Wednesday, April 23, 2008
Ideal spanking position
From the member’s area of Realspankings.com
If you ever read my blog, it should be no surprise that I am a big fan of grabbing the ankles as a spanking position, it is clearly my favorite. A close second is definitely when a young lady is made to bend over, arms outstretched and placed on the wall, or even a desk. There are many aspects of this position that I find appealing. The first is the functionality of this position, it presents the bottom nicely, while also allowing the person being spanked really good support. When bent over and grabbing the ankles, a really hard paddle swat has the potential to knock someone off balance. But with the hands on the wall, stability is never an issue. One of the best functions of this position, is that if they are truly bent at 90 degrees at the waist, with the arms fully outstretched, this position requires them to keep their hands in place or they will fall forward. This can be a good position to use for someone who tends to allow their hands to get in their way during a spanking. This position adds a lot of formality and tends to add an element of embarrassment due to the exposure one feels when assuming such a position. Today’s picture post is quite large, so click the “MORE” link for a dozen good pictures featuring this position.
From the member’s area of Realspankings.com
From the member’s area of Realspankings.com
From the member’s area of Realspankings.com
From the member’s area of RealspankingsInstitute.com
From the member’s area of RealspankingsInstitute.com
From the member’s area Girl’s Boarding School
From the member’s area Firm Hand Spanking
From the member’s area Firm Hand Spanking
From the member’s area Firm Hand Spanking
From the member’s area Firm Hand Spanking
From the member’s area Girl’s Boarding School
From the member’s area Firm Hand Spanking
Comments equal content
I would like to let you all know that comments on this blog, often result in not only what you see on here, but also influences what we film for our sites. With our new studio getting close to completion and our daily production schedule close to being back to full-time, your input here can really make a difference. I have always been able to post to the World Spanking Forum and ask people what they think about certain types of scenes. But honestly, most of the regular posters on our the forum are already members of my sites. This blog reaches a much broader audience and there are a lot of you out there who have never been a member of any of my sites. Maybe if I had a little more feedback from all of you, I would have a better idea of what I should be filming.
Yesterday’s post was a great example for me, with the discussion of Sarah. Early on when I first hired her, I questioned is she was a good fit for our sites. Yes, she is gorgeous, but her spankings are not as hard as my typical requirements for a model. Feedback from here and from the forum has helped to realize that even though the spankings aren’t very severe, they are hard for her. I have learned that people really like the fact that she hates to be spanked. This information alone may lead to a change in how we evaluate potential models. When you see me posting about school corporal punishment scenes, or young ladies bending over and grabbing their ankles for a punishment, tell me if I am getting close to the kind of content you want to view. There is a reason that many of my posts are so very specific in regards to a particular aspect of spanking, people’s tastes within their own fetish are very specific. I can look at the statistics for any of our websites and analyze page navigation. It is clear to me that when someone first signs up, they go looking for that specific thing that they really like. It may be all the otk scenes, the strapping scenes, wooden paddle scenes, or even all the fully nude spanking scenes. My blog posts tend to be about MY specific tastes within our kink, but the more I know about yours, the better the chance that this type of content will become a fantastic video in the future. So please do not be shy to comment, with the new studio being fully functional in just a couple of months, I need to start planning content now. Thanks.
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
Spanking Model Sarah
Yesterday at The World Spanking Forum I posted several times on a thread regarding one of the most beautiful spanking models from the two sites Realspankings.com and RealspankingsInstitute.com. Sarah is one of the most naturally beautiful girls to ever walk through our studio doors. Her bottom is as petite as they get and she is just so gorgeous, that I do not think any model has had as many pictures taken of her by us, that were simply just face shots.
Her very low pain tolerance always showed how subjective a spanking really can be. While her spankings were moderate on my scale, it is clear when you watch her being spanked that every spanking she ever received at our hands was very severe in her mind. On the forum we were discussing the fact that a lot of people think that all spanking models enjoy being spanked to some degree, but this was clearly never the case with Sarah. Sarah hated to be spanked, which always added so much to all of her scenes, they always had a real punishment feel to them as a result of the fact that she would do just about anything to avoid a spanking. This is not to say that Sarah never found any excitement when doing a shoot with us. It was pretty clear that there was an aspect of being fully naked in a room with several people that excited her. For those of you that watched her progression with us over the years, I am sure that you noticed that there was a bit of a budding romance that developed over time.
