questions to answers. At their root, I think these are some of the things that make so many people uncomfortable about their spanking fetish. It makes them feel weird or “perverted”, so much so that they may go their entire lifetime without ever telling anyone that the concept of spanking is appealing to them. They feel like they need to just suppress these feelings and hope they go away. They assume that there must just be something wrong with them, but I would have to disagree. The Internet has made it easier for many people to realize that they are not alone out there in their “perverted” thoughts, but I think that most of us had difficulties coming to grips with it. I never once told any of my friends in school, that while they were making comments on how much they would like to have sex with a particular girl, I was thinking about bending her over and smacking her bottom with a paddle. I am sure that there are many women out there who fantasized about the captain of the football team taking her over his knee and spanking her to tears.
So what is the common thread to the questions I asked above? The common thread is that all of the above things are that they are real life spankings. I see three areas in life that real spankings take place, parental spankings, school corporal punishment, and judicial punishments. Just about any other spanking situation is between consenting adults. Sure there are a few exceptions to the rule. In the Middle East, there are many countries in which it is legal (and encouraged) for a husband to discipline his wife. From the limited information I have about this type of discipline, it seems pretty abusive. It is not a “you have been bad and have earned a punishment” type of situation, I see these situations being more related to domestic abuse, which I will never find sexy. I have seen evidence of “Christian domestic discipline” in which the couple feels that the teachings of the Bible encourage the man to physically punish his wife. This is limited enough in its use that it is foreign to most of us, so it is not the type of thing to fuel our fantasies. There are also situations like fraternity and sorority paddlings, but this falls more into the category of “hazing” and is generally not administered as a punishment. Without the punishment element, it looses a lot of what I find exciting about spanking.
Beyond what I have listed, what we are left with is consensual spanking between adults. Don’t get me wrong, there is plenty of excitement in consensual spanking between adults, there has to be, for the most part it is all we have to work with. But even in this context, many of us strive to create an atmosphere similar to the three areas listed above. For those not active in a spanking relationship, they often seek out content that has the feel of the above three areas. Why is this? To understand we need to look at spanking at its very core. Let’s take a look at spanking in the minds of people who do not eroticize it in any way. Consider what a 12 year old would tell you about what a spanking is. I think any of the following would be accurate quotes:
“It hurts”, “it is done to teach you a lesson”, “it happens when I get in trouble”, “it makes you cry”, “I do not ever want another one”, “it makes my bottom sore”, “it makes me behave”.
In general we have a situation in which someone has clearly committed an offense and they are then physically punished for it. In these real life situations the person in trouble has no control over when, where, how, with what, or for how long they are spanked. They are simply in a situation that they have no control over and it is their own actions that led them there. For the most part, the goal of this spanking is to produce a sore bottom, often to produce tears, and to teach a very real lesson. Another very key point is that this spanking is non-consensual. In real life spanking situations the person, if given the choice, would not want to be spanked. In the case of school corporal punishment, many times people elect to be spanked, but this is only because they find the alternative to the spanking to be worse.
I think the fact that many people look for spanking videos, pictures, and stories that focus on discipline of this type is normal. They are looking to see spanking presented in a way that seems real. Does this mean that we want to see children spanked? Absolutely not. There are so many ways to discipline children that are more effective than spanking. But there are limited situation in which real spankings take place. A logical place to look would be in the realm of judicial punishments. In reality, there is nothing sexy or exciting about judicial punishments in my eyes. I have seen pictures that show the results of real judicial punishments and there is nothing exciting about them. It is almost torture and in many cases the skin is ripped off the body with every stroke leading to permanent scaring. I like strict punishments, but at this level, it does nothing for me. So for me, when considering real spankings in the real world, there are parental punishments and school punishments. Do I think that either should really take place? No. Do I like to read true accounts of these things taking place? Guilty.
Why do we not find the same appeal when considering consensual spanking between adults? I think it is because we loose an element of realism and move a little away from what I find to be the root of spanking. Do we have situations in which one person is really in trouble and is really being punished in these relationships? Yes, but in most cases, one or both of the people involved find sexual excitement from this situation. This does not make it hurt any less, but it does reduce some of the dynamics that I find so appealing. Punishment or not, at some point the person being spanked expressed a desire to be spanked. As much as they may hate it at the time, at some point before or after, they fantasized about being spanked. For me, the concept of them wanting it, takes a bit away from the whole dynamic. A punishment that is desired is not really a punishment in my eyes. I think this is why you see me writing so frequently about additional things to add to a punishment beyond the spanking. I am trying to introduce elements that decrease their enjoyment of the punishment, thus increasing the realism.
I think another aspect that makes us attracted to the parental element of a spanking is unconditional love. While it exists in some relationships, it is probably not to the same degree as it does in a parent child relationship. I feel that, especially for women, there is a strong sense of feeling protected and safe that comes from parental discipline. Even when in trouble and being punished, there is a strong feeling of being taken care of. They find a sense of security from someone that is willing to discipline them, even when they do not want to, in order to help them become a better person. Some couples are able to achieve this dynamic, but not without introducing at least a small sexual element. I think the bond created is strong enough that there are many straight men out there looking for male/male spanking as adults. There was something that they felt while being punished growing up that they are looking to recreate as adults. It is not just the physical sensations that they are looking to find again, it goes well beyond that.
I think another big influence is the age at which we found the thoughts of spanking exciting. For me, and I suspect many others, my attraction to spanking came at a very early age. Thinking about spanking excited me, well before I ever found women sexually attractive. At that age, I had no concept of consensual adult spanking and all I had to work with was spanking in the real world. Before the day of the Internet, I had very little to work with. The only real contact I had with spanking (being that my parents did not spank me) was the paddling that took place in my school and the spankings that took place in my neighborhood. I went out of my way to casually obtain information about the girls in my neighborhood and school getting spanked. At this point in my life, this was all I knew in regards to spanking and I couldn�t get enough of it. I lived in a state and town in which spanking was very common and while sometimes embarrassed, many people would talk about it because it was just part of their everyday life. It left me in a situation of fantasizing about either spanking these girls, or watching them getting spanked. In my prepubescent state, there was no sexual interaction in these fantasies, it was all about punishments. This was the early attraction for me, so I think it makes sense that this is still the attraction.
I think that if there were more real world instances of adults being spanked as a punishment, that we could easily adjust what we like to read about or see depicted on video. I do not think the common thread in my questions asked above is the fact that these are children being spanked. I think that the common thread is reality. If there were more real world occurrences of real spankings between adults that we would naturally add these to the list of things we like to read about or see depicted in spanking media. But because instances such as these are few and far between, we revert back to what originally sparked our interests in spanking while growing up.
For me, I think to a certain degree, some of what I am saying is why I find the concept of school corporal punishment exciting. This is also why I focus so much on school paddling that takes place at the high school level. I think that in some way, I feel less guilty about finding these things exciting when we are discussing almost fully grown women. There are many girls that are 18 and seniors in high school that are still paddled. This is as close as I can get to a real world spanking that involves someone that is not a child. I think that this is mentally easier for me to swallow than the thought of a grade school child being spanked. There is less mental conflict for me when I consider a fully developed woman electing to take a paddling as her punishment. This still has all of the real world elements that I find exciting, but does not make me feel so weird about it. This alone helps solidify my thoughts that if there were more real world instances of adults being spanked as a punishment, then our attention would shift to these situations. One of the first spanking scenes I ever saw in the media was the strapping in the mainstream movie “Tank”. I still think this scene is fantastic and there was nothing at all that gave it the feel of a child being punished. What it did was present a spanking as a punishment, to an adult woman, in a very realistic way, and for realistic reasons.
You will notice that in the feature length films that I have shot, I try provide content that shows legal aged adults being punished in a situation that seems at least a little plausible. This was the whole basis for the “RS Institute of Learning” website. I tried to create a realistic situation that allows for the spanking of adults. In the movies “Friday Punishments”, “the RS Institute Road Trip”, and “Maid for Punishment” there is nothing to imply that these are teenage girls. Instead, I wrote scripts based on legal aged girls being spanked in real life situations that only require a small suspension of disbelief.