This kind of developed out of nowhere, but was clearly something that Sarah wanted to explore further. I will never forget the first scene that she did with Kailee, in which Kailee added a little sensuality into the mix. When the scene was over and the camera had stopped shooting, Sarah turned to Lady D and said, “Oh my God, that whole thing kind of made me wet”. From that day forward, you will see that her and Kailee worked a lot together and we allowed Sarah to explore this side of herself a little more. Pretty soon they were doing scenes together that turned into all out make out sessions, nipple biting, and whatever else these two kinky girls chose to do together in a very spontaneous way. It was fun to be on the camera side of things and see one of those “I experimented a little bit in college” things play out right in front of my eyes.
Sarah will always be one of the most popular and beautiful models to ever bare her bottom for a spanking video. I have dedicated an entire gallery to her and added it to my Free Spanking Galleries. This gallery consists of 40 pictures from some of my favorites spanking videos that Sarah has starred in. To date, she has shot 39 separate spanking scenes for Realspankings.com and 44 different scenes for RealspankingsInstitute.com. So if you have ever found yourself questioning if the Realspankings Pass is a good deal or not, you at least know that this one membership will buy you access to 83 spanking videos that feature Sarah. In addition, I think she that she was spanked while fully nude more than any model we have ever hired. Like I said, I think the nudity in front of people was half the thrill for her. Enjoy!
Monday, April 21, 2008
Fully naked and breasts bared for a spanking
Picture from the member’s area of Spanking Digital
There is often a big difference in what I like to see in a spanking video and what I like to do in my private spanking life. Typically, when watching a spanking video I look for realism. I am generally not the biggest fan of the fully nude spanking videos because it tends to stray away from how spankings are administered in real life. In my private life, I tend to incorporate a lot of full nudity into the spankings that I administer off camera. The primary reason being that young ladies that come to me for discipline, typically have a spanking fetish and enjoy some aspect of being spanked. But when I agree to administer off camera spankings, I only do so in situations in which the focus is real discipline for real life events. As I have previously written on this blog, I often look for ways to incorporate elements into the spanking that I know the person will not enjoy, therefore creating a punishment that has a better chance of decreasing the undesirable behavior. Regardless of how much a person likes being spanked, if the punishment begins with them being made to strip fully naked in front of a person that they are just meeting for the first time, it tends to be something that they remember and are a little reluctant to do. Forced nudity, exposed and uncomfortable corner time, writing lines and things of this nature help to take some of the enjoyment out of a spanking for someone into it, so I use these techniques as often as possible when trying to create a realistic discipline session.
While I do look for realism within spanking videos, it may come as no surprise to you that I have a little bit of a fetish within my fetish which is quite evident in my free spanking gallery Bare Breasted Spankings. I am a huge fan of how certain positions present the breasts during a spanking. As much of an “ass man” that I am, I can quickly become a “breast man” when a naked young lady is bent over just right during her spanking. While they most often present the best for me when someone is bent over with their hands on a chair or bed during their spanking:
Picture from the member’s area of Spanking Digital
Sometimes an otk spanking accomplishes the same results:
Image from the member’s area of Spanking Online
The picture does not always have to be during the spanking or involve a large breasted girl, sometimes it can be as simple as a naughty young lady with small breasts rubbing her bottom after her spanking:
Image from the member’s area of Spanking Online
So, while I think I prefer spanking video in which the young lady has her clothes on and her pants and panties pulled down to her knees, you can count on the fact that when I am viewing spanking content online, if there is a picture of someone being spanked fully nude and their breasts are presented in just the right way, these are pictures that make it to my personal collection.
All pictures above come from the Spank Pass family of sites.
Sunday, April 20, 2008
Bending over for a long hard switching on the bare bottom and back of the thighs.
Once again, if you ask for it, it may just appear. A comment this morning that I received for the post “Naughty young Asian maid receives a strict leg caning”:
“Thanks for posting these leg caning posts, complete with marks. Its not often you see the legs get punished on spanking sites,not much of this variation of discipline, old as it may be.
What I’d like to see would be some leg switchings, which produces marks similar to a cane. My favorite would be seeing the girl getting her legs switched while wearing short shorts(and the results after).”
While I do not have a switching video in which a switch is used only to punish her legs in “short shorts”, I do have a video of one of the hardest switchings I have ever administered. I did a mini movie for Bispanking.com called “The Intrusion” in which I administered some of the hardest punishments in recent memory. In the movie Claire, Jasmine, and Kailee were all punished long and hard by me, with all of them taking a severe strapping, a vicious switching, and a really rough otk hairbrushing, among other things.
The switching scene is probably the hardest switching I have administered and it left all three girls in tears. I started at the top of their bottoms, and then slowly worked my way down to just above their knees and then back up again. My switch traveled this path a few times up and down each girl’s legs. This switching is the one that led to these two pictures:
From the member’s area of Bispanking.com
From the member’s area of Bispanking.com
So since there was a formal request made for a good switching video on the blog, today I offer you the full video of Jasmine’s switching from both camera angles. Here is a couple of frame grabs from the video:
Even though Jasmine is a model that does find enjoyment from being spanked, she made it clear after we finished this scene that she found nothing at all appealing about the switching she received on her legs. The two pictures above are frame grabs from the actual punishment and not posed pictures, I think the expression on her face demonstrates exactly what a real switching on the thighs feels like. If you think she struggles with her switching, you should check out Claire’s, she made Jasmine look stoic. Click the “More” link below for the full video from both camera angles.
Video from the member’s area at Bispanking.com
Friday, April 18, 2008
Bikini spanking and a reverse sunburn
Usually when a young lady returns from the beach or the pool and she peels back her bikini bottoms, you see white where the swimsuit was and red where it was not. I thought this photo provides quite the opposite and gives her the look of a reverse sunburn:
From the member’s area of Realspankings.com
Once the spanking progresses and her bikini bottoms are removed for a dose of the leather paddle, the contrast does not seem so foreign:
From the member’s area of Realspankings.com
While I have worked with Monica a limited amount of times, she is quickly becoming one of my favorite young ladies to spank. With her desire for very severe canings and her constantly bugging me for a “real hairbrush punishment spanking” she is at the top of my list when the new studio opens. I will have to make sure that her next severe caning from me is immediately added to the member’s area of RealspankingsInstitute.com and I will make sure that the member’s of Realspankings.com are treated to a hairbrush spanking like they have not seen since the one I gave to Trish below. Get ready Monica I am going to give you all that you have been asking for and just a little more...I see tears in your future.
From the member’s area of Realspankings.com
caned calves then the thighs
Alright, I try not to get too repetitive on my posts, bu I do read every comment on the blog. The most recent comment in regards to the post “Painful punishments...caning of the feet, thighs, and calves” read..."WONDERFUL ,,, I loved it ...I am a bottom man myself but this is just the right thing ...Maybe we could move up to the thighs next and finish on the bottom .. What a thought ..More plz”.
In regards to these particular clips, I do not have any that moves from a calf caning to a thigh caning, and then a bottom caning. However, I do have plenty that start as a calf punishment and move on to become a thigh caning. So for those of you that hesitate to post comments, take note that when possible, ask and you shall receive. Click the “More” link below for the caning video that goes with the picture above in which a young lady receives a strict lower leg punishment and then is made to raise her skirt for some hard strokes of the cane to her upper thighs. The second video (sorry no still photo from it) shows a young lady after receiving her lower leg caning, made to assume the diaper position while on the bed and receive a hard upper thigh caning over her pantyhose. Enjoy!
Thursday, April 17, 2008
Naughty young Asian maid receives a strict leg caning
Another installment in my leg caning series of posts. In today’s video a young maid is given a lecture, told to go and retrieve a stool to stand on, and then receives a 7 minute punishment in which her calves are caned until welts appear. The first few minutes of the caning take place over her pantyhose, then she is made to role them down so she will not receive the benefit of that thin layer for protection. Once again, a very sexy video in which the entire focus is on the caning of the legs. Click the “More” link for the full video.