You will often see me writing about childhood related punishments on this blog. You will read my thoughts on school corporal punishment, you will read some of the many accounts that I have heard about people getting spanked growing up. Because of the metal conflict involved, you will rarely read anything I have written than involves the spanking of young children. Instead, my focus in generally on people who were punished well into their teen years. Once again, while I liked hearing about these things growing up and I still like reading about them now, I am opposed to the concept of spanking children in general. If I witnessed a man in a parking lot smacking his young daughter forcefully on the bottom in an abusive manner, would I find it exciting? I do not think so. Instead, I feel my initial instinct would be to smack the shit out of him and tell him to pick on someone his own size. While there are some things I like to read about, the thought of it actually happening often makes my stomach turn, thus bringing me once again to a conflicted state of mind.
It is not always easy being into spanking. The roots of our fetish, while easier to justify at a young age, becoming increasingly difficult thoughts to rationalize as adults. What we found exciting as teens, makes us feel like perverts as adults. With my business, I have been forced to come to grips with all of this. Several times a week I am in a situation of explaining to new models why we film the types of scenes that we do. I try to explain why our scenes often have a domestic feel, while at the same time trying not to weird them out. I also try to explain that even though our scenes have a domestic feel to them, that we never have anyone call the spanker “mommy” or “daddy”. Legally, I can present a girl on video as any age that I want. We can legally do “mommy/daddy” scenes, but I do not allow it. Once again, it just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I know this is what many people want to see (it is probably our number one request) but I just can’t force myself to do it. Once again, there is just too much mental conflict involved and it makes me uncomfortable.
In closing, I do not think that if you find yourself attracted to reading true accounts of childhood spanking that you are a pedophile. I do not think that finding yourself turned on by a spanking video in which it appears as though a teen girl is being punished by her father is all that weird. The attraction and excitement is not a product of this seeming like a child being punished, it is a product of the scene having a sense of reality to it. At its very core a spanking is a painful punishment that is meant to teach a lesson, one that the person being spanked has little or no control over. As adults into spanking, this is all that we are mentally looking for, and the age of the recipient has little or no bearing on this situation. But the reality of our world provides very few instances of this happening to adults, so we allow ourselves to push age aside and get caught up in the reality of the situation. Once again, a tough topic to discuss and even harder to rationalize, but I believe there is great truth to the points I have made. I hope that at least on some level this helps people cope with some of the more difficult aspects of their fetish.
Firmhand Productions
As those of you who read this blog know, there are many sites out there that I myself have been a member for many years. One of my favorites has always been Firm Hand Spanking. One of the main reasons is besides my sites it is one of the few spanking sites that demonstrates strict coporal punishment being administered with a wooden school paddle. Today I thought I would treat you to some of the many updates from Firm Hand Spanking that involves bruised bottoms from a school paddle. As always, click the more link below for the rest of the paddling pictures. Enjoy!
You can visit there site their site HERE
for the full video of each paddling that goes with each of these pictures.
Thursday, March 06, 2008
Bottoms needing a good spanking
Today I present to you wonderful bottoms that are in great need for a spanking. These pictures are provided by my very favorite non-fetish site Met Art Fine Photography.
They feature the hottest models anywhere in the world, presented in a very classy manner. Click the “More” link below for more bottoms needing a spanking.
Click any image for full size version.
Please show support for Met Art Fine Photography by visiting their site HERE
Wednesday, March 05, 2008
Fetish Tube experiment
A test post to see about embedding video from Fetish Tube
Fetish Tube
The first of its kind and I am sure soon to be copied by all adult webmasters out there. Be sure to check out Fetish Tube. All free videos, played from a Flash player, so there is no evidence on your computer. This is going to be a very popular website for those into spanking and BDSM. Enjoy!
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
Why Spanking
A new article I wrote for a free guide to spanking to appear at realspankings.com. Thought I would post it here first.