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
Full Review of RGE-Films “Hidden Camera II, the Client”
Click “More” for full review of “Hidden Camera II, the Client” from RGE Films
Movie Link- “Hidden Camera II, the Client”
Producer Link- RGE Films
Availability- Multi-format download, DVD
Gallery Link- “Hidden Camera, the Client” Gallery
To set the scene for this video, I offer you the exact description from the producers:
“One meets various people. Sometimes the first impression is a false one: behind the mask of the common man we find many different emotions, feelings, strange wishes and dreams. Sometimes they form strange fates and stories.
We like to hear these stories and we like even more to see them on the silver screen.
This story from Lupus Pictures is called “Hidden Camera II - The Client” and tells the story about a meeting between a wealthy entrepreneur, an aging whore and her two daughters.
What can money buy? The services of a whore? Of course. But what if that’s not enough? What if the client discovers that the whore has two pretty daughters?
It would be great if one could peek into their room and see their most intimate moments, their naked bodies and girlish play - without being seen himself! And that is what money can buy - a hidden camera to see into the girls’ room
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We can see everything the customer sees. One girl even pleasures herself - and the client is pleasured as well. But then school troubles come - bad marks and the girl is spanked on the bare bottom by her mother. And our voyeur is even more delighted. Now how to arrange a spanking for second girl as well? When the client discovers where the girl?s grade book is hidden, her fate is sealed.
But it would be even better if he could punish them himself. With a cane. And soundly! Can money buy this as well?
Of course it can! The green paper is enchanted; the client’s dreams come true. He gets everything, the girls’ naked bodies, their bottoms whipped by a stingy cane. Their tears, painful cries and silent promise that this is the first, but definitely not last time.
Enjoy the new movie from Lupus Pictures. Lose yourself in the story and see all that you are maybe secretly dreaming about. Or just have a good time and agree with us that real life contains far more interesting stories than one’s imagination.”
Quick Stats:
Total Spankings administered: 4
Spanking #1- “Daughter” 1, otk handspanking, bare bottom, 49 swats, from “mother”
Spanking #2- “Daughter” 2, otk handspanking 44 swats, from “mother”
Spanking #3- “Daughter” 2, 40 strokes severe caning, fully naked, bent over chair, from “client”
Spanking #4- “Daughter” 1, 40 strokes severe caning, fully naked, bent over chair, from “client”
My Review:
This is a movie I have been curious about since its release and have recently watched the full download from the RGE Films site. A big plus from the very beginning from this site is there are various download options. You can choose file format, NTSC or PAL, and even Ipod formats as your download. While I choose to download, I could have also chosen to have the DVD shipped to me, but I am not all that patient.
What originally attracted me to this movie is the voyeur aspect. I love a spanking scene that feels like I am watching something as it actually happens, and that it seems I am not supposed to see. The description from the producer gives the overall concept, so I will focus more on the individual scenes. Most of the first half of the movie is shown from the voyeur camera’s perspective. We get to see the client fast forwarding through day’s worth of video filmed from a hidden camera in the two daughter’s bedroom. Whenever he gets to something interesting, we get a full screen view of what he has stopped to watch. There are various scenes of the daughters dancing around in the underwear, changing for school, walking around naked, getting ready for a shower and so on. The longest voyeur scene before we get to the spanking action is a scene of one of the girls laying fully naked on her bed and masturbating.
After the masturbation scene, he fast forwards until he gets to a scene with the mother coming in the room and yelling at one of the daughters for her recent grades. The mother smacks the girl over the head a few times and pulls her over her knee for a spanking. The first few swats are administered over the girl’s panties, the rest are on the bare. She receives 49 medium to hard smacks on her cute little bottom and is then pushed to the floor. While it is not the hardest hand spanking I have watched, there is a very strong element of realism. The mother figure is clearly angry, there is no formality, and she simply pulls the daughter over her lap and starts spanking her while showing anger and frustration. The entire spanking is shown from the fixed voyeur cam, which adds to the feeling of seeing a real domestic spanking applied to a young lady from her mother.
The next spanking scene is very similar to the first. This time it is the other daughter that as spanked. She is made to lower her panties before her spanking and then is pulled over the mother’s knee for a hand spanking. This spanking consists of 44 smacks to the bare bottom and is similar in severity to the first scene. Just as with the first scene, this is shot all from the voyeur perspective and there is a high element of realism.
As the storyline above describes, the client who arranged to watch all of this video decides that he wants to be able to administer his own punishments to these two young ladies, so he pays the mother a good sum of money and gets his wish. From this point in the movie until the end, they switch to the camera angles you are used to seeing in a spanking video, a butt cam and a face cam.
Each girl gets a turn under the cane at the hands of the client. They both receive their canings while fully nude and these are very severe canings. Both of the girls take 40 severe strokes, from the top of their bottom, to the upper thighs. Before it is over, both bottoms are covered with welts and bruises. If you are a lover of realistic discipline, administered in a realistic home setting, then this is the video for you.
The thing that really makes this movie so good for me is the male spanker and what he brings to all of the scenes he is in. He is the spanker from the very severe caning movies Wild Party and Wild Party II. I just briefly described the canings in the paragraph above, because I wanted to add some details here that discuss something beyond just the actual spanking in the videos. What I want to see in a video is realism, and being that most spanking videos involve paid actors, following scripts and direction, only so much realism can be achieved. But on rare occasions, the scene transcends the script and actually becomes real. Let me try to better explain.
With this particular spanker, in most of the movies he appears in, he makes it very real. In a typical spanking video, if the model really starts to struggle with the pain, you will often see the spanker lighten up, or pause, or find some way to make it easier on the model. I have also watched spanking movies, including ones from RGE Films site in which as the spanking gets too hard, you see the person being spanked, or even the spanker, look off camera to the person in charge, trying to figure out what to do. But this dynamic never exists when this man has a cane in his hand. In the first caning, it takes the girl around 30 strokes before she bursts into tears. During the second caning, the girl is all out sobbing by the fifth stroke. Typically in a spanking movie, the girl who starts crying from the beginning tends to get off a little easier, but not in this movie, with this spanker. In his scenes, you actually begin to see the girls doing exactly as they are told, because when they don’t they get it harder. In the second caning in this video, the girl is having a very hard time trying to remain still. But as she takes longer to get back into position, the cane strokes become much harder. I do not think this is something from the script, this is him letting them know that they are going to take their caning and under his terms. You actually begin to see the dynamic change from spanking models being paid to get spanked, to a young lady that will do anything she is told in order for the punishment to end as quickly as possible.
Another part of this movie, and with this particular spanker, that you see is the real fear involved. There is no acting involved as the second daughter watches the first get the cane, she knows she is next, she knows she is also getting 40 strokes, and she now knows how real it will be. This is what I mean by the movie transcending the script, this caning just became a very real event for the girls. This same dynamic is visible in both of the “Wild Party” videos. The girls have read the script, probably rehearsed the scenes, but when that first cane strokes hits, the look on everyone’s face changes. At this point there is no denying the fact that they are really going to be punished and that there is nothing they can do to really prepare themselves for the reality of what they are watching. This spanker’s technique might seem harsh to many that view these movies. But if you are looking for realism in a video, that actually brings a real element of discipline into a movie, then look for this man as the spanker. Just because it hurts more than they thought it would, does nothing to change his approach. If anything, he does not seem to like it when the girls do not follow his directions, and even if they are crying their eyes out, the punishment gets harder as long as they are not doing what he is telling them to do.
Final Thoughts:
-Decent handspanking scenes made great by the setting, the voyeur cam, and the realism.
-Severe canings without becoming too brutal, very realistic, an added element of realism as a result of the spanker.
-This is a fictional movie, but does deal with the concept of daughters being spanked in their home in a very real and easy to believe way.
-I give this movie 4 ½ stars out of five.
Movie Link- “Hidden Camera II, the Client”
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
Spanking DVD Reviews Coming Soon
Tomorrow I will begin one of several new features to the spanking blog, I will be posting my first spanking DVD review. There are a lot of spanking video producers out there, and many of them produce very good products. On the other hand, if you are like me, you may have joined a spanking site or bought a spanking video only to realize that you wasted you money. Tomorrow I will do my first DVD review, and in the weeks to come, you will begin to see spanking site reviews with large sample and preview galleries. I think one of the things that has made my blog and my sites popular, is that I am one of you. I am not just someone who just decided that spanking might be a good way to make money, it all began with a lifelong interest and I feel that many of you read my posts and realize that we think in a similar fashion. Hopefully my detailed reviews of videos and sites that I like will help point you in the right direction.