Why Spanking?
The first question that most people that are not “into” spanking ask, is why spanking? There are so many reasons that spanking is appealing to consenting adults as a way to spice up their love life. At its very root, I think the simplest answer is that it takes the concept of general dominance and submission, which many couples practice in some form, to the next level. Many couples probably do not believe that they are dominant or submissive in their sexual behavior, but I think it exists on many levels. It can be as simple as a “rough sex”, fingernails down the back, a tug of the hair, or pinning her/his arms during sex. For the slightly more adventurous, they may have gone as far as using a couple of neckties or handcuffs for some light bondage. Even the use of a blindfold is a gentle form of dominance and submission. The truth is, when freed from the conservative teachings of the past, just about everyone would like to enjoy a little more kink in their life than they admit to.
Let’s take for example what I see to be the most “socially acceptable” form of dominance and submission that most men and women have at least watched take place, the “cum shot”. Why does every single porn video feature a “cum shot”? Do women really like to have their face sprayed with a man’s semen? Would a man rather have an orgasm with his penis in his hand (which he does regularly) or inside a woman? Do the watchers or porn (mostly men) have a desire to see things spraying out of a penis as a form or excitement? I would argue that no is the answer to all of these questions. I feel that the popularity of the “cum shot” has to do with a man exercising dominance over a woman. Here in his hand is the very essence of his manhood and he is doing with it whatever he wants. Not only that, but he is demonstrating his power by spraying it on her face, in her eyes, nose, mouth, and wherever else he wants. The reality of this situation is that for the woman, it is kind of gross and degrading (not to say that there is not the possibility of her finding this appealing). So why does every porn feature the orgasm in such a way? Because for whatever reason, this has become a socially acceptable form of a male exercising his dominance over a women. In the real world, during a one night stand, you are far more likely to have success in smacking a woman’s bottom than you are in trying to spray your semen all over her face.
As we explore the act of dominance and submission in the bedroom a little further, we start to see more physical acts of dominance. It may be as simple as the use of a blindfold. We have physically taken away someone’s sight, which now puts one person clearly in control and adds a level of trust. It may seem simple, but the act of putting on a blindfold makes one person in charge and the other person under their control to a certain degree. The moment a blindfold is attached, the person wearing it has become the “submissive” and the other person “dominant”. As we progress in this exploration, we move on to things in which there is more actual physical control. For many, this comes about with the gentle pinning of the arms or pulling of the hair. We have now a situation in which someone is physically dominating the other. Pinning a woman’s wrists to the bed while having sex is demonstrating control, strength and power. It shows that he is in charge by engaging in an act that in most other situations in life could be considered illegal. Here he is physically demonstrating that in this situation, at this moment, during this passionate act, he will take control and do it the way he wants. He is not just having sex, he is demonstrating sexual control over her body. Another basic form of this same act is pulling of the hair, but this adds one more basic element of dominance and submission…pain. By pulling the hair, he is once again demonstrating sexual control of the situation, but things are escalated slightly in that he may be providing mild discomfort at the same time. Once again, in the real world, you are not allowed to physically restrain a woman and cause her any amount of pain or discomfort. But in the comfort of the bedroom, during a highly passionate act, pulling her hair demonstrates sexual control of her and her body. The addition of a slight amount of discomfort further emphasizes that point. Without really hurting her, by pulling her hair he is clearly saying, “I will do what I want with you and you will gladly accept it”. Pulling the hair seems harmless enough, but it truly exemplifies sexual dominance and submission at its very core.
These acts that I have described touch more on the emotional and psychological elements of dominance and submission. There are implied elements of control that take place as a result of these acts, with a gentle physical force that further emphasizes them. The next level involves elements of discomfort all the way through to very real pain. These acts can include tight and restrictive bondage, hot wax, pinching the nipples, anal sex, and anything from erotic spanking to full body flogging. What makes this more exciting for many people is that we still have a heavy psychological element, but now we begin to touch upon new and sometimes very arousing physical elements. Let me start by saying that everyone, to a certain degree, likes varying amounts of pain. Pain is a sensation, one that we traditionally try to avoid. But pain applied to an erogenous area of the body, can indeed become pleasure. Take a look at what I see as the most basic desire for pain that a female (males as well) has, which is nipple stimulation. In my experience, when a woman is close to, or actively having an orgasm, the nipples can be (and want to be) pinched hard. Pinching the nipples with the same amount of force at any other time during the day, would cause her to scream out in very real pain. So, does it hurt any less when she is having an orgasm? I would argue that it does not. But, when everything is just right, endorphins are being released, the body is processing this pain in a much different manner… it becomes stimulating and exciting. In this situation, it is not just about a man exerting his dominance over a woman, it is also about the physical sensations. This point is demonstrated by the fact that on many occasions, I have watched women gently caress their own nipples during masturbation, only to squeeze them hard as they achieve an orgasm. This has nothing to do with dominance and everything to do with intense physical sensations that stimulate an erogenous area. Hot wax being poured onto sensitive and sexual parts of the body has a similar effect. At first it burns, but it also seems to bring all of the nerve endings in that area into play to create new and exciting sensations. I would argue that anal sex is very similar in nature. That part of the body is full of nerve endings, but not ones that are traditional associated with pleasure. The act of anal sex wakes up a lot of nerve endings in the entire region and can create unbelievable physical sensations, even without contact direct contact of the clitoris or vagina. Spanking works in a very similar way.
Let’s start off with a basic demonstration. Clap your hands together, very hard, ten times. Not like you are clapping at a play or concert, but as hard as you can, so you can really feel the burn. Hurts a bit doesn’t it? We don’t normally clap our hands together that hard because it hurts. But now wait a minute, what do you feel now? Maybe a strange tingly sensation, not so much of a burning now, not quite pleasure, but no longer pain? It is a new and different sensation in your hands that has caused them to tingle in a different way. You have definitely brought some nerve endings into play in your hands that you do not normally feel. If you did it hard enough, your body may have even begun to produce some endorphins to combat the pain. I am not trying to convince you that this feels good or has brought you pleasure; my point is by stimulating your hands in a new way, you have created a new sensation and your body has reacted accordingly. Now imagine that same tingly sensation that your hands feel, in an area of your body where tingling is a little more appreciated. This is the simplest way I can explain why some people find it physically pleasurable to be spanked. Smacking the hands together did not produce anything but pain, but a few seconds to a minute later certainly provided you with a new sensation.
To be blunt, the nerve endings in your bottom have some very direct connections to your genitalia. It is not some crazy myth invented by horny men that spanking can physically increase sexual pleasure. Being spanked can increase blood flow to the whole region, excite nerve endings that were clearly bored and are glad to be alive and kicking, increase the body’s flow of endorphins (endorphins and spanking discussion continued here), and just make you excited. It is not that while your bottom is being spanked that you are experiencing pleasure, it is the results of the spanking that leads to the pleasurable response in other places. For many, spanking goes well beyond this, but the truth is, even without some the role play, the disciplinary elements, the dominance and submission, the fun and games, simply having your butt smacked a few good times before or during sex can increase some of the pleasurable sensations you feel below the waist. Another plus is that after a hard enough spanking, one that you feel the next morning, the increased stimulation and blood flow to that region has not gone away. For many that are really into spanking and like to be spanked hard, one of the main reasons is that as long as their bottom is feeling it, their sexual desire is increased. This is where I feel I can make a good argument that pain can really equal pleasure. After a good hard spanking, in which the next day your butt is actually sore, you experience a sort of throbbing. Your butt literally hurts, but at the same time your entire crotch is sort of pulsating with each beat of your heart. There might be some pain involved, but if there was a pill that I could take that could recreate the associated throbbing of that entire region, I would have a prescription. Pain or pleasure?