So tomorrow, I will give you a very detailed explanation about how two beautiful young ladies’ bottoms ended up looking like this:
As I do a comprehensive review of Lupus/RGE Film’s “Hidden Camera II”, a movie that I have been curious about for a very long time and finally got the chance to view. I will break down the entire movie by scene and include a free picture gallery for you to preview.
Sorority Girls Waiting to be Paddled
I have just uploaded a new sorority paddling gallery. This gallery features young coeds waiting for the first paddle swat to hit their bottoms. A few of these pictures feature the sorority girl with a paddle, clearly waiting to apply a good paddling. You can view the new gallery Here.
Innocence and Beauty meets Bound and Punished
Pictures from the member’s area of Hogtied.com
Now Honestly, if you were walking down the street and saw this young lady, would you guess in a million years that a couple days earlier that she was fully naked, tied to a pole with her legs spread wide, gagged, breasts bound tightly, and getting her ass and legs caned?
I think for all of us there is an attraction to the innocent looking girl next door type getting a hard spanking, or as in the case of this post, being tied up, punished, and forced to have multiple orgasms. I think part of it comes from walking through a mall, seeing a beautiful but innocent looking woman, and wondering if she is really as innocent as she looks. In the spanking industry, one of the biggest problems we face is the fact that a lot of the girls who are willing to bare their bottoms and take a hard spanking, are often covered in tattoos. It seems that there is a direct correlation between a willingness to be spanked to tears, and the desire to endure some pain for some artwork on your body. Just as with my own sites, in which the most innocent looking girls seem to quickly become the member’s favorites, when it comes to Hogtied my favorite scenes typically always involve the young and innocent beauties. This does not always mean that these are the best scenes with the hardest spankings, or the tightest bondage. But for me seeing a young lady who looks like a babysitter or a preschool teacher, being lifted off the ground with a crotch rope, it doesn’t get much better than that. Click on the “MORE” link for some of my favorite innocent beauties from Hogtied.com.
All pictures from the member’s area of Hogtied.com
Monday, April 14, 2008
Formality and cooperation during a punishment spanking
An aspect of spanking that I have always found to be quite important is formality. I am not a big fan of just grabbing a naughty young lady, pulling her over my lap, and holding her in place while I administer a spanking. I guess that in my twisted little head, I feel the spanker is actually performing a service to the person in trouble, and that as a result, full cooperation is required. By making the punishment a very formal event, we add an aspect that I think really defines a proper spanking, which is cooperation.
I feel it is the duty of the person being spanked to cooperate in every way. If I am going to take time from my day to administer some much needed discipline, then I feel almost all aspects of the event, with the exception of the actual spanking, should be taken care of by the person in trouble. It is not my role to hold the person in place, it is their job to hold still being that it is their actions that led us here. The more formality that is introduced to the spanking, the more they are forced to cooperate, or actually even help out in their own punishment. A nice and formal way to get a spanking started and assure that they realize that they are not only going to be spanked, but they are actually assisting, is to send them to get the implement that they are to be punished with.
Sarah from RealspankingsInstitute.com retrieves the school paddle.
This is why you will often see me in a spanking scene pay so much attention to position. Just pushing someone over the back of the couch and strapping them with my belt does not require them to assist in their own punishment. I like to make them pull their own pants and panties down, or raise their own skirt. I like to tell them what position to assume and then offer small corrections to their posture. I try to find as many ways as possible to make it clear that I am not just spanking them, but that we are acting together to work through the solution to their behavior. I believe it adds a certain amount of ownership to their misdeeds. On occasion I do divert from my practice of having the person in trouble pull down their pants or remove their own clothing. People are generally not in the situation of having someone remove their clothing that they are not in an intimate relationship with. I do find that on occasion when an impression really needs to be made, the level of discomfort can be raised by being the one to lower their pants and panties. The look on their face, as someone who is typically not allowed access to the removal of their clothing begins to lower their pants and panties, generally says it all. They realize that they really are in trouble and that as a result of their behavior; standard personal boundaries no longer apply.
Jennifer from Realspankings.com & Brandi from Spankingteenbrandi.com
There are aspects of the spanking having a feeling of formality that go beyond simple cooperation that I often like to include. I feel that being made to wait for the spanking, thus giving a very strong sense of anticipation can help any punishment. Any of you who were spanked as kids know that being sent to your room and having to wait for it was always the worst part. Even worse, is a scheduled spanking. Having to wait is one thing, but nothing is more formal than being told that on Friday, at 7:00PM, you will be receiving your spanking. This also seems to have a direct effect on behavior. There have been plenty of times that I have spanked a young lady, only to have her repeat the same behavior almost immediately. But when a spanking is promised, and is still days away, it is amazing how much behavior improves until the actual spanking takes place. It is sometimes easy to forget the last spanking that you just received, but almost impossible to forget the one you have coming. A good studio example is a set of spanking videos that I did with Bailey, Monica, and Raquel. Both Bailey and Monica enjoy various aspects of spanking, but you should have seen the looks on their faces when I arrived. Neither of them had been spanked by me before and they had known for weeks that this shoot was going to happen. When I arrived, I could hear the girls giggling and getting ready for the shoot, but when I walked in, they went dead silent. From that moment on the mood was very different. I asked them why they were all of a sudden quiet, and they let me know that it was the fact that as much as it had been talked about, they now knew they were going to be spanked by me and that there was a certain amount of fear that went along with that. It was not until after their first spanking from me that they begin to act like themselves again. Anticipation is a very powerful punishment tool.
Brandi from Spankingteenbrandi.com, waits for her paddling
I have obviously spoken about this topic on many occasions, but I feel nothing makes a spanking more formal than corner time. The spanking is no longer as simple as “you have been bad, and you were spanked for it”. Just as with the waiting process, this really focuses all thoughts on the behavior that brought us to this moment. It once again adds a process of cooperation. No one really wants to kneel in a corner, bare butt on display, panties around their ankles, and holding their skirt up…which brings us back to position. I have never dragged anyone to the corner and forced them to kneel. I politely inform them to walk to the corner and then tell them in a very detailed manner how they will position themselves. I seem to always make simple corrections such as, “legs a little wider”, “arms behind your head”, “nose touching the wall”, and anything else I can think of that makes them help out with what is a truly unpleasant process. I am once again helping them to achieve a sense of ownership for their own punishment. This also prolongs the punishment and there is no better time for reflection than when there are no distractions and your bottom is still throbbing.
Jasmine does a little corner time at RealspankingsInstitute.com
In closing, there are many aspects of a spanking that can make it a very formal event that I feel add to the overall success of the punishment. Requiring the person in trouble to assist in every way during their punishment helps them achieve ownership of the process. By making them retrieve the implement, remove their own clothing, and assume the required position, they are doing more than just getting spanked; they are assisting with their own punishment. The process of waiting for a spanking, or spending time in the corner after a spanking, allows detailed thoughts in regards to the situation that led them there, both of which really help with the chances of the punishment being an overall success and the undesired behavior being reduced.
Please comment on this post, feedback needed
Above, I have posted a couple of quick pics just for the sake of conversation. The pictures above are obviously smaller than the typical picture that I post on my page. One shows a naughty Asian schoolgirl, clearly in an embarrassing moment and on display after her punishment. The other shows the disadvantage of having your legs caned. A typical well caned bottom that is marked is easy to cover up, but that skirt isn’t quite covering the fact that this young lady was just punished.
My point about these pictures, is that all the pictures that I post on my the spanking blog are clickable for a full sized image. I tend to post pretty large thumbnails and it clearly affects how fast the pages load. I need to know from all of you, if my page loads to slowly for you. Please comment and let me know, so I can decide as to if I will make my page thumbnails smaller. If I go with the smaller thumbs, it will allow more pictures with each post on the main page. But before I make such a big change, I need your feedback. You do not need to be a member to comment, there are no hoops to jump through, just click on the “add comment” and let me know if the page loads fast or slow for you. Thanks!
Sunday, April 13, 2008
Chat now
Doing a short chat tonight, right now at World Spanking Forum, 8:00, Sunday, see ya there.