As with the other dominant and submissive acts that I described above, there can be a strong emotional and psychological element to the act of spanking. There is the strong psychological element in which one person is “taking control” in a sexually charged way. They are demonstrating that regardless of the rules of society, and what is considered socially acceptable, that in the bedroom, when the clothes come off, “I am in charge” and to a certain degree, will do “whatever I please”. Spanking can be as simple as a few smacks to her bottom while she is on top, or can take the concept of dominance and submission to new levels in which one demands their partner to pull down their pants and panties and grab their ankles for a spanking. For some, having sex with the lights on feels new and kinky, but being told to take off your clothes and in a sense be put on display with your butt in the air feels real kinky. There is a sense of being dominated when a man flips a woman over to change sexual positions, but it is a whole new world when he demands that she assume a certain position and punctuates the command with several smacks to her upturned bottom. There is a strong degree of trust, in giving yourself so fully to another. Allowing them to apply pain to intimate parts of your body demonstrates complete and total trust in them and their decisions about your health and welfare. There is a release and a strange pleasure that comes from being able to give oneself so fully to another. There is also a sense of power as well as closeness when someone allows you this sort of access to their being. Often relationships lack the intimacy that many seek, and strangely enough, this trust, dominance, and submission can create intimacy on a whole new level.
Spanking can create a sense of fun and adventure, a sense of being “naughty”, “kinky”, or “bad”. It can change a dull and somewhat routine sex life into something new and exciting. It opens the doors to playing games and assuming roles and just learning to have fun in the bedroom. It is really the next step for those who have gently experimented with some of the lighter forms of physical dominance and submission. It can turn an argument from “why are you always late” to “you need a good spanking young lady”. Anything that can turn an argument into a sense of sexual fun is a winner in my book. So relax, don’t be afraid to talk about it with your partner, those days are over. Everyone, in there own secret little way, has a desire to be dominant or submissive, and sometimes both. Don’t be afraid to buy those cute fuzzy handcuffs and see where they lead you. Remember that the words “what are you gonna do, spank me” generally means, “please God, take the hint this time”. Pull the hair a little, if she complains…then it was an accident, if she doesn’t, then pull a little harder. And ladies, while this article was written from a man’s point of view, don’t forget that he probably wants to be spanked as well and it is ok if you want to be the dominant one. It really is ok to be kinky and live out your fantasies beyond your computer screen.
Remember, spanking is a CONSENSUAL activity between two adults in a secure relationship and nothing more. It is not for children ever, even if you are their parents, teacher, or relative. It is not for your naughty wife who wants nothing to do with it. It is not for the girl you picked up in the bar that is pissing you off. Spanking anyone that does not want to be spanked is abuse and hopefully you will end up in jail as a result.
Monday, December 18, 2006
Spanking hairbrush
We have always bought our hairbrushes for spanking from the Vermont country store. Recently I received a catalogue in the mail that featured classic hairbrushes from Kent, an English company that has been making traditional hairbrushes for more than 200 years. They seem to have three that are well suited for spanking purposes, the “firm bristle”, the “extra soft”, and the “bath bat”. All seem to be solid wood and thick, making them ideal for a bottom blistering that will be remembered for days to come. You can visit the site HERE. I have placed an order for all three, so I will let you know their effectiveness as disciplinary implements in the future.
Sunday, December 17, 2006
More big paddles and little butts
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Blog Upgrades
I have spent the last week upgrading the blog software in preparation for some new features. In addition, I have moved the blog to one of my higher speed and larger capacity servers. While the transition should be seamless to all of you, there may be a bug here and there while we finish things up. Thanks for your patience as we prepare to take the blog to the next level.
Thursday, December 07, 2006
Japanese Face Slapping
Honestly, I am not sure what I think about this video. It quickly caught my attention, but may be a little much...I haven’t decided yet. Either way, it is the most serious face slapping I have ever seen applied to females. The first Japanese schoolgirl is just so young and too cute, that the punishment aspect is exciting, but it really makes me want to kick the crap out of the guy slapping her face so hard. Either way, this is the most authentic slapping punishment video I have ever seen so I felt I had to share. Does anyone know where this clip comes from